My new bf has a problem with premature ejaculation...is it because of me? -
I just started having sex with my bf. He is having a problem with premature ejaculation. He said he-s sorry and he-s really embarrassed but this has never happened to him with another girl. Is it something I-m doing wrong? Is there something wrong with me?
No babe... it-s got nothing to do with you unless you are so hot that he just can-t help himself.
Just keep trying different sex positions until you find some that are good for you and a little less stimulating for him.
For example... I find that if I am on top I c#m more quickly than when she is on top. So... if I need to slow down and let her catch up she goes on top for a while.
Hope that-s not too much info ;)
Here-s a tip: When a guy has ejaculated within a few hours before his next ejaculation, chances are he will last a lot longer the second time around, about 20 min+. So, if he masturbates ahead of time, he-ll definitely last longer. Also, when you do sexual stuff (masturbation / some form of sex) often, you-ll eventually last WAY longer than before.
Wrong with you? Not a chance. Two thoughts come to mind. One, that-s about the most embarrassing thing a guy can admit. I could see myself lying and saying that it-s the first time it-s ever happened to try and salvage a little pride.
Two, a guy ejaculates when he feels so good he can-t control it. Maybe you just make him feel that much better than anyone else he-s been with. He might just be nervous, give him time.
Don-t assume that its never happened before; guys always say that it has never happened before.
No, it doesn-t have anything to do with you. He doesn-t have the control developed to handle the stimulation. There are some exercises and/or cremes he can try. But its all him, its not you.
Don-t worry, this tends to be a psychological issue for the guy, and nothing to do with the girl. In fact, P.E. is often inherited through genes. Does he rush? Tell him to slow down and relax.
There is a coupe of methods you can have him try. Stop and Start Method
Squeeze Methods - You can read about them here.
http://www.bluepillalternative.com/premature_ejaculation.php
It near the bottom of thepage
You-re too good, if anything.
u r to good for him, he can-t contain himself, lol