Withstanding ejaculation? -
How do an individual hold ejaculation for a long period of time
You practice... the most important thing is to realize that you could orgasm almost anytime you want. Focus on your girl and her pleasure. When things begin to get intense then back off, change positions, be very attentive to her. Sex is a marathon, not a sprint. alternate between kissing and oral, when you are inside her just listen to the sounds of her arousal and then back off and let her relax again... slowly build things up... then when you have made her happy, then you can focus on you and just go full out until you can not hold it any longer... Think of good sex like eating at a fine restaurant. Don-t act like you are at Burger King and wolf everything down in 5 minutes... enjoy each course, enjoy just being there, no one is going to come and take your food away... linger over it, come back to something that you like again and again...
Even if you try, you cant. its in our nature and scientifically, not ejaculating means prostate cancer. WHy do you wanna stop it?
stop for a while when you feel your about to release your fluid. take a deep breath. gradually you have to slow down wanking, dont make it to fast.
Before you feel you need to ejaculate, stop wanking and calm down for a bit.
Learn kegels and semen retention.
Google is your friend.
it takes skill
it takes lots of practice and skill