Premature ejaculation? -
Im 20 years old, i just started having sex about 2 and a half month ago. I lost my V because I really am in love with this girl, who is now my fiancee. I-m thinking this is the problem, I may be too exited right now, everytime we make love, i go for about 5 to 10 minutes, and then I come. Before, I could get back up with no problem, Now, i come, and my penis won-t come back up for nothing. It-s really frustrating, i guess the main problem is not being able to get hard again. but maybe, i need to try to control myself as a whole. what can i do?? i need to figure something out, im getting extremely frustrated.5-10 mins isn-t premature. You are just getting older and won-t be able to go 5 times an hour now!
wow, sorry dude
5-10 minutes isn-t pre-mature. That is normal.
Sometimes your penis may need a rest. That is where post cuddling comes in. Cuddle for 10-20 minutes and then try again. Sex doesn-t have to stop just because your penis isn-t hard. Sex is so much more than that.
hmm maybe call loveline with dr. drew tonight. 1-800-love-191. They seem to give good sex advice.
try relaxing some. tension can have a lot to do with it.
take viagra. its practical but hey. and thats awesome that she your fiancee but dont let sex cloud your judgement she could be a bad person but it is your life and live it like you want to. good luck : )
well there is more to sex than sticking your tajer in and banging away,
anyway us men on the whole dont last long so foreplay is important..............
just relax and dont worry about it as long as your both blowing off one way or another who cares.
your girl may be to wide are tell her to suck it sometime it works for me when my girl do it an it works well to
You could jack off first before sex and see if that helps. If not, then while you are making love and you are about to go, think of something like football or a movie you watched that will still keep you excited but loose the erection.
If none of that works, I had a BF that had a doctor perscribe a IMEO or something like prozac or zoloft (to calm him down), and he took it a hour before sex and was able to keep it longer, 15 - 20 minutes vs his usual 4 minutes.
Just enjoy it. it will come back.
engaged at 20 to the girl you lost your vcard too? THIS is your problem.
i think its normal to ejaculate in 5 or 10 mins when you have just started sex. you will get better at it. You need to control your ejaculation. There are plenty of tips you can use, one that you can do is slow down or stop when you feel you are about to come, may not work at first but practice makes things better. There are more ways though.