EJACULATION / CLIMAX PROBLEMS*? -
I-m a 17 year old who can masturbate fine, twice a day sometimes and reach climax with no problem what so ever. when a girl masturbates me it takes a very long time. I-ve had sex once using a condom and i couldn-t reach climax, i don-t know if it is because you lose the feel with condoms. Have i got a problem, or shouldn-t i worry about it? (it-s on my mind but i do need to gain more experience i think) Thanks for reading and your answers.
It-s absolutely normal that it takes you longer when someone else is touching you that when you-re touching yourself. Just remember that when you-re touching yourself, you know exactly what to do and you-ve got control of the entire situation. When someone else does it for you, it feels better but definitely takes you longer.
Condoms reduce sensations, it takes me much longer to reach an orgasm when I-m using one. I recommend you to use the extra thin condoms for improved sensations, and to rub a little lube on your penis before putting it on (not too much because it might slide out during sex).
I-d also recommend you to focus on the sensations rather than on the orgasm. Even if you don-t have an orgasm, the sensation of having some one else touching you is amazing.
Hope this helps. Good luck!
well, you dont have a problem, per se. more like a situation, try practicing with ultra thin condoms, pretty much any brand makes them, but my faves are trojan. anyway, try masterbating with one of those on, it could prehaps help yu get used to the feeling.
also, if you kno the girl very well, try a spermicidal lube and skip the condom, just make sure not to *** in her. pull out and *** on her tummy or back, this can also help you.
stay focused wen your being pleasured, when you are side tracked on another subject, its easy to go soft or not *** at all. also, you could be nervous. get to kno the girl really well before you try something like that so you dont get stage fright.
good luck,
love, sami-3
When I was seventeen I totally had the same difficulty. I started using the thinner type of condoms and the feeling was back. But everyone is different, but who knows, you may be able to try it out. Try getting more aroused or even foreplay to help reach climax.
Best of Luck my friend
Maybe the problem is because you aren-t really comfortable with her.
Maybe the problem is that you need a boy to masturbate for you.
Could it be that you-re nervous when she does that? Try relaxing, set the mood, y-know?
haha no no no, dude youre fine.