Ejaculation problem please help? -

Ejaculation problem please help? -

When i masturbate it only takes 25 mins or so and im done. When my gf and I have sex i can never orgasm because it takes me to long too and she is done, dry, and sore way before i orgasm. i always have to watch porn to finish. It is really taking a toll on our relationship because not only does she feel bad for not being able to make me finish, but i feel like im hurting her and it isnt pleasurable since she often just has sex way past the point its pleasurable to her just for me. i dont want this happening anymore are there any techniques to make yourself ejaculate faster??

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You need to stop masturbating to porn. I know that-s not what you want to hear but just hear me out on this... So your body is use to getting off in a particular way. Basically you need to retrain your body and brain to *** with sex. If you need to masturbate use pictures or fantasies of your girlfriend and use KY or lube to make your hand more wet like a real vagina. If you really want to *** with her your going to have to make some drastic changes to your routine. Obviously the porn and self satisfaction is not getting you any closer to making it happen with your girl... If you could go 3 days cold turkey and then try some fourplay before sex it just might work for you. But don-t forget, you can-t learn a language in just a week so you have to keep at it..

Let me know if it works. My BF is in the same boat... 2 months and he still hasn-t got off with me...

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I would have said that was a good thin but i guess if its hurting its not. Most people ejaculate to fast. I used to at one point.

For your situation try different positions. Try foreplay for ages not just a few minutes. This will get you totally worked up and then when you do go for the main game then you should have no problem.

Try looking on the net for new ways of doing it and look for different types of foreplay as well.

I dont mean that insulting like you cant think yourself i mean you will no doubt find things you never knew or imagined possible.

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My husband and I have this same issue. He makes me come several times before he goes. Often I am tired and just friggin done way before he is. It makes me feel bad... makes me feel like my puss isn-t good enough since he can whack off and ejaculate just fine.

We have found doing 20 minutes of forplay... watching porn and playing with each other... 69.... you know.. just forplay, has helped quite a bit.

Good luck.

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Unless you-re trying to get her pregnant, you don-t have to finish vaginally. Have you tried finishing between her legs, instead, or on her shoulder, etc.? Perhaps the novelty of the sensation will be sufficient to bring about a sooner ejaculation. Make sure to cuddle afterwards.

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do it like they do it in porn;
after she finishes, and comes down from her climax,
start jacking off and come on her boobs, and if she lets you (and dont be surprised if she doesnt, most girls thinks its offensive) on her face.
sorry to hear about your problem...]:

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Foreplay definately. The girl doesn-t have to orgasm just by penetration. Work the clitoris and she will orgasm that way possibly? Get yourself some lubricant to keep her moist as well.

(That sounds crude, but it-s a genuine answer)

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just try masturbating before you have sex. just dont do it all the way. make sure no semen comes out. then you can finish with her. that sounds so mean. well good luck.

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you can try jack off be for or during sex jack off and you can get some lube ky or some Vaseline to keep hear form getting dry or be for you can eat hear out be for you use lube

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Foreplay, sometimes the pregame is just as important as the game.

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look at porn a little earlyer. Or masturbate more often for less sperm in your balls.

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Does anyone knows if there is any drug invented to deal with premature ejaculation disorder? -

Does anyone knows if there is any drug invented to deal with premature ejaculation disorder? -

Ask your doctor about Lexapro. Lexapro is an anti-depressant used to treat depression (duh) but also anxiety. One of Lexapro-s side effects is delayed climax in men. It may be exactly what you-re looking for. The good news is, reports say it has a very low incidence of other side effects. In very low doses, it may give you the edge you need! Good luck.

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the key is pleasing your mate.. use lots and lots of foreplay , once she has gotten hers then you can get yours.. good luck.

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Yes

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No drug but there are lubricants and creams that delay ejaculation by desensitizing the skin of the penis. Bad thing is, they also desensitize the partner! Try condoms and concentration exercises.

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If you are having this problem when having sex, a good idea actually said by experts is to masturbate about 2 hours before you are going to have sex. This will make it to where you aren-t overly exited, and can last longer in bed. Good luck! yes, there are drugs made for this as well. Do some good googling!

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more than the drug, you need self-confidence man!

drug will kill you thing over a period of time!

some breathing exercises that help you gain control over your ejaculation to some extent!

save your thing and save yourself from drugs!

Does anyone knows if there is any drug invented to deal with premature ejaculation disorder? -

Ejaculation...? -

Ejaculation...? -

Im 15yo and got my 1st pubic hair at age 11. At first I could only have dry orgasms but then started producing a half-clear, half-white substance when I orgasm. Not a lot of it comes out. Is this semen? Im only just starting to get armpit hairs and my vocie broke 9 months ago if it helps

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yes it is semen, the reason you only get a little bit of it is probably because you jack off too much, and you-ve been doing so even before you could ejaculate, dont worry about it, the older you get the more you will produce

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Yes, you are fully functional now. That is semen (and sperm) -- you are fine.

Kind thoughts,

Reyn

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congratulations you are now a man...

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yeah, its called puberty

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Good on ya:you done it:your first semen:Sky

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no its penial-mucas

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Yeah its seamen, you-ll find as you grow up it will whiten up. If that makes sence.

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Orgasms at 15.. Well done. Wait till your 21 then you will know what a orgasm is.

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yep thats right. i guess im maturing early i can alredy get semen but yh that is semen:)

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yes its semen :)

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yes it is semen... well done

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sounds like semens

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yes - you are getting there

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Haha Tommy....Well done! lol.

