Premature ejaculation? -

Premature ejaculation? -

I REALLY HATE IT. My girlfriend loves my size and frankly i dont think its bad myself. but bottom line, once i am in her its like 10 seconds and thats it. i know she hate it she just doesnt say anything, i need a way and i dont want to use desensitivizing creams so please any other options

facts
i am 19
overweight 20-45 lbs
stressed
paranoid
and a hard worker

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The stressed and paranoid have me thinking these might be big factors for you, you have to be calm to maintain for the most part.

Also given the fact you are 19 (Not that I can help you with knowledge here I-m a 19 year old virgin), it could just be lack of experience, that will probably come gradually.

As for other things, maybe it-s the condom you-re using, you might want to look and see if there-s any other types or brands that can help you.

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not to be sick or any thing but start waking it! use the muscles like when your peeing and you -flex- and stop use those muscles to help control the feeling. but seriously practice on you self alone and get a feel for it you-ll see what I-m talking about.

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ghahhaah aha hhah hahhaagahgahagagagah 10 secs nah im playin it happens to the best of us. try rubbing off the easy one b4 having sex you go longer. you also need to get into better shape because better shape means longer endurance.

Premature ejaculation? -

How can you have a dry ejaculation while masterbating? -

How can you have a dry ejaculation while masterbating? -

This is not possible. A true ejaculation involes semen escaping and this is in no way dry. The only way that you could do something of the sort is get right up to climax and stop before ejaculation. Which wouldn-t be very much fun, now would it?

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I believe what you are attempting to describe is something called male continence. this is what it is called when you have an orgasm without ejaculating any semen. the best way to learn how to do this is to look for books or websites that on Kegel exercises. Kegels will teach you how to control you PC muscle (PC stands for a really long scientific name), which can lead you to control ejaculation.
NOTE: it often takes weeks of practicing Kegels to master it.
the benefits of doing these exercises is a much longer sexual experience, many men use it to last for hours with their partner.
here-s a quick way to start doing the exercise. next time your urinating, place your fingers right behind your testicles. then stop urinating in mid-stream, the muscle you used to stop urinating is the PC. now every day flex that muscle 20 times at 3 times a day. that will help the muscle get stronger.

How can you have a dry ejaculation while masterbating? -