Premature ejaculation? -
im 17 and from my knowledge have an average size penis. im athletic and in good shape. my problem is when im with my girlfriend, i rarely last longer than a minute or two. is this normal? i dont think it is normal and im wondering how i can make myself last longer.
Occasionally losing control is normal, Premature ejaculation is only a problem if it happens all the time. It’s important to remember that most men occasionally reach orgasm sooner than they’d like. For example, it is normal for a man to ejaculate quickly the first time he has sex
It is also normal if a man hasn’t ejaculated for a long time.
http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature.…
The good news is that this is a problem that is highly curable, providing the man is willing to get help and invest the time and effort needed. It is believed that 80% to 90% of men are able to learn better control through therapy.
The first step to lasting longer is to become familiar with one-s self. Be comfortable with your body, its sensations and the feelings leading up to orgasm. You should learn and be able to predict when the orgasm will occur. This will prevent it from creeping up on you and taking you by surprise. This will also help you do what is necessary to prevent you from reaching that -point of no return.-
The -stop and start- method involves bringing yourself just before the point of no return and stopping all movement before it is too late. When the urgency to ejaculate subsides, start thrusting again, and repeat several times.
This can also be practiced using your partner-s hand, mouth or even by yourself. It may require some trial and error, as you may pass that point accidentally.
The male orgasm/ejaculation involves the contraction of many muscles in and around the pelvic region.Mind plays an important role during ejaculation.If you know how to identify these muscles and how to control your mind,ejaculation won-t happen until you desire.Natural treatments are best to delay ejaculation
http://www.prejaculationcure.info
Soooo I-m a girl and from my experience with my boyfriend I can tell you if all is normal with your body otherwise think about practice makes perfect. There was a point in our relationship where we could go forever, this was in the beginning honeymoon stage. Now that we are both in school taking like 18 credits each and have jobs, free time is of the essence and any free time we do have it usually involves passing out. When we do have sex he is always embarrassed because he doesn-t last very long. It was just evident that when we did it more we last longer now that we don-t do it as often we don-t. I wouldn-t worry too much. If you were really worried I would head to the doc and just check everything out.
Hope I helped.
From my expereinces. First of all relax a bit when you doing . The important is the oral sex you give each other . start slowly don be in a hurry , cos i used to be like that so i came quick also . Also if you feel that you are coming stop pumping . stop for a while explore here . If you afraid she cool down just give her some kiss and oral again.
Important you must enjoy not to be like you in a hurry.
Pratice masturbate longer to get the feeling of when you are coming.
from a girls point of view, everytime you feel likeyou are about to get off you have to stop, so does she just wait a minute until you feel the sensation of getting off ease then continue eventually after doing this you will beable to go longer. it might take a while until your able to control it but you will!
i didnt get to read all the comments but ALL GUYS MUST READ THIS!
In order to last longer in sex takes time. all guys know how to -flex- there penis. during the day or anytime you have flex your penis. as many times as you want, you dont have to be erect. just flex it slowly. it will not show for the first couple of days but in time it will, drasically. trust me it works i use to last a bout 5 min now i go forever. be patent.
Some guys are only short, other guys take forever. Every bloke is different.
A minute or two is a little short but why don-t you work on getting her off before diving in! She will enjoy it more and obviously you don-t mind when she makes you orgasm!
Maybe she is just that much of a turn on for you :)
It-s normal for your age. You get so worked up that it just lets go. As you get older you will learn how to hold it back and enjoy it. Try masturbating before you have sex. It should help you last longer during intercourse. Good luck.
you will get more use to it as time goes on...how long has this been going on and is it your first relationship with sexual action?
like an hour before u have sex, masterbate so when u have sex with your girlfriend, youll still able to get it up and youll last a little longer
Many people say 2 think of something else or breeding right when you are doing it but i say have a couple of drinks before that should do the trick hehe..
Lol jerk it a lot get rid of some steam and after ejaculating a lot you should be lasting longer or your just wierd
count from 10-1 or say the alphabet in the opposite order (from Z to A)
Think of something else while your in action.Focus on something like sports and is normal.
Premature ejaculation? -