Facing problem of fast ejaculation? -
i m 22 years, and i faced problem of fast ejaculation( in 30-50 sec). why n how that happened. how i solved that problem without taking help of doctor
take your mind off of ejaculation... think of something else... pratice...
A lot of answers here are correct. If you just started having sex, then it is pretty normal because of the newness of it all. Waited all your life for this point and boom here it is kind of thing.
A couple of things that I have found out that will help. When masturbating, do it slowly. You want to let the pressure build up slowly until you feel the bubbling tide, and then stop for a little bit and let it reside some, then resume until it starts peaking, then stop, then start and let yourself go. You can usually stop twice and go the third time with little concequences. If you try for more than that, I find that it tends to get frustrated and you are in for a lot more work.
When you go, try holding onto it for as long as you can. The hardest thing is going to be keeping your speed slow as the urge to just flail away will build with the pressure. Resist it. You want to closely mimic the actual speed of sex so you acclimate to that kind of sensation.
Also, when you are having sex, realize that the porn movies have it all wrong. Its not so much about the jackhammer pounding as it is about sensual stimulation. The vast majority of women do not get off with actual intercourse because most of the nerves are not in the vagina but in the clit at the top. Pulling most of the way out and pushing in leave the clit with very little stimulation. Instead, you should try slow deep thrusts where you only pull out about an inch or so before you push in. Make sure to rub on her clit in a rocking kind of motion. All women are different, so the speed and force and fluidity of movement will vary depending on the woman. But then again, that-s half the fun of sex, figuring out what works and what doesn-t.
A little practice on delaying yourself is all you really need. And the suggestions about thinking about soccer, or a shopping list, or balancing your checkbook work very well also. Anything that takes some serious thought to distract yourself from what is going on until the moment recedes and then you can refocus on it. I find that thinking of stocks and which one to buy and calculating PE rations in my head works wonders if I need to back off that precipice. Of course, if she is wailing away, there is little that can be done.
Hi Friend,
you dint mentioned how often you do mastrubate, if not then make a habit of mastrubating to avoid with
1.Fast Ejaculation
2.Night mare Ejaculation (Drips off in the pant in night due to dreams or so on )
Still any problem mail be @
moola_2k1@yahoo.com
Secunderabad
heres ways to improve :
-excercize
-eat healthy
-drink 8 cups of water daily
-avoid heat
-dont use lubricants
-careful how many times you jack off daily
-take a multivitamin daily
-dont drink alcohol
-dont do any type of drug
its basically becasue of your health, so do your best to do everything on the list and your sure to see improvement
good luck
its simple my friend. all you need to do is take deep breaths while in the act. then as soon as you come to know that you arriving then immideately stop the act. then again continue after counting till 13. this way you can go on till atleast 3 mins. trust me it works.
It-s a kind of sexual dysfunction that is treatable.Search -Male Sexual Dysfunction- in google and -Ejaculation- as well,you will find out many links that give information about fast ejaculation,its reasons,medical care and the ways to get over this dysfunction.
First of all come out of that mindset that you ejaculate. sex is half played in mind. reduce masturbation as much as possible if not fully. during sex, try to divert your mind to the incidents which upsets you like some incident in office or at home. think more about those. use condoms. possible cheap ones :) as those are more thick and reduce sensitivity. Ihope it helps.
more fore play and don-t get in to the act straight away.Wait and think some thing which may give some deviation and keep playing. stop- squeeze method also will help to some extent. meditation during the act will give some more time.make your partner wet before you act and delay entry.these things and some tips like this will help 60% relief certainly.
this is a small exercise: start mastrubation and few second before you explode stop. after the erection is gone start again, do it 2-3 times and then let your self ejaculate.Also do it while you pee. It has to do something with the muscles of your genitals. It really work!!
How do you solve it? Masturbate before sex and it will take you longer to ejaculate again. The more you masturbate, the longer it will take to orgasm. Pretty awesome, huh? It-s the opposite for females. The more we masturbate, the easier it is to -finish.-
I-ve done my research.
You should do some ejaculation control training...worked wonders for overcoming my premature ejaculation:
http://www.mistermanpower.net/ejaculatio…
herbal medicine for premature ejaculation
You have pre-mature ejaculation, not fast ejaculation.
It-s something you need to see a doctor about.
-Connor
Numb your friction piece with one or even two condoms on. Slow down when you get excited, pull out and kiss her. Think of the bills to pay. Count her toes. Resume.
thank about baseball and PRATICE!
Don-t watch porn and stop masturbating if you are.
If not then see a Doctor
j/o like 100 times a day. maybe it will be more of a challenge for you to get off.
think of something else when you are about to eject
stop j/o
no idea but thanks for points