Tight foreskins (Phimosis) 4inch Penis Premature ejaculation sigh!? -
Dear all,I seriously need help, I-m from Singapore 24 years of age. I-ve not been sexually active until lately and I-m facing the biggest problem in my life.
Problem 1: My penis is only 2 1/2 inches when flaccid, 4 inches when erect. Yes I know it-s short, other than surgery I don-t know how can I enlarge it (I don-t trust penis enlargement pills at all btw) Can I have sex without much problem with such a short penis?
Problem 2: I got really tight foreskin, which means I can-t penetrate deep into my partner vaginal and with the length of my penis it make sex even harder. I read up online and many of them suggest stretching, I do not know how long or how effective it will take but I-ll try at least for my girlfriend. Does circumcision help? How much it cost in Singapore for adult and where I can do it if everything else fail..
Problem 3: I ejaculate quite easy and fast. I think it-s because I get arouse easily and engage in excessive masturbation with the intention to reach climax quickly. This causes a habit forming response in the body. I only have sex for 2 times with the first time managed to penetrate in successfully for couple of minutes.
I want to seek medical advice but I don-t know where to start.. Private hospital and specialist clinics seems to be the ideal choice but it-s gonna be costly.
I seek help desperately not for myself only but my girlfriend. I love her very much and I can-t bear myself to lose her, I noticed each time after we had sex (which is a disappointing one) she will seems to be very upset / disappointed and unhappy. I know a stable r/s is not just about showing my care, love and understand but also a healthy sex life. I hope she can be more understanding towards me and help me get through this.
Excessive masturbation does not cause premature ejaculation. less foreplay for starters
You may have to go to the doctor and get yourself snipped
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Bro...Sexual pleasure of the girl doesn-t depend on the length of the penis. For your information mine also the same length and when ever have sex with my gfs I usually make multiple organism (usually 2 times) before I ***. It is all depends on how is your foreplay and the important thing is her clitoris stimulation by licking or rubbing during intercourse either by penis or finger.
The Sexual nerves of the girls are not inside the Fallopian tube it is at the entry rib and the clitoris. So you must learn to use those areas for stimulation.
Actually if you have a tight foreskin it will help you to increase the organism of yours because it covers the penis top.
Even you can try with different types of condoms those will help to make the girl-s pleasure and increase your timing.
Before enter into her give more time for foreplay and then engage. If really doesn-t work,you have to seek a doctor.
Well, there is a lot to consider here.
1. I do not think your should worry about a 10 cm penis. If you are from Singapore then I guess you are Asian. I have worked in Asian countries and I know that there, as in every other part of the world, most guys are around the 10 - 15 cm length. You are not outside of the world average. Do not try any enlargement processes, it will only do you harm.
2. A tight foreskin is not a problem. I do not understand what you mean about it being harder to have sex. Perhaps you are trying to pull your foreskin back? If so, do not do it. Do not consider circumcision - it is a terrible procedure that is dangerous and may cause you a huge amount of problems. Just don-t try to retract your foreskin - it will work fine if you leave it alone.
3. Masturbation does not cause premature ejaculation. What do you mean by excessive masturbation? Most guys do it 2 or 3 times a day and a lot do it much more than that. Are you doing it 6 or 10 times a day?
4. Satisfying your girlfriend will involve much more than just having sex with her. If she is disappointed, then you need to learn techniques that will help her achieve multiple orgasms. The length of your penis will not have anything to do with that. I hope that you can be more understanding towards her and that you do get through this.
year ago my husband suffered very much from premature ejaculation too and he started trying everything you can imagine to stop premature ejaculation. the things that really work is:
1) The squeeze!
One physical strategy for delaying climax involves squeezing the shaft of the penis right before ejaculation. It creates a mild discomfort and keeps the event from happening!
2) Mental distraction!
Some people find mental distraction helpful for delaying things. The idea is to think of something completely unrelated to your partner��and distinctly nonsexual. Some guys imagine they are at a football game or do math problems in their heads.
3) also you must use herbal treatment because you can not always live 100% healthy...!!!
in that case DuraMale is really good (probably the best) product that helps against premature ejaculation!
