Do I have premature ejaculation? -
I-m not sure what exactly premature ejaculation is, but I-ll tell you and I guess you-ll tell me if I have it. So when I jack off it takes me about 30 seconds to want to let go, but I can control it for as long as I want (although I see absolutely no purpose after about 5 minutes). After the first 30 seconds I jack off for about 10 seconds and take a 20 second break, on and off like this.I feel like this is too fast? I don-t know. What-s my problem?
This is how it is when you are young. It would be premature ejaculation if you were with a partner and came so fast she could not enjoy it. It would also be too fast if you came before you started. As long as you can control it you are fine.
True premature ejaculation has little to do with clock-time, and little to do with -partner time-.
The definition of premature ejaculation (Wikipedia is wrong) is -ejaculation before climax- (of the man).
This is different from simply achieving climax before the partner - which is actually pretty common because the female system is quite different from the male system.
The former issue is like a hiccup - when a reflex gets out of time - and will occur on rare occasions.
The latter is mostly a function of arousal level and habit. And, partners learn to synchronize with each other through practice and consideration - and maybe manual, oral, or mechanical assistance.
It-s an ongoing learning and interactive dance. And, it-s highly partner-dependent. You can -train- alone, but you can only -spar- with a sparring partner...
Premature ejaculation is just what the words say. It takes time to work on this so you won-t. So, if you masturbate, stop when you feel near time to ejaculate. Wait a minute, and start again until you feel .... Repeat; practice over and over. It-s not an overnite cure. Use the same procedure when you encounter sex with a partner. When you feel near ejaculation, pull out, wait a minute, start over. Your partner will understand what you are doing; may not like it, but will understand.
This does sound similar. When you have sex with a women you basically orgasm after anywhere from 30 to 450 seconds. On average you should be able to go 5 minutes. Some guys can go 2 hours while others 30 seconds. Try looking at techniques to not focus on orgasming so fast.
Some male porn stars focus on dead puppies grandmas and the like Do what works for you.
everyone-s ejaculation time is different