Why do I get quick ejaculations? -
Ever since losing my virginity earlier this year, I have had issues of continually having intercourse, but ejaculating far too quickly...... never more than 20 seconds! It is not exactly an appetite I nor my partner enjoys. Is there any reason and solution for making intercourse last more time?Just keep doing it as much as you can so you get used to the novel sensation, that should give you a bit more staying power.
Do exercises to control.Look up Tantric sex.
i dunno usually men dont do that, unless ur not one
If you are having lots of foreplay before hand then you will only last a short while.
Try to reduce the amount of foreplay that you receive. Give more !!
take your time n if u have to stop and start till ur both ready
special DUREX condoms have a special lubricant that pro-longs ejaculation.....try them!
try having sex more often, just because you hav ejaculated dosnt mean you have to stop, you can pleasure your girlfriend in other ways untill you are ready to start again the mor times you do it the longer you will last. worry less and make love more!
try taking more time over foreplay....also try mastrabating on your own....you-ll be able to control yourself better and in time you should find you dont come as quickly during intercourse....it happens, dont worry about it.....if it doesnt improve go to your doctors
if your nerves it quickens your ejaculation but try kissing and carresing each other to get you horny then u can start penetration but when you think your about to *** then stop and kiss and touch some more till i goes down a bit then when u are ready to explode then fasten your seatbelts and speed up lol !!
consult a dr
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Forget the penetration bit and concentrate on the touching, kissing and caressing. Even talking is fun. Make the love making start with ordinary conversation with all the other stuff brought into play gradually. This will get her aroused slowly and perfectly. All this could last 20/30 minutes and once you get to the main event it will not matter that it happens quickly as she to will be ready. Also because all this is quite new to you it is a novelty but as time goes by you should settle down. Best of luck.
You need to calm down. Use plenty of foreplay. This sounds like anxiety. You need a partner that you love
The best way to do this, according to most sex therapists, is the stop start method.
You need to learn to control yourself more. Lay off the penetration for a while. Get your girl friend to give you a hand job. When you feel like coming she should squeeze the bottom of your cock tightly and then stop and let you recede. Then start again, stop, start and stop. Don-t do this too long as you will get blue balls which can be painful. After say 4/5 times of this, she can go through to completion - she may need to wear goggles as you will ejacultae with some force. Practice this for a couple of weeks. Then move into penetration, with her on top, controlling you again through stop and start.
Also, you can train your PC muscle to get more control of yourself. Think of how you stop yourself mid pee, and do this exercise twenty times a day in the morning and afternoon.
These exercises should help. You can also check thi sout in most sex manuals
Good luck
an age old question mate, dont worry, so many guys are in the same boat. looking at a forum of how long people take to orgasm during intercourse and i was suprised at how varied it was, the average, according to a great sex theropist - Sari Locker - is 3 mins - 10 mins. for me its a bit longer and would say 20 mins but it always varies. i dont really like the stop and go tecnique so much although you might. it does depend how quickly you can prepare yourself for going at it again. for me, i can be hard and ready to go again within 5 mins, especially after working on my girlfriend for a few mins after cumming. this works for me, then the second time we have sex, its much longer. other methods include counting back from 10 then back up from 1-10 which does work, or you could always observe the painting on top of the bed or the wallpaper :P either way you are still in the early stages of your sexual life and i-m sure that you will increase your stamina a lot futher in the years to come!