How can to increase s-e-x time? how to DEFERMENT ejaculation? -
basically pull out when you fell it start coming and let it rest back in and four play in that time, lick her, finger her and then continue i know from personal -info-that it can last from what ive-heard- up to 6hrs without cuummiinngg
Hey Amir,
One good way is to masturbate, and take mental note of what yur body is doing and feeling at different stages of the climbing excitement.
Keep in yur memory the feeling just befor you reach the point of no return, where you can-t stop from spilling over into orgasm and ejaculaion, as you let yurself spill over.
The next day, masturbate again, and when you reach that feeling that you know that you close to the point of no return, slow down a little bit and hold that level of excitement and wonerful feelings. If is just starts to fade, increase the speed or stimulation carefully, just to balance at that point.
You can train yur body to stay at that awesome feeling point for a long time by controlling the amout of stimlation, and having amzing feelings the whole time, instead of struggling to hold back. This is called surfing the wave peak of yur feelings. It will give yur Lady all of the time that she needs to reach satisfaction.
Don-t look at this as wanting to masturbate, but as an exercise that you will be switching over into yur sex life. It-s easier to start and practice by masturbation because you need to experment with this exercise to examine how yur body feels and responds at certain levels of excitement.
As you get better at it, switch it over to yur sex life, and finnish perfecting it there!
Make sure that you spill over into orgasm and ejaculaion in the end, because yur body will work well with you if you don-t frustrate it, but reward it instead. It-s part of training it to enoy working this way.
In real Love making, once yur lady has had hers, you can increase the speed or stimulation angle and spill over into a huge orgasm and ejaculation to complete it all.
Hope that gives you what you need Dude
:- )
everybody basically has it covered except for doing Kegel excercizes, which when you flex your pubococcogeal muscles -the muscles that control urine/semen flow the easiest way to do this excercize is to, when you are urinating, stop the flow of urine, do this a couple of times and you will be able to flex the pubococcogeal muscles without having to rely on starting and stopping your pee. oh yeah also when you flex them -dryly-(without the peeing) you will feel your penis and anus contract and expand and it-ll feel pretty weird.
also you could try breathing excercizes as in controlling your breathing during masturbation or sex this will slow your heartbeat by a couple of beats so you won-t ejaculate as quick. keep in mind that using these techniques won-t guarantee you lasting like 2 hours instead of five minutes but with time and practice you will last longer
slow down
generally (from my experience) slow sex is better for the girl than the guy, so you can build up their intensity while yours stays at pretty much the same level
also, when you feel like you-re almost there, just hit the breaks. wait for the intensity to die down, then keep going again. if you have enough mental control, you can do this indefinitely, while she comes 2, 3 or 4 times.
Here-s what you can do and it works every time. Just as you-re about to come, pull out and pinch the head of your dick hard. It really doesn-t hurt (surprisingly) and will delay coming. Do this as many times as you want until you give your wife/girlfriend/both/other that orgasm that they-ve been cheated out of for so long. :-D
Dear Amir
If you have tried all the resources like Start Stop and Squeeze Technique then Try - Screw Technique- Its one of the best known techniques for gaining control and extending the orgasmic ejaculatory point. This technique imitates motion of penis in vagina and helps you to locate your orgasmic point and as you carefully practice it you can extend your ejac time.
If the problem is very severe then you may require few medicines to form the base of the treatment. In severe cases medicines help to reduce the hyper anxiety and stress for the performace in sex.
Hope this advice shall help you
Dr Anil
Sexologist
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com
You can try foreplay and oral for a longer time. Basically you can make out and stop and do repeat .
Important is that you must know ow to enjoy the word ..X.
If you know some manual reaches like keagel exercise.
Take it slow and dont think too much of orgasm.