Saturday, March 22, 2014

Premature ejaculation during Masturbation will it affect my sex life? -

Premature ejaculation during Masturbation will it affect my sex life? -

I-m 16 Male ,Okay so whenever I-m sexually aroused I masturbate and my time lasts only about 2-3minutes sometimes even less. Will that be my time in bed during sex? Are there any methods of lasting longer...because Im rather worried.

Last question Is it a bad practice to masturbate whilst watching porn? because that also might be a factor to why i ejaculate early.

thank you for all the help


Orgasms are all mental. It-s completely in your head. So masturbate all you want - what you really need to do is develop mind control. When you feel like you-re close to coming, think about something entirely unrelated to sex. Think about food, TV, anything to get your mind off sex. You-ll find that by diverting your mind, you-ll no longer need to ejaculate. Then, when your partner-s coming close, you can revert your thoughts back to sex, and all of a sudden, it-ll come building up extremely fast, and you two should be able to finish at the same time.
From personal experience, i think watching porn plays a part in how early you ejaculate. If you do practice stopping and starting (as the first answerer said) i think it would be a good way to practice lasting longer. Other than that, if you masturbate more frequently i think you can last longer because you don-t have as much semen built up and are not extremely aroused.
you just need to keep jacking off and when you feel that you are about to c u m then stop jacking off and then wait like 10 seconds and then go at it again and eventually you will be able to last longer
Premature ejaculation during Masturbation will it affect my sex life? -

Thursday, March 20, 2014

Ejaculation for teens? -

Ejaculation for teens? -

ok so im a late bloomer, im 15 and just started getting dark pubes. ok so the last couple of times i masturbated, like clear stuff came out at the orgasm. its not shooting at all, just like i few drops coming(pun) out. is it just because i just started. o ya its clear not white, but its sticky cause its gotten on my hands. so when will i start SHOOTING the 3s instead of easy layups?


in time your sperm + semen production will increase. the clear fluid is just some seminal fluid, with some sperm. in time your semen will become whiter, and you-ll have more sperm.

Also, overdoing it causes this to happen, masturbate max 3 times a day, and even that causes mine to go clear, I do it once a day, and sometimes even give myself a break.
It sounds as if what you-re talking about it not a proper ejaculation, but instead the fluid you see if pre-ejaculate or -pre c*m- as it-s known. You can produce pre ejaculate fluid if you are erect and aroused, without actually masturbating. You may not have actually experienced your first ejaculation yet but this is a good sign that you are on your way there. Pre ejaculate fluid is mans only natural lubricant but does contain sperm sells (although obviously in much fewer quantities than an actual ejaculation). I had my first ejaculation at 14 and believe me you-ll notice the difference! I don-t think you-re a late bloomer, you sound about right, but everyone-s different. Masturbating regularly will encourage development of semen and learning how to edge (bring your youself almost to the brink of orgasm, stopping, and then repeating this process) will also encourage a powerful orgasm and resulting ejaculation.
Just wait a few more weeks or months, then you-ll see that your ejaculation will turn whiter and increase in volume, about the shooting, not all the time you-ll be shooting sperm 4 feet away, it depends on the actual degree of stimulation the more stimulated the bigger the chance you-ll be shooting far, usually it comes out in globules, or oozing..
The stuff you see now is called pre-ejaculate. Its basically the same fluid as semen, only it has fewer sperm cells in it. So what that means is you-re working towards an orgasm (that causes ejaculation) but you-re stopping before you get there. So just keep going as you are. Maybe think about someone that really turns you on are fantasize about whatever you like to help your self out. When you reach an orgasm, you-ll know about it.
Just keep practicing. You will get better at it and so will your body. You should think naughty thoughts. Look at some pics on the internet of female body parts....that will get you a good strong orgasm. Type in vulva, vagina, clitoris, labia, nipple, areola, breast. You will see all kinds, sizes, shapes, nationalities. Very erotic.
You just have to be patient, let nature take it- course
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