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What is the medical effect of extended denial of ejaculation or tease and denial (no orgasm) for men? -

What is the medical effect of extended denial of ejaculation or tease and denial (no orgasm) for men? -

You may be increasing your risk of contracting prostate cancer!

The prostate is a male reproductive organ which helps produce and stores seminal fluid. It is comprised of many small glands which make about twenty percent of the fluid comprising semen. In prostate cancer the cells of these glands mutate into cancer cells.

Prostate cancer is classified as an adenocarcinoma, or glandular cancer, that begins when normal semen-secreting prostate gland cells mutate into cancer cells. Over time these cancer cells begin to multiply and spread to the surrounding prostate tissue (the stroma) forming a tumor. Eventually, the tumor may grow large enough to invade nearby organs such as the seminal vesicles or the rectum, or the tumor cells may develop the ability to travel in the bloodstream and lymphatic system. Prostate cancer is considered a malignant tumor because it is a mass of cells which can invade other parts of the body. This invasion of other organs is called metastasis. Prostate cancer most commonly metastasizes to the bones, lymph nodes, rectum, and bladder.

Prostate cancer is the second most common type of cancer in men, and among men it is responsible for more deaths than any other cancer (except lung cancers - caused by primary and secondary smoking). However, many men who develop prostate cancer never have symptoms, undergo no therapy, and eventually die of other causes. Many factors including genetics (risk is double if your father or brother had it) and diet have been implicated in the development of prostate cancer.

However studies have proved that frequent ejaculation decrease a man-s risk of prostate cancer. One study showed that men who ejaculated five times a week in their 20s had a decreased rate of prostate cancer.(Giles GG; Severi G; English DR; McCredie MR; Borland R; Boyle P; Hopper JL. Sexual factors and prostate cancer. BJU Int. 2003 Aug;92(3):211-6).

It is held in many mental health circles that orgasms relieve depression, stress and have health beneficial effects. They not only provide a short-term sense of euphoria but also lead to a higher sense of self-esteem. Erectile and orgasmic dysfunction may also be early warning signals of the onset of health problems.

If you partner, wife or mistress is following the teaching of Elise Sutton and the like to use orgasm control to get their way, you may want to consider finding someone who truly loves you and views sex as a demonstration of mutual love rather than a weapon to blackmail you to get what they want!

On the other hand if you are a willing participant and it is your “kink” to deny orgasm you should consider “milking” by regular prostate massage administered by your keyholder, mistress or partner.

Male prostate orgasm

Some men are able to achieve ejaculation or orgasm by stimulation of the prostate gland (the male g-spot). In SOME men NO orgasm results but prostate milking without penile stimulation still causes ejaculation. In fact usually a greater volume of semen is ejaculated (only a portion of stored semen is released in a penile orgasm but when the prostate is massaged its entire store is released). Most men report it provides an enhanced and more pleasurable version of the standard male orgasm.

Finally if you are considering orgasm denial in the mistaken belief that it improves sex you should consider the following. First practice makes perfect with everything in life – including sex. Second studies show that through practice men can be multi-orgasmic enhancing the sex experience for both the man and his partner!!

Male multiple orgasms

Many people confuse male orgasm with ejaculation. The two are quite separate although usually occur at the same time. In fact, not only is it possible to have an orgasm without ejaculation (a “dry orgasm”) it is also possible for men to ejaculate without reaching orgasm! Yes that’s right girls men fake it too!!!!

Some men are able to consciously separate orgasm and ejaculation allowing them to achieve multiple orgasms. Men who have practiced this technique extensively report that they can sometimes experience a continuous -wave- of orgasm. This can last in theory indefinitely, but in practice is limited by the man-s ability to concentrate or -surf the wave.-

In recent years a number of sex manuals for men have delved into this technique. Men who have become adept at this practice also report more powerful ejaculatory orgasms when they choose to have them. There are two methods: First the tantric requires that the man -hold on-, maintaining control to prevent ejaculation as long as possible.

The second and more effective method allows the man to ejaculate whenever the release feels like happening then he fights the effect of prolactin (the hormone which makes him feel like stopping and going to sleep!) If men ignore this sleepy feeling for the 3 seconds after the hormone release then it subsides and they can continue onto the next ejaculation and orgasm.

During a scientific study conducted at Rutgers University in 1995 six fully ejaculatory orgasms were experienced in 36 minutes with no refractory period in evidence. The study was subsequently published in the -Journal of Sex Education and Therapy- (1998; Volume 23, No. 2; pp 157-162).

There is currently an experimental interest in drugs which inhibit prolactin, such as Dostinex capable of eliminating the refractory period altogether, allowing men to experience multiple ejaculatory orgasms in rapid succession, and hence carry on with their female partners to ensure they come to orgasm too!

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Although Men like for women to think there is, sorry there is no medical effect of just not getting to ejac*late. Although if you hold it in on purpose when you are about to ejac*late you can cause an embollism. But just holding off won-t cause any medical problem.

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I never heard of one. There is something called tantric sex which is basically that.

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To the male readers... You may have noticed a distinct bluish tinge to your testicles after you -make out- or are sexually aroused for several hours -- and the deep, uncomfortable ache that goes along with it

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Actually, a proliferation of male sperm. :) You-re more likely to father a MALE child if, when you ejaculate, you impregnate a woman.

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blue balls!!!

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How long are you denying this?
It has more of a psych effect than bio effect. When you DO allow yourself to ejaculate, it will be w/in a short amount of time.

