What can I do about Premature ejaculation!!?!? -
Please someone help, I-m 16 and I started having sex with my girlfriend that I-ve been having for about a year. And every time we do it, I always ejaculate within like 30 secs of penetration. I even used a condom that supposedly contain a small desensitizing chemical but not much changed. I feel like an idiot every time and i feel so embarrass that i can-t satisfy her. She tries to be understanding and cheer me up but I know in the inside she-s disappointed. It really puts me down. To make things worse, everyone I know sees me as a really sex driven person by the way I used to act, and now to find out that I can-t even last a minute is very stressful and making me go crazy and even little depressed. And now recently i feel like I-m losing my sex drive maybe since I-m now feeling depressed. Thus I feel like it-s harder for me to get an erection! This is all just very overwhelming and making my life miserable. Also btw when i was younger i used to masturbate a lot nd i did *** lik in 2 mIn general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.
Some helpful techniques include the following:
Masturbate an hour or so before having sex.
The -stop and start- method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
The -squeeze- method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
ok calm donw i ejaculate early but its not extreme, its not an orgasm jsut take a 30 second breather and jump back in, not immediatly, your penis head gets that really sensitive feelin and its like aurgh!
AND SLOW DONW AT FIRST, MAKE IT PASSIONATE OR GET THICKER CONDOMS SO YOU GET LESS FEELING IT WORKS **::TRUST THIS 14 YEAROLD::**
Listen to the dude under this answer too thats a good idea ill try that.
Can i get a best answer bro?
you are moving to quick man.
SLOW THINGS DOWWWWWN!!
Try just touching her first and playing around before you just right in it! HA!
Dont knwo if this will work for you, but have her get on top.
I last way longer if the girl is on top!!
ALSO, you can masturbate before she comes over...then by the time you two have sex...you would have already got the first one out of the way!
first do this:
she takes clothes off.....
You feel her.....
you rub her.....
you eat her....
you kiss....
you have sex....
by then she will orgasm.
also slow down and take like a 15 second brake and smack her *** or kiss her.......
All that combined and some other stuff I didnt mention (use google) will make it better.
Young and so easily excited. Try to bring her to orgasm before you enter. Then if you loose it quickly oh well enjoy.
try masturbating before your date the second and third erections always last longer.
Stop having sex! your only 16. your going to end up sorry when she gets pregnant.