Pre ejaculation!! Please help. Serious answers please.? -
Ok well I think I-m having a pre ejac problem, but I don-t know for sure. Well this woman and I started having sex and I was cumming 5 minutes later. I was totally embarrassed. It was my first time and I-ve had many more opportunities come up that i-ve turned down. I don-t want it to happen again.Well my first question is can someone tell me what-s going on?
Is this normal for the first time?
Is there anything I can eat or drink to help me?
Oh and would masturbation help things or make them worst?
It was your first time!! Your sure to be excited. Don-t be hard on yourself remember practice makes perfect. If you masturbate before hand you will last longer.
welcome to the wonderful world of real life, exit MTV, sex actually takes practice, haven-t you heard that the people who have the best sex are in steady relationships and have been together for a while? just think of it this way, in nature, it is better to ejac quick, it means sex takes less time and expends less energy, but in the world today you have to work toward lasting 10 rounds and yes there are ways to help speed this up, PC muscle exercises, eating aphrodisiacs, staying relaxed, wearing a condom, and (in the worst case) medication, can all greatly increase stamina.
Dear Masturbation will definately make your condition worst than present.
PE is a complex condition. If you are experiencing early ejaculations continously then its a matter of concern . Let me know your age weight and present ejaculation time. You can practice Screw technique it will give you best results if PE is moderate
Dr Anil Kumar
Specialist Sexual Medicine
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com
the reason why u get pre ejaculation
by the way it is normal
the reason why ur organ does tat, one reason is for lubrication itself
thats about normal. pre is actually somewhere under 2-3 minutes.
Its very normal. If you masterbate an hour or more before you think you might get lucky it can help you last longer.
A premature ejaculation is ejaculation before you orgasm. If you had an orgasm along with the ejaculation, then you did not have a premature ejaculation.
Lasting 5 minutes is not abnormal and if it was just your first time having sex then I think you-re over reacting a bit.
Understand that most guys only last about 5-10 minutes on average. But also understand that just because you orgasm once, that doesn-t mean you can just cool down for a few minutes and have more sex! And if you-re young you probably won-t even lose your erection and you-ll just be able to keep having sex even after you orgasm.
Most girls don-t need a guy who can last for an hour (but there are few). Most women-s vaginas actually start to hurt if they have sex for much longer than a half and hour. Really you don-t need to worry about lasting a long time to please your partner. You need to look into improving the quality of the sex not by having longer sex but by having more intamacy. Look into subjects like foreplay, petty, oral sex. These are all things that help to improve sex. You don-t need to last forever to be a good lover, just have some creativity and don-t be afraid to be intimate with someone.