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There isn-t any...blue balls is a myth. Sure you may -ache- for the orgasm...but that is becuase you want to experience the good feeling. If anything it is good for you..your body produces excess semin and sperm...which when not released is reabsorbed by your body. Good nutrients!

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As others have explained, the denial doesnt affect your health or body. But it sure does leave a uncomfortable feeling till the erection subsides. There are some practices which recommend this exercise to increase your -time- during the act.

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Nothing medical, just uncomfortable until the erection subsides.

What is the medical effect of extended denial of ejaculation or tease and denial (no orgasm) for men? -

Premature ejaculation.(18 year old )? -

Premature ejaculation.(18 year old )? -

it takes me only about 15-20 seconds to ejaculate.looking at a nude picture also results in the emmision of fluid(perhaps the secretion of the glands)

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well that probably means ur going to bad in bed sorry not trying to humor or anything if u see a girl nude and ur already ejaculating there is something wrong

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pre-*** its called. lubricates the channels prior to the sperms cumming so they can do their swimming without hassle.

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why do you worry? enjoy life. you are how you are ...

that-s sooooooooooooooo normal!

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Don-t worry I am a 14 year old boy but when i had oral sex with my sister within 5 Sec. a white liquid flowed from my penis 1 minute so don-t worry

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what you need to do is
to speak with a specialist

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Don-t worry about it too much! Worrying will only make it worse because you-ll be too self-conscious! Just relax and enjoy yourself! :P

A tip to try to have a longer session is to stop just before you feel like you-re going to orgasm, then wait, then start again. Keep doing this for as long as you can!

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ROFL don-t leave her unfinished...thats funny.
Anywayz.....ever thought about holding it longer? like NOT make yourself ejactulate in 20 - 30 seconds? I mean its something you can control.
Also if you are un-circumsized, you probably ejaculate from masturbation faster

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Hope that helps.

Best wishes
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um, yeah go to the doctor or exercise holding it.

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YOU COUNT HOW LONG IT TAKES TO GET OFF!!!! HAHAHAHA THATS FUNNIER THAN YOUR QUESTION!

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15 - 20 is okay. Maybe you just get really excited. That happens. It-s not abnormal. You can always try a cock ring to see if that helps out. It-s susposed to make guys last longer. Just as word of advice.......if you *** really quick then you need to make sure you are still pleasing the girl. Don-t leave her unfinished. Give her oral or something.

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good luck getting laid! =P

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Is it normal for the penis to smell after ejaculation? -

Is it normal for the penis to smell after ejaculation? -

yes. very common. what alot of younger kids dont know is that sex can actually have a smell sometimes.

Is it normal for the penis to smell after ejaculation? -

Is the feel of ejaculation the same feeling as peeing? -

Is the feel of ejaculation the same feeling as peeing? -

when you-re -building up- so to speak, it feels very similar to urinating. but when you actually do ejaculate, the feeling is much more intense, it tenses your muscles, makes you feel amazing afterward. the key is when you are about to ejaculate, your pen!s feels kinda -tight- and you feel your muscles tense up to a certain degree, then you feel it come in bursts (usually 2-4).

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I would say that it isn-t the same. When you are peeing, it feels like a stream of water flowing through you. You are capable of stopping this stream with you PC muscles. When you are ejaculating, it feels as if someone else is pushing the fluid out of you. Also the fluid is thicker than urine, so you feel it more and most people can-t stop it in mid stream. While ejaculating, your muscle around your penis start contracting uncontrollably which makes it feels better than peeing.

i hope that answers your question.

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I-m glad I-m not alone in this...I mean I-m a women so I-ve not -ejaculated- but...if I really have a big BM yeah it actually feels real good....I don-t have to go further with the explanation but it-s nice to know that people feel simualr to that kind of experience.

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I know what you mean.
Sometimes when you have to take a piss really bad, it feels really good.

And to answer the question, kinda. But not nearly as good.

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No; ejaculating is more intense and pleasurable than peeing.

Don-t rush; you-ll find out eventually.

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No, ejaculation is the most wonderful feeling in the world. Peeing can be very sensual, but it doesn-t compare.

Hermes

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Unless there is a serious STD involved, peeing is as boring as Nascar.

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No. There will be no doubt in your mind when you ejaculate. You will know.

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LOL these answers are funny, but yeah if you have to pee really bad sometimes it feels like that. ( Happens to me too )

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NOT EVEN CLOSE BRA! Just wait for your first time and you-ll be like.... WOW MAN

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So THAT explains why there-s always a line for a urinal!

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How many times have you asked this. See my orginal answer.

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im sure it brings more pleasure.

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No.

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NO

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Yeah, I moan and scream whenever I pee.

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of course not... i wonder how old are u....

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Is it safe to abstain from ejaculation? -

Is it safe to abstain from ejaculation? -

I am 22 years old and used to ejaculate at least a couple of times (or more) a week through sexual activities, masturbation or wet dreams. But recently I decided to abstain and have avoided all sexual activities, masturbation and wet dreams (by sleeping face-up, or side-ways). As a result, I have not ejaculated in past 3 weeks. I feel intensely aroused more often than I used to and feel generally better but I recently I started feeling weird sensations in my testicles and have noticed tiny amount of white liquid (very much like semen) leaking now and then from my penis, especially when I apply pressure on my testicles. Is this normal? Is it safe to abstain from ejaculation for long? I want to NOT ejaculate for at least a few months, can it lead to health issues / complications?