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I do not know if any pharmacies carry DuraMale but I do know that you should purchase it directly from the manufacturer and read more about the product here
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It worked and still works for him (and for me too ;) )!
hey there I am from singapore too-glad to see someone from my own country.4 inches is sufficient to have sex,and don-t get circumsised,it really hurts at your age.I suggest that you try to stretch your foreskin back a bit and slowy,try to stretch it more.
hope this helps.
if not,feel free to email me!
A tight foreskin can be due to certain masturbation techniques.
The average age for the foreskin to retract is 10 years of age. For some boys though it doesn-t become retractable until the early teenage years. This page shows what normal retraction looks like:
http://geocities.com/painfulquestioning/��
Certain masturbation techniques that differ from the normal up and down motion mimicking sex can be damaging to the foreskin and also to the the 3 delicate spongy arteries within the penis.
See this diagram which shows the inside structure of the penis:
http://dic.academic.ru/dic.nsf/enwiki/26��
Examples of damaging masturbation techniques:
*Rubbing the penis head through clothes. This often comprises pushing down with some pressure on the penis. Many boys/men do this watching porn.
*Thrusting against the bed.
Using these techniques (especially the first one) does 2 things. Firstly, rubbing the top of the foreskin and exerting unnatural forces on it can create scar tissue - especially if you use -rubbing techniques- a lot. This scar tissue is less elastic that normal foreskin tissue. Normal foreskin tissue is pliable making the foreskin easy to retract.
Secondly, if you are applying large pressure to the penis through your masturbation technique, the 3 spongy arteries that make up the penis will become damaged (see diagram above). Consequently, the penis doesn-t fill up with blood properly and doesn-t stretch the skin from the inside-out like it would normally do.
Check for signs of damage:
* The glans (the head underneath) can be sensitive.
* Each side of the pee-hole is red.
So, do you do any of these techniques? I-d be interested to know.
Presuming you do, a few things you need to do to cure the unretractable foreskin.
Initially, give your penis time to repair the spongy arteries that may have been damaged. Repair happens when the penis isn-t in use. So I-d advise you to masturbate as little as possible initially. You can start doing it again after a while - but don-t do it too frequently.
When you start masturbating again, you will need to change to a masturbation technique which isn-t damaging. This is the one most people use: Lightly grip the shaft and move the foreskin up and down, applying as little pressure as possible. Stop any -rubbing- masturbation techniques.
I-m pretty sure if you stick with this advice, it will retract. It may take some time though.
If you go to the doctors , he might offer you circumcision. However, if you follow the above advice you will likely not need it. Circumcision is bad for several reasons.
The foreskin contains many specialized nerves on it-s underside. When the foreskin is moved up and down it is very pleasurable. Circumcised men have lost this ability to masturbate easily as there is no gliding effect. Circumcised men often have to resort to artificial lubrication in masturbation and sex. See here for the function of the foreskin:
http://geocities.com/painfulquestioning/��
Without the foreskin protecting the glans, circumcised men lose further sensitivity. The glans (head of the penis) dries out. It also brushes on underwear causing the skin to toughen. See here for the full damage done:
http://www.noharmm.org/IDcirc.htm
There are good reasons to believe that sex is better for the woman as well, if the man has his foreskin intact:
http://xrl.us/foreskinfunctions
Circumcision is also a risky procedure with a lot of complications:
http://www.circumstitions.com/Complic.ht��
you must try herbal treatment because it can resolve your problem!!
in that case NeoSize XL is really good (probably the best) product that helps to enlarge penis!
It works to regularize and increase the blood flow in the penile blood vessels. The ingredients used in NeoSize XL? expand the blood vessels. As a result, the penile tissues get filled with an adequate amount of blood, thus promoting a proper enlargement of penis. This results in increased libido, harder erections and eventually powerful orgasms.
I do not know if any pharmacies carry NeoSize XL but I do know that you should purchase it directly from the manufacturer and read more about the product here
http://neosize-xl.com/?id=aa0a2e
It worked and still works for him (and for me too ;) )!
Done it all properly and consistently, they should add close to an inch or two to your penis in 3 months!
Always remember, if you are not satisfied with what you were born with, it is never too late to do something about
it!
Good luck!
Dude, learn to use your tongue! Use a vibrator or some tingly lube or something and try to get her to climax once before you even put your dick in. Then, you either get her to have an orgasm again, and if that doesn-t happen then you still serviced her first and you got your rocks off in her and you both finished.