Ejaculation problem during sex? -
i just turned 18 and i finally lost my virginity last night. When i was having sex i stayed hard for like 3 hours but still couldn-t ***, is this normal? Its never like this when i masturbate. Me and the girl had a little liquor, but she didn-t have any problem getting an orgasm. Is there any reason behind this?
Could be the booze. Could be nerves. All that matters is that she-ll think you-re a stud and come back for more! Welcome to the club my friend.
It-s probably sexual stage fright. You couldn-t relax and let go because you were too aware of this other person watching you. This may go away by itself as the novelty wears off. If not, you will have to desensitize yourself by masturbating while she knows you-re doing it. First masturbate to orgasm while she-s in the other room. When you can do that easily, have her come in the room where you-re masturbating, but promise not to look at you. Next step, she DOES look at you. Then she gets closer, until she-s staring at you up close the whole time. Finally, you learn to come while she-s masturbating you.
Congratulations my friend. on a monday no less. drinking does help with lasting longer, but not for 3 hours. If you were wearing condoms, that can effect sensitivity also. Try masturbating while wearing condoms so you can adapt to them, even though they will feel nothing alike. Could have been your nerves as well.
Where it is situational (ok with masturbation but not with partner) it sounds psycholgical It could be ejaculatory incompetence You can read about it here
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/…
I think that you have come up with the cure for premature ejaculation. Congratulations! Think of all the guys that are going for two minutes and game over.
Nice work made it to the big leagues maybe try some different positions and yeah it could be the liqour
Yeah its the booze. If your drunk believe it or not it doesnt work, our teacher told us that lol. I dont know why its vice versa for girls though