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It is totally safe to abstain from ejaculation:no worries.
That you leak is normal.
You stopped Cold Turkey and your body was used to produce a lot of sperm and still does.
That will get less with time:
Planets.

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Your body is just used to producing a lot of sperm, to suddenly just stop is making you have a backup. You need to ease out of it, just gradually masturbate less. But why would you want to stop?

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Well, here-s the thing, you-ve trained your body into ejaculating -at least a couple times (or more) a week-. Because of this, your testicles are producing enough semen to ejaculate this much. By completely stopping your ejaculations, your body has a surplus of semen. Now, in order to get rid of this, it has begun to -leak- out of your penis.

I recommend not stopping the way you did. This causes your body to produce more semen than it needs leading to more wet dreams and -leaks- (as you described them). Instead, try to cut down a little at a time until your body becomes accustomed to not using as much semen.

However, after a couple weeks the -leaks- should stop. If at any time it doesn-t seem right to you, don-t hesitate to see a doctor. I can-t see you penis, so I don-t know what your actually seeing. I think your perfectly healthy, but again, don-t hesitate to see a doctor if this continues for a long time.

Hope this helped.

Is it safe to abstain from ejaculation? -

Premature Ejaculation? -

Premature Ejaculation? -

I know that ive masturbated way too much(like once or twice a day for a REALLY long time now) and i-m sure this is the cause of my premature ejaculation. even when i don-t want to, ill finish in under a minute and its very frustrating. if i were to just refrain from masturbation, would it fix this? if so how long would i have to wait and how much/often could i do it when and if i can start again? or, if theres any other solutions that dont involve medicines or special condoms

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Masturbation can actually help with premature ejaculation because it is more difficult to achieve an orgasm soon after a previous orgasm. So if you recently masturbated before you get with a girl you will last longer.

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TRAINING TRAINING TRAINING.
YOU MUST PRACTICE with masturbation.
You must feel the force coming when you are about to ***.
When you feel it, slowdown or stop.
Eventually you might be able to make yourself go longer without needing to slow down.

same goes for in the bed, slowdown when you feel it coming.

may the force, be with you.

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A question about male ejaculation/orgasm? -

A question about male ejaculation/orgasm? -

I have this worry... Say, my penis is being stimulated to the point of ejeculation/orgasm. The person stops stimulating when I-m about to come and then starts the stimulating again. However, we needed to stop because something came up-not an emergency-and I did not come. Is there any thing wrong or do you do your body harm by getting stimulated to the point of ejaculation but stop right before you do because you-re late to work or something?

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It is not harmful for you.

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No. There-s nothing wrong other than the feeling for a while a sense of discontent because you still feel a -feeling- that you need to -finish-. What may happen is you may feel some pain in your testes aka blue balls. This happens because your entire reproductive organs got all wound up for the shoot, and then, it was all for naught. LOL It-s fine. If you didn-t ejaculate, it-s ok. However, let me point out that it is harmful if say you ejaculate, but covered your urethral meatus (the opening of your penis) to prevent it from coming out. What happens then is that it returns back up the urethra (the pipe from which you urinate/micturate) and empties itself into the bladder, which is known as retrograde ejaculation. This can cause urinary infections, infertility, or weakening of the bladder sphincter.

I hope I answered your question. :-)

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There-s a technique called, -Edging-. It-s where the male gets just to the point of orgasm and then stops. It is not harmful, I-ve been doing it for over 30 years. A Male can have multiple ejaculations without having an orgasm, they are two totally separate things. It-s a way to control your ability to have sex longer, and I mean a lot longer. I was a 30 min man in college before I started edging, now, 3-4+ hours is not tough at all. Of course there-s forplay with penetration thru the 3-4hours, heck we-d both be raw if it was that amount of time with nothing but penetration! LOLOL!!! And the gals that enjoy long love making or are hard to reach orgasm really like it too-but most gals I think would just enjoy an hour or two, from what I-m reading here anyway!
And in the morning, I-ll even bring myself to the brink and stop, just to make for an -edgie- day! Keeps you hornie ALL DAY! won-t hurt you a bit!

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No, you actually learned a skill...how to have orgasms without ejaculation.

When you don-t ejaculate, you can have an orgasm, keep your erection and can keep going as long as you want. Mistermanpower.net has a guide on how to master this. Its great cause you don-t lose your erection, and you can have as many orgasms as you can handle, it just takes some practice.

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nothing wrong or going to happen to you at all! many dudes do this to prolong their orgasm and it also intensifies the blast! i love it if i can make it go longer...it usually feels so good that i won-t control myself and stop though!

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No there is no problem in this... I heard that it is a good thing to stop and than go again. Youll blow a load the biggest in your life but it takes alllot of self controll to be able to stop...

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No that is not a problem at all.
If you practise this during sex:you last even longer.
The start and stop method.
But if you come:you are about to explode.
Have loads of fun doing that:Sky.

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There is no problem with getting near ejaculation and stopping...

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No problem. If you wind up with -blue b-lls- it will ache, but won-t cause any harm.

A question about male ejaculation/orgasm? -

Is there any way to delay ejaculation? -

Is there any way to delay ejaculation? -

is there any way to delay my ejaculationwhen I masterbate I-m 14 if that makes a difference

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press that place between ur balls and anus. it can stop ejaculation for a shoort period

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Breathe through your nose so it stops your heart from pounding so fast and you-ll last a lot longer.

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Have your grandmother walk in on you.

