I want to stop premature ejaculation, how do i train myself? any drugs to stop it and what are these drugs? -
i don-t know, you might be able to strengthen the muscles involved through repeatedly contracting the muscles that stop you from urinating. During sex, can-t you just stop and wait a few seconds before you get too close to orgasm, and then start again, until you get past the initial sensitivity?
you might try ginseng pills. ginseng can affect those systems in the body.
Premature Ejaculation is a side effect of depression, if it-s bothering you that bad you need to go invest in medical insurance and establish a doctor then fight to urge to lie and be completely honest with him or her.
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I had a friend tell me if u control your breathing u last longer.
Okay ! You ask for it ! Get some pointed like a pen or pencil. U known where your as* is? No ! I don-t want you to shaft that into your as* hole! Poke it just right above your as* hole where there like a slight depression,where your tial supose to be. It will go to sleep right away! That-s the acupuncture point.You DON-T have to do it that hard till it bleed! Drink BEER, That can slow it down!
try masturbating slowly, relax, take your time.use lube,stroke yourself slowly and when you start feeling like you-re going to ***, slow down or stop for a bit then start again. keep this up as long as you can, then enjoy it. try taking longer - longer as time goes on. relax. go slow. remember to breathe.
Medical Care: Medical treatment for premature ejaculation includes several options. Any serious primary medical condition (eg, angina) should be treated; for the purpose of the following discussion, the male is assumed to be healthy and premature ejaculation is assumed to be his only problem. In addition, any accompanying erection problem can be treated with various methods with excellent success (see Erectile Dysfunction) and thus, only passing reference is made to treatment of erectile dysfunction (ED) that may accompany the premature ejaculation problem.
Including the female partner as much as possible in the treatment and counseling sessions is important to achieve the best outcome.
The first step for treatment of premature ejaculation is to relieve any underlying performance pressure on the male.
Assuming that premature ejaculation occurs when intercourse is attempted, instruct the couple that intercourse should not be attempted until premature ejaculation is treated. The male may use manual stimulation, oral sex, or other means to satisfy the female partner in the meantime.
If the male always experiences ejaculation with initial sexual excitement or early foreplay, this is a serious problem and probably indicates primary premature ejaculation (the history should reveal this), which then most likely requires treatment in conjunction with a mental health care professional. These more difficult cases should be screened out.
The couple should then be instructed on sexual therapy, such as the stop-start or squeeze-pause technique popularized by Masters and Johnson.
The female partner should slowly begin stimulation of the male and should stop as soon as he senses a feeling of excessive excitement that may lead to ejaculatory inevitability.
Then, she should administer a firm compression of the penis just behind the glans, pressing mainly under the penis. This should be uncomfortable but not painful.
Stimulation then should begin again after the male has a feeling that the ejaculation is no longer imminent.
The process should be repeated and practiced at least 10 or more times.
Gradually, most males find this technique helps decrease the impending inevitable need to ejaculate.
After a period of practicing this method, the couple can sit facing each other, with the woman-s legs crossing on top of the male-s legs. She can stimulate him by manipulating his penis close to, then with friction against, her vulval area. Each time he senses excessive excitement, she can apply the squeeze and stop all stimulation until he calms down enough for the process to be repeated.
Finally, coitus may be attempted, with the female partner in the superior position so that she may withdraw immediately and again apply a squeeze to remove his urge to climax.
Most couples find this technique to be highly successful. It can also help the female partner to be more aroused and can shorten her time to climax because it constitutes a form of extended foreplay in many cases.
Another therapeutic modality is the use of desensitizing cream for the male.
In Korea and other areas of the Far East, SS Cream (a combination of 9 ingredients, mainly herbal) has been shown to desensitize the penis, decrease the vibratory threshold, and help men with premature ejaculation to significantly delay their ejaculatory response.
Unfortunately, SS Cream is not yet approved by the US Food and Drug Administration (FDA), but simple combinations of lidocaine cream or related topical anesthetic agents can be used with similar effects and they are safe as long as the patient has no history of allergy to the substance.
If the male is relatively young and he can achieve another erection in a few minutes following an episode of premature ejaculation, he may find that his control is much better the second time.
Some therapists advise young men to masturbate (or have their partner stimulate them rapidly to climax) 1-2 hours before sexual relations are planned.
The interval for achieving a second climax often includes a much longer period of latency, and the male can usually exert better control in this setting.
In an older man, such a strategy may be less effective because the older man may have difficulty achieving a second erection after his first rapid sexual release. If this occurs, it can damage his confidence and may result in secondary impotence.
The most effective pharmacologic modality found to aid men with premature ejaculation is a drug from the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) class, drugs which are used normally as antidepressants in the clinical setting.
Some tricyclic antidepressants with SSRI-like activity also achieve the same result.
Many of these agents have been found to have, as a side effect, a tendency to cause both male and female patients to experience a significant delay in reaching orgasm.
For this reason, medications with SSRI side effects have been used in men who experience premature ejaculation.
Surgical Care: No recommended surgical treatment exists for premature ejaculation.
Consultations:
Consultation with a sex therapist, psychologist, or psychiatrist may prove helpful if the primary care physician or urologist cannot provide successful treatment or does not have the time to explore psychological issues and implement behavioral techniques (eg, squeeze-pause). If the primary care physician or urologist is not experienced in treating premature ejaculation or is uncomfortable with treatment, then early referral should take place (to a sex therapist, psychologist, or psychiatrist). Some physicians are comfortable implementing medication therapy but not behavioral therapy. The patient should be offered all treatment options as with any medical condition, and the physician should proceed with referral for those option(s) considered to require more specialized help than the physician can provide.
For men who may be experiencing a severe emotional disturbance that is an underlying factor to premature ejaculation, referral to a mental health professional is most appropriate. Diagnosis and treatment of the various psychological factors that manifest partly as premature ejaculation are beyond the scope of this discussion.
Do opiates for a while, you-ll never get off easy, unless your dope sick.
Dapoxetine is the International Nonproprietary Name of a short-acting SSRI drug currently being considered for approval by the FDA for the treatment of premature ejaculation in men, which would make it the first drug approved for such treatment. It is currently in Phase III of the approval process. This would make it join the ranks of sildenafil (Viagra?), tadalafil (Cialis?), and vardenafil (Levitra?), the erectile dysfunction drugs and cabergoline (Dostinex?) (off-label), as a drug invented to improve male sexual health.
Dapoxetine, submitted to the FDA in the form of dapoxetine hydrochloride, was developed by ALZA Corporation and its parent company, Johnson - Johnson.
You can try any of the following drugs, stay on the drug for 3 months to know the result. These drugs work in 70% of men and they belong to a class called SSRIs, a type of antidepressants.
Many drugs in this class are familiar in the USA through advertising, including the following:
(Trade names in parentheses)
citalopram (Celexa, Cipramil, Emocal, Sepram, Seropram)
escitalopram oxalate (Lexapro, Cipralex, Esertia)
fluoxetine (Prozac, Fontex, Seromex, Seronil, Sarafem, Fluctin (EUR))
fluvoxamine maleate (Luvox, Faverin)
paroxetine (Paxil, Seroxat, Aropax, Deroxat, Paroxat)
sertraline (Zoloft, Lustral, Serlain)
dapoxetine (no known trade name)
Start from the lowest dose and increase if necessary
There are special drugs but I don-t know them .you can go to a doctor (a general physician or something) he might help you .
Why dont u do it slowly?