Thursday, June 2, 2011

Fiance has premature ejaculation? -

Fiance has premature ejaculation? -

We-ve been sexually active for about 2 ? months now. Usually we have sex for like 30-40 mins... we lose track of time. But lately he ejaculates about 2 mins after we start. What could be affecting this, how could we stop it from happening?


Hi, you asked a serious question and so far there have only been smartass answers. My wife and I had been married several years when the same thing started happening to me. My wife and I talked about the problem and together we were able to work it out. For us, it was as simple as slowing down or even stopping (briefly) when it was about to happen. Surprisingly, stopping allowed time to do other things and as a result, our sex life improved dramatically. I hope this helps.

One other thing, make sure to talk to him and let him know that you are happy, but that you would like to make it better for the both of you...

Good luck...
May be some stress. Spend more time in foreplay. Try in the later part of night after a good rest. If the problem persists, see a doctor.
Let me get this straight.......you agreed to marry a guy you-ve only been schtupping for 2.5 months?

And it-s only half an hour each time???!?!!

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Hi,
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Hope this helps
Not trying to be gross, but he-s probably not snapping the lizard as much as he used to since he-s now with you. That-ll reduce his endurance in that respect.
Maybe its just because you-ve only been sexually active for a short period of time. You said that is only recently a problem, right? Not sure what could be causing this.
But here-s some things you could try:
You could try using the squeeze technique. Before he ejaculates withdraw his penis and apply firm but light pressure with your index finger on the top his penis head and thumb underneath and hold for 30 seconds or until he loses the wind in his sails, sort of speak. then resume having sex again. This will prolong intercourse.
I-ve also heard that penis rings might work too to prolong things. Just look online.
Good luck.
He needs more practise. Your guide for knowledge,
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Sounds like you-re turning him on more. Maybe you need to do it twice. I-m sure he-ll be slower the second time. It doesn-t sound like classic premature ejaculation.
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If he cums that fast, you must be way HOT!!!!!!

Try way more fore-play. Have him use toys to bring you to pleasure and climax first; then he can get his 2 minutes of intercourse.
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what about doing it agian
you know more than once
i would get it up twice or even 3 times
i wouldnt quit
Anxiety or stress may be the reason. I think it-s a passing phase. U both will be OK, good luck!
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. Maybe he has a serotonin deficiency. That is one of the major causes of premature ejaculation.
The better the quality of a womans vagina..wet hot and tight...the faster a man will climax every time..unless he is under the influence of something that will delay his ejaculation and orgasm...it is possible for a man to ejaculate and not have a true extasy..but if he ejaculating very quickly then you have a good quality of vaginal walls and fluids...and its not big and sloppy and dry...now you have to not let him do full insertions and prolong the forplay to help you reach the climax too.
You are right to address it early before it becomes an habbit. Things to look at maybe would include -are you exciting him overly before you start (oral, hands, visual etc)-, -are there any perceived risks or time pressures that may be making him want to get it done quickly?-, or -have you stopped doing something that slowed him down such as stopping using a condom?- If things don-t improve quickly see a therapist.
it happens to all guys to be quicky sometimes. Maybe he-s stress out. give him a relaxing and conducive scenario. You can tackle it and plan for a more enjoyable sex next time. goodluck to both of you.
tell him to train his pc muscle its what stop you from peeing half way through tell him to go to ask men.com they have loads of premature sorta stuff don-t listen to most of the pricks on here

and if that doesnt work im always here ;)
Fiance has premature ejaculation? -

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Hi Plz respond seriously...Premature ejaculation? -

Hi Plz respond seriously...Premature ejaculation? -

Hi All,

I am not sure what are the real symptoms of premature ejaculation but i guess am suffering from one. Most times when i do masturbation i ejaculate within 20-30 secs and even when am with my gf and we r in an intimate position(not sex) i happen to ejaculate quite quickly like if she touches my penis then within 30-40 secs i ejaculate.

Pls tell me is there any scientific way to overcome this problem.

Waiting for some helpful responses
The exercises mentioned work.

To strenghten your penis, when you go to the bathroom you use those muscles to start and stop peeing, next time you go, do that, start peeing then stop, do it again repeteadly, so you understand what were talking about. Once you understand what that is you can continue practicing all they long, that means when you are not peeing, that will help give you some control over your dick.

Now also you need to gain control of your self mentally, and it is also a question of will power and practice.

Try masturbating, and when you feel getting near the point of ejaculation stop, relax, and once de the feeling goes away, start again, do that repeatdly and yu will get accostumed to that feeling, also you could mentally think of something else, instead of focusing on your pleasure and letting go, get a hold of you, try it, and do for example math, it sounds real stupid but you will see you will lasta a LITTLE longer, this is just so you understand it is all mental and eventually you could simply DECIDE not to ejaculate.

Finally it is not a matter of multiple orgasms or tantric sex for hours, you jus need to stop that permature E and this would help.

The stuff about the cream might work, bur my bet is yopu would loose your hard on , as your penis goes numb, still its worth a shot.

Finally, if you are too young, you just might not be ready to control that, sorry to say this and I dont mean it as an agression, i am trying to help you, but the fact that lots of teen are having sex, does not mean they know what they are doing, and for sure doesnt mean they are good at it thats a fact.

good luck



basically you should
yep, premature ejaculation to the 10th degree. Dude, chill relax, take it easy. Learn Multiple Male Orgasm techniques. (available on line, bookstores and I-ve found copies of it in our local library). Learn stop and go routines. (when you-re about to come HOLD IT, relax, build back up, Hold it, relax, do that about 5 or a desired max time and then release, if desired.

when jacking off or having sex use a Desentizer lotion/creme/potion.
You could masturbate before you have sex. Or incorporate it as part of your -routine-. Also, focus on your partner and getting her off; leaving insertion till the very last second.

Look up and learn about kegel exercises. They can assist in controlling the genitals and premature ejaculation.
you ever tried masturbating before you get to see her,sometimes that will help because all it is ,you can get over aroused and sensitive.by doing this before she stops by you dull your senses some.
Hi Plz respond seriously...Premature ejaculation? -