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go to jackworld.com for answers to questions like that

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Erectile Dysfunction and premature ejaculation ? -

Erectile Dysfunction and premature ejaculation ? -

I am a 26 year old male and have a problem of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation both. It is super premature, sometimes its like before I do anything I ejaculate. Am I abnormal? How can a man have both these problems? I am feeling very depressed and feel like there is nothing left for me. I love her very much and I cant even give her the basic happiness. Is there any solution to this ? What kind of specialist should I be seeing in the US for this ? I have been going through the doctor-s list but not sure what kind of specialist is right for this. Do you all think practically this problem has a permanent solution ?

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Go to a general practitioner, and tell them your problem and ask for a specialist. There are possible physical reasons for it, and there are corrective remedies.

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Sounds like you have anxiety issues... they would cause all of your symptoms.

Try relaxing. The more you think about your past problems the more likely they will continue to occur.

If worse comes to worse and you are really screwed up in the head about it, go see a therapist. They can help put you in a better mindset and may even prescribe a SSRI to help you out.

An SSRI will not only reduce your anxiety, it will make you last like a champ in the bedroom.

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You need an Urologist to check your case, yes it is abnormal but you have nothing to be ashamed of, many man has ED or PE, some men (like you) even have both, but it is treatable, go and see an specialist.

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A urologist or family doc may be able to help you with the ED. Some urologists work with premature ejaculation, but more often that is the realm of sex therapists. Since you are 26 I would have to think that this is a fixable problem, but I dont know your medical history (diabetes, alcohol, smoking, renal disease, testoterone levels, psychiatric conditions, sexual history, etc)

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Problems with Ejaculation, NEED HELP!!? -

Problems with Ejaculation, NEED HELP!!? -

I am a 17 year old male and the other night I masterbated and I stopped climax like 10 times before I orgasmed and after I orgasmed I looked down and only one drop came out. It freaked me out cause I thought a lot was going to come out. I hadn-t masterbated in a week and it scared me cause I thought something is wrong. I am really stressed out now and everytime I masterbate semen is coming out but not alot. Usually my semen has alot of clear fluid and is think not it isnt as thick. I don-t know what to do I have researched online and couldn-t find anything.

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How often do you masturbate?, if you do it several times in a day, there will be very little semen left for the later ones.
If you do it, say 2 - 3 times a day, this will add up.
Try going a couple of days without ejaculating, then try it, and see what you get.
If it-s still a problem, the maybe it-s time to see a doctor.

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Smoking marajuana and drinking a lot can lower your sperm count. After a week of not masturbating, your body wasn-t producing much sperm because it didn-t need much at that time. As for now, you may be overly-masturbating. I know if I masturbate more than three times a day, I don-t ejaculate much.

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Just go easy on yourself. If you have the pleasure, the semen will be somewhere. On the floor, maybe.

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I am in the Medical Field

If this happens again I suggest that you see a urologist. You may have a blockage.

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that suxs dude... try to drink more liquids

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lol eat pineapple i told my boyfriend too and he is alot lol u know:)

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I ejaculation in like a couple of minites.? -

I ejaculation in like a couple of minites.? -

Last time i had sex i ejaculation in jusst a couple of minites of sex and then i went soft what can i do.

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did you role play? because whenever my boyfriend and i do that we don-t have sex for very long because he was already ready to go when he penetrated.

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Well from this its hard to say if your premature ejaculating..
All depends on how often you -toss the pig skin-
If if its the case of being premmy, call a premature ejaculation hot line.
Don-t sweat it dude! Heaps of people have this problem, Your not even sure if its a problem yet..

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Dear If you have tried all the methods for getting control over your ejaculation then try using Screw Technique. It will work for you

If your case is severe then take medicine -confidence- twice a day it shall solve your problem

Dr Anil Kumar
Sexologist

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Your problem is called premature ejaculation(PE).Natural treatments are there to cure it.My boy friend had this problem but now cured completely


http://www.ejaculationmaster.co.cc


Good luck

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Try a numbing gel, just use a little bit, you can put it on before you put on the condom. It is also called desensitizing cream

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I donno but I herd it takes as guy like 20 min to do that and girls can repeatedly have orgasms.

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Wear 2 condoms. :)
Orrrrrrr... Get your mind of havin sex.. think of something random! liek guy on guy action or somethign.. that should stop you from cummin.

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have u had sex a lot b4??
because most guys start out not lasting too long.
its normal.
=]

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uhh...practice tantra?

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while ur pissing hold it and that strengthens the muscles that shoot ***

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umm... try thinking of your mom...well... how about knocking one off an hour or so before...

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less cost and available treatment product help is in need badly

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ejaculation problems - too soon: learn Tantric/Zen sex techniques

too little - take some Zinc, Magnesium, Saw Palmetto berries, Pumpkin seeds, Stinging Nettles

what other problems fall under ejaculation problems?

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The best -no cost- solution is to work with your partner, if she is willing to help you. Get her to bring you close to a climax with her hand or by rubbing her body next to you (but without you entering her). Then, just as you are about to climax, get her to stop and wait a few moments or minutes, then ask her to start again.

After a few weeks of this procedure, you should be able to last longer. She may still need to get you started manually, but don-t enter her until you are ready to climax. Then, when you do enter, try to delay it -- use the same muscle you would to stop your urine flow or stop pumping once inside her, then only start pumping slowly and do your best to wait to climax until after she does so. Ideally, you should be able to reach the stage where you both climax together.

