Is it really premature ejaculation? -
My bf is 19 and we-ve been together for almost a year. When we first started having sexual intercourse everything was fine; he lasted around 15-20 minutes and we would have sex a couple times a day. As of a few months ago it would seem that he has developed premature ejaculation. he only lasts at most 2-3 minutes after penetration.he has visited a doctor once and learned that it will take time to correct and the doctor gave him a few tips like the stopping during sex and calming down...stopping while urinating...practice better masturbating..and all that stuff and he has tried them and it is frustrating the both of us and it has gotten to the point he wants me to break up with him.
1.) is it really premature ejaculation because it developed so randomly?
2.) what can he do to help fix this problem?
3.) what can i do to help him not give up hope?
to fix the problem he could get some Stiff Nights and Learn some Tantric, Zen, Tao Sex techniques.
Work with him as a team learning those techniques. Usually there-s the female version or the couple version of those instructions.
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Exercise To Cure Premature Ejaculation
The Start Stop Technique : The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.
Pelvic floor muscles : Stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow.
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There are creams and lotions that desensitize feeling in the penis and can last long enough to not ejaculate prematurely. I think he should see a urologist, they-re pretty good at giving ideas on how to handle the problem.
1) Yes it is. Pre-mature ejaculation always develops randomly. It-s not something you start out with.
2) His doctor can give him medicines for it if his other advice is not helping the situation. Also have him wear a condom, or make him ejaculate then he will need another 10-20 mins to get another erection, durring that time he can please you. Sex is about more than just penitration.
3) He has to stop making himself feel so bad over the whole thing because that just makes it worse. Give him complitments all the time, do other things like oral and manual stimulation and tell him how good he is at all that to bost his self esteem.
-Connor
First of all, if your bf is willing, you need to help him with this issue while you are in the process of intercourse.? There are several techniques that you and he can try.? You can actually, believe it or not, make it fun and make the sex more interesting!? The main thing is that he does not feel embarrassed by this in front of you and that you fully support him and are not judging him for this.? If you are both on the same page and he feels comfortable dealing with this openly with you and during intercourse, then he can easily beat it and you-ll both be happy!? But I have a lot of various posts on my site about things that he, and you, can do to help this and find out more.? The site is www.lastlongersexually.com and here is a sample post:
?Good luck!
?Ever heard of arousal step-down techniques?
How about the PC muscle and Kegels?
If you-re like most guys, you probably haven-t. And as such, most men - unaware of the numerous ways they can boost their sexual skill and -lasting- power - regularly produce mediocre performances in bed, leaving themselves disappointed and the women they-re with disillusioned and usually orgasmless. It-s a real shame.
In a poll, 93% of men asked, said they-d like to last longer in bed before ejaculating - but 100% of those men were unaware of how they could achieve such a seemingly impossible feat.
The truth is, it-s not impossible (or even difficult) to maximise your sexual performance and attain complete control over how long you boogie for and generally get on down with the ladies.
So, let-s take a look at one sexual method that-ll allow you massive control over your arousal levels and always give you the choice of when to *** or when to continue.
During sex, most men begin to lose control of themselves (in terms of ejaculation!) at around the 2 or 3 minute mark - which is usually midway through the first sexual position. And what a letdown ejaculating at this point would be! So, that-s usually the first point at which you-ll use this technique. It involves two steps. The first takes place in your mind - which is the root of many a male-s sexual performance troubles.
1. When you first feel those telltale sensations in your penis (the heightened sensitivity and energy that let you know that if you carry on doing what you-re doing you-ll soon explode) don-t panic! Too many men are pushed over the edge, right to ejaculation, because they mentally begin to panic when they feel they-re close to orgasm. Panic phrases rush through their heads, like: -Uh oh, I-m gonna blow!- and -Not again, this is going to be embarrassing.- Instead of letting these counter-productive thoughts fill your mind and quicken the onset of orgasm, instead calmly say in your head: -Okay, I-m close to ejaculating. Time to use an arousal step-down technique.- Then move onto step number two.
2. The most sensitive part of your penis is the top of the shaft and especially the head. To decrease its stimulation (without stopping the -action-) slowly and deeply thrust into your partner, as far as you can go and she can pleasurably take.
Then, gently grind your hips, wiggling your pubic bone (the hard area above your penis, about 8 inches down from your belly button) on her vagina. To her, this seems and feels like a wonderful stroke variation, which gives her external clitoral stimulation (the number one way to make any woman orgasm).
However, behind the scenes, it-s momentarily decreasing your stimulation, enabling you to last longer. This happens because when you plunge deep into her, your penis enters a wider area of her vagina, which lessens its contact and stimulation.
Then, to cap it off, you grind and wiggle, instead of thrusting in and out, which further decreases the intense sensations of sex. After 30 seconds or so, your arousal levels will have dropped enough for you to restart your thrusting.
By using this technique, you-re able to control your urge to pop without stopping sex and while giving your partner extra sexual stimulation. Now how much better a technique is that for tackling premature ejaculation when compared to what most people consider to be effective techniques? Things like: -Count backward from 100- and -Think of dead puppies!-
Sex, as you well know, is all about fun. Using the 2-step technique above, you can fully enjoy the experience - without the worry of it all being over too soon!
?By: Edward White
Orgasm Control and Denial
Very simply put, you get to control when and how he has an orgasm. Men often respond very well to being controlled this way. It is exciting for them, and they feel very helpless and enamored with a woman who is not afraid to control his