You need a trusted and loving partner who is willing to assist you to overcome this. Some women will, others don-t feel too comfortable doing this since it does make the love making act somewhat mechanical with the need to follow instructions -- not necessarily the best thing for the type of woman who needs just to let herself go and surrender to you.

One other method worth trying is to get the woman to be on top of you and once you are inside her, she glides her body up and down your penis while you stay as still as possible. Should help to delay it -- but you may warn her not to glide up and down too fast so you will not climax too fast.

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Dear Premature Ejaculation condition differes from patient to patient so as a specialist doctor we have to first analyze the case completely so that accurate solutions can be prescribed.
There are very cost effective herbal medicines are available for complete treatment of PE.
For complete uproot of PE so that PE never comes back in your life Training of specialized techniques like screw technique and counselling sessions are required.
Normally very good improvements are observed within 3to 5days of start of treatment and for few day practice more gives you permanant solution for Premature Ejaculation

hope this information helps

Dr Anil
Sr Sex Specialist
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com

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Hi friend most ejaculation problems can be controlled by you with your mind, why don-t you control your situation by trying holding back while playing with yourself or when you have sex think about a different boring subject if you think you are about to do your lot quickly.

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There a bunch of meds such as Enzyte and Extenze. but thats just a few.

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Premature ejaculation? -

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If a man ejaculates at 45 seconds of having intercourse, is this premature ejaculation, or normal? thanks

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Premature Ejaculation is when a man ejaculates before he brings his woman to orgasm.

The only way to resolve this is through nourishing the sex drive, not just -practice-

Practice does not make perfect, PERFECT PRACTICE makes perfect.

A man must take care of his penis and his sex drive correctly in order to resolve premature ejaculation.

The first thing that can be done is to stop masturbating, or reduce masturbation to 2-3 times per week.

This allows the sex drive to heal and replenish.

After that, training the body and the penis to take its time before orgasm, and not rushing to it, helps enormously.

Soy milk is also excellent for recharging the prostate and thus, the catalyst for the male sex drive.

More info at the link below.

Have Fun!

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pratice :)

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premature. Generally it takes most men 7 min from start to finish. If they last a little more then they have been working on it.

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Yeah. It is. Premature Ejaculation is when a man ejaculates before the intercourse and during. Premature Ejaculation is normal. It-s just to satisfy your partner better not like a disease. So don-t worry about. Just enjoy your intercouse.

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not normal

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Premature ejaculation? -

How can I overcome P.E naturally ??

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Ejaculation is a process completely controlled by the mind.If you can control your thoughts,you can stop this problem completely.


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Good Luck

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Like Hiedi implies, learn to use your lips and tongue generously applied to her nether lips region in foreplay, because the clitoris is where she gets her nice feelings. But for longer-lasting erections before climax, there are two things you can do:
a. Drink about a six pack of beer before sex. This will work for a few years, but if you become an alcoholic, you will become impotent, which is the down side of this method.

b. Get old. Once you are over 40, for sure by over 50, you take longer to tumesce, and much longer to climax. You will last longer as you get older, as long as you refrained from over-using the -beer method- , above.

c. Psychological training might be thus: if you squirt too quickly, you have to lick it out real good- called cream pie eating.

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these PE questions kill me! first of all i am assuming that you want to -overcome- it because of pleasuring a woman??? well if that is the case i am not seeing what the problem is, 80% of women DO NOT achieve orgasm during intercourse so it really doesn-t matter to us! just get better at foreplay are you will be good!

starting and stopping works but frustrates us sometimes but i am telling you it really doesn-t matter to us as long as you -do your part- before sex actually starts!

good luck

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control tantric exercises and sex and
do not be too excited and nervy take it as it comes and if u really want results masturbate once twice before u have sex with her

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if circumcised, foreskin restoration can help

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Tanric sex.

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Take your time.

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Low libido,weak erections ,low back pain and pre mature ejaculation.....had done lots of masturbation in past? -

Low libido,weak erections ,low back pain and pre mature ejaculation.....had done lots of masturbation in past? -

hello sir i am 25 years old male having problems of low sex desire ,pre mature ejaculation ,weal erections ,poor memory ,poor concentration and easily gets tired.i am also having low back pain which generally arises from tip of tail bone.i have discuss with one chinese doctor and he has told me that all symptoms are due to yang deficiency and he has given me yang nourishing herbs like you gui wan and wu zi yan zong wan ,but yin deficiency also causes poor memory ,concentration and erectile dysfunction so is it due to yin or yang deficiency i had also done too much masturbation in my past time..so what should i do to retain my health to normal.do i need some other medications also.
thanks

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Hmm strange, so young and having these problems shouldn-t occur. I was thirty and thought I had problems. You should stick to the natural attempts. I know you won-t have great effects with single herbs considering I-ve tried them. You need blended herbs that do work together. I-m on this stuff called vigrx plus and it-s really making my sex life amazing. I used to have a weak erection, now it-s standing straight up. I-m horny all the time too unlike ever. I saved on the stuff at hughs-reviews.com which has loads of info. Check it out. well good luck and I hope this helps.

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your past experience is common among all youngsters and all of them do not get your chines yin deficiency all that you need is the investigation on low back bone arrangement and disturbance in the nerve in that area to be asses ed by a neuro specialist and further treatment by the low back nerve distrubance doctor---please read--www.ifom.org/pdf/norway-acute-low-��

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because you have many problems you should go see a physician, not an herbalist. The problems you have may link back to a testosterone deficiency, or other physical problems that herbs can not cure. Better safe than sorry. Go see your doctor.

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u cannot be help by herbs, u are lacking testorone or thewre is a embalance somewhere in your lifestyle or diet.

first thing go for the full blood test.
and start exercising,
but u do really need to see a doc. u are lacking something.

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Why do we urinate after ejaculation? -

Why do we urinate after ejaculation? -

I-ve realize that every time I ejaculate I will seem to have to urinate.
please give out a decently long answer, so it-s well explained.

and don-t call me a perverted sicko, cause it-s about about 2 weeks since I-ve done this.

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same for every guy I-m guessing, I heard its your body-s natural way to clean out your pipes after you get off because there is still some *** left in there.

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When you ejaculate the system for urinating is shut off. In my case I can-t urinate for a short time (perhaps as long as 4/5 minutes) because normal operations have not returned. The system then start working again. If I have urinated before sex then I don-t need to go immediately after sex. You don-t say whether this makes a difference in your case or not.

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Semen tends to stay behind in the urinary tract and it is acid:so when it stays there for some hours the damage has been done:peeing will hurt you then:it will sting.
But our body design is clever:we need to pee after we come to flush out the pipes:so we are not troubled by painful peeing the next time.
Colors.

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its normal and healthy to urinate after that because it cleanses the system, and i know because i talk to my bf and i know a lot about health, and i am a virgin

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Your testicles are filled

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dude the same thing happens to me all the time.

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it s normal dont worry

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Better ejaculation tips? -

Better ejaculation tips? -

I know that if I wait a while between sex/masturbation -sessions- I-ll have a more powerful ejaculation. But if I can-t wait, what can I do at the exact point of ejaculation to make it more -explosive-?

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before you reach that point, stop (it-s tricky to figure out exactly when. I stop when I feel that orgasm just starting to well up). wait a few minutes for things to calm down. then start again and get to that point again, and stop. do this four or five times (it-s called edging), and I guarantee you a VERY happy ending.

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From three years of sexually frustrated early secondary school, I can tell you that totally relaxing the penis for the entire period of masturbation as long as possible feels like Allah and Jesus themselves are double teaming you.

Also, try to get your -hand action- just right- not too hard, not too soft.

If you-re kinky/experimental/slightly perverted, you can insert a small, long, smooth object (lubed) into your rear end until it starts to feel amazing (prostate stimulation)- this makes you come like a freight train.

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Nothing I know of for you to do at the point, but start doing your daily kegels (google it). Helps tone the muscles which are responsible for ejaculation. Won-t be an immediate fix, but will give you better erections and shooting ability in the long run.

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What are you painting a Jackson Pollock painting? What do you have to gain from explosive ejaculation?

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from experience my guys rub baby oil on their penis and insert in the vagina. It explodes with more mmmph. If you understand oh and try a vibrator.

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Yea... maybe if you are 50 years old.

When I was a young buck... I could crack 3 or 4 in a night. Don-t believe that -save it up- nonsense.

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Where can I find something called black stone it is used to help premature ejaculation.it come from carribean? -

Where can I find something called black stone it is used to help premature ejaculation.it come from carribean? -

Black stone, sounds like you need to go to the black market.

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Never heard of that. However, I can tell you about a natural method for preventing premature ejaculation.

It-s called the penis traction device. It will give you added length, girth, and control over when you ejaculate.

You never know how various herbs will affect the body.
JM

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My husband has delayed ejaculation. ? -

My husband has delayed ejaculation. ? -

What causes premature ejaculation.

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maybe he was wishing you were a sizzling hot guy

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I think it is due to over excitement. And is this happening often? Don-t tell his dad he will try and control this too. Lol.

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hahahah it goes away with time and self control...


but whew, it-s a lotta work with you sexy ladies

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Pre ejaculation question? -

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me and my boyfriend were having sex - he wasnt wearing a condom. he pulled out before he cummed - gave him head for about 30 seconds before he did come. would the precum have already came out while we were having sex or does it come out right before he actually comes?

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there is some sperm cells in the prec*m
so be careful
even if he pulls out some prec*m gets in your vagina

mutual masturbation and oral is a safer bet

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precum flow when excitement kicks in

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Precum (for me anyway) starts as soon as I become excited. I get a bunch just rubbing against my wife (I get yelled at for getting it on her).

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I am the same as Ray J, if the situation is hot my unit is drooling from the start.

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this is sick!!!

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My little rocket starts to precum almost right away if I-m really excited.....

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Premature Ejaculation...? -

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Any one who used to suffer from this?? How did you overcome your problem? I-ve heard of the PC regime, but are there any others? Are there any medicines available?? please help.

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PC exercises are okay.... you need to learn to use them the right way though.... don-t tense them during sex, workem out when not having sex, but during sex, keep it loose

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yes, there are medicines available. any kind of opiate pain killer will delay it. And also doctors have even prescribed a SSRI (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor) ex. zoloft, lexapro, prozac, etc. to treat this condition. This can even lead to the exact opposite problem, the inability to achieve orgasm, so dont take too much. But i think you would rather last an hour than 10 seconds..;)

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What is a -PC regime?- Is it Politically Correct regime? Is it a Personal Computer regime?

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Yeah = More Sex.

Medicines don-t really work

Just jack off more. Your body is too trigger happy.

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I HAD UNPROTECTED ORAL SEX WITH ANOTHER MALE THERE WAS NO EJACULATION INVOILVED AM I OVER REACTING? -

I HAD UNPROTECTED ORAL SEX WITH ANOTHER MALE THERE WAS NO EJACULATION INVOILVED AM I OVER REACTING? -

OK NOW I HAD ORAL SEX WITH ANOTHER MALE AND SOON AFTER WE GOT DONE I THREW UP!! I GOT REALLY SCARED AND THOUGHT I HAD A STD OR SOMETHING. SO TWO DAYS LATER I STARTED TO BURN AFTER URINATION I WENT TO GET CHECKED FOR GONORRHEA AND CHLAMYDIA BOTH TEST CAME BACK NEGATIVE!! BUT NOW IM STILL FREAKING OUT! NOW MY CONCERN IS ABOUT HIV IM VERY WORRIED ABOUT IF I HAVE IT OR NOT IM STRESSING ABOUT THE WHOLE SITUATION!!! LATELY ITS LIKE I HAVE BEEN HAVING ACUTE HIV SYMPTOMS LIKE BODY PAIN, RASH, DIAHREA I DNT KNOW IF IM OVER REACTING OR WHAT CAN SOMEONE PLS HELP ME!!! ITS NOW BEEN A MONTH SINCE ALL THIS HAS HAPPEND!!!PLS HELP!!!

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If there was no body fluids that in contact theres no Aids

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Seeing as you-re still worried about despite so much reassurance, I think you should see a therapist. It seems to have become an obsession.

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You keep asking this question get tested for hiv gotta wait 6 months though, and if you gonna have sex get it from someone whom you know a lil better and get it regularly, don-t be a hypochondriac you make yourself sick

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Take caps-lock out.

Go to the doctor

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A DOCTOR WILL HELP U . WHY TO WAIST TIME HERE?

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yep, way overreacting.

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oh sweetie, i feel so bad for you. You have to go the doctor and tell them all of this, All your sypmtoms and what you did. Dont waste time worrying and i suggest that aslong as you have these sypmtoms you keep taking tests. In my sex ed class they said some people can go 6 months with HIV while the tests were still negative, so keep taking tests! I really hope the best for you and if you are lucky and dont have an STD or HIV, I hope your smarter next time.

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Yes you are over reacting, i think all of your symptoms are more psychological than physical, your convincing yourself thst your sick. Calm down, your going to be fine, you should see a doctor if you need some more reassurance

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Well, I-m not going into the whole - You shouldn-t have an unprotected interactions with a stranger...- thing.

The initial incubation period upon infection is asymptomatic and usually lasts between two and four weeks. The second stage, acute infection, which lasts an average of 28 days and can include symptoms such as fever, lymphadenopathy (swollen lymph nodes), pharyngitis (sore throat), rash, myalgia (muscle pain), malaise, and mouth and esophageal sores. The latency stage, which occurs third, shows few or no symptoms and can last anywhere from two weeks to twenty years and beyond.
During incubation period (usually 2�C4 weeks post-exposure) most individuals (80 to 90%) develop an influenza or mononucleosis-like illness called acute HIV infection, the most common symptoms of which may include fever, swollen lymphs, sore throat, rash, myalgia,malaise, mouth and esophagal sores, and may also include, but less commonly, headache,nausea and vomiting, enlarged liver/spleen, weight loss, thrush, and neurological symptoms. Infected individuals may experience all, some, or none of these symptoms. The duration of symptoms varies, averaging 28 days and usually lasting at least a week.

You say there was no semen involved, but there can be a fluid present. Did you have any sores or open wounds in your mouth? Also the symptoms you-re experiencing don-t have to be caused by this particular oral sex. Were there any other ocassions when you had an unprotected sex?

Your symptoms may be purely caused by your psychic stress, but I would definitely go to see your doc to have some tests done.
If you-re ok, you will feel relieved; but if there-s something going on, it-s better to start a treatment sooner than later.

Good luck to you and next time, please use a condom. These are tough times, when a lot of people are promiscuous, so few moments of unprotected pleasure are just not worth it.

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gross. not natural man. That-s sick. We weren-t meant to do that.

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You ever heard if the mind believes it will happen, an example of which is if i think im going to get sick i get sick. If i stay positive and dont invite it, it never comes. So try not to worry about it and just check it out and bloody have sex only with the person you marry so you dont worry.

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no u dont have anything.. if you believe something it may happen.. like if you believe you have gonnerhea then you may feel the symptoms

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go back to the doctor and ask more questions

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Well I do not think HIV causes burning sensations. It actually does not have any symptoms. It will just destroy your immune system. Body pain, rash, and diahrea are symtpoms of ALL kinds of things... and also stressed. Get tested to make yourself feel better but VERY RARELY will things happen like that with HIV in a month. As for throwing up... maybe yyou gagged yourself, did you feel bad or disgusted aafterwards? Maybe you just felt like crap and were sick and still are... exlaining the other porblems. Of course always be careful but to make you feel better.. orla is the way you are LEAST likely to get an STD... anal is the most and regualr vaginal is the second most likley

I HAD UNPROTECTED ORAL SEX WITH ANOTHER MALE THERE WAS NO EJACULATION INVOILVED AM I OVER REACTING? -

How do i cure premature ejaculation? -

How do i cure premature ejaculation? -

First, that is probably something you want to ask your doctor about. Secondly, it is acutally more common than you would think for men to have this. My advice is to mastrabate about 10 minutes before intercourse. If that doesn-t help, maybe you should try to vary your activities. You can also try relaxation techniques.

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viagra -- seriously

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