My friend has strange premature ejaculation problem.......what to do? -
My best friend recently told me his sad story.he was ****** by few teenagers when he was 5.from that time he got an addiction of masturbation..i know it sounds weird,but its true...he use to fondle his penis all the timeIt became a habit of his from that age..and he continued it till now.
Now he is 22 and whenever he sleeps with a girl,he comes out in a matter of seconds..
its not a natural problem as we see...
its sort of artifical one habituated...he wants to come out of this...
he started avoiding masturbation but that doesnt helps him..
Even though he masturbated after 6 months he came out in just 10 seconds....
I am not sure how to help him....
can this be treated...?
pls help
i cant see my best friend going down day by day..
when he feels like ejaculating, STOP immediately, wait till his penis is half erected then start again.
It might seem hard but he will get used to it
I hope those teenagers die asap. they dont deserve to be on this world!!!
may be he shud try delaying exercises..
when he thinks its about to come stop mastubating..
once the penis is flaccid get it erect again and do the same thing..
this will make ejaculations delay.......
(it might seem a bit difficult in the begining but he-ll get used to it)
there is a product they sell over the counter at the drug store it is called man delay cream it is basically a stronger form of ora gel which is a mild anesthetic it works good.
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do the kegel exercise. it helps strengthens the muscles which controls the way u hold ur pee and ur semen. Search -Kegel Exercise- up on google. it really work. Many people have tried it and it works. I have also tried my self and notice that i can last much longer and can ejaculate with much more power and volume.
some of the thing that also helps would be when he is urinating just try to hold it in mid pee. It will feel really really bad but it really strengthens the muscle there. Also a doctor has told my cousin who has a prostate problem to do this as well. It seems to work for him quite well.
Also before bed he can do the kegel. Here is the simple step. Lie flat and relax on a bed or floor or a flat surface which feels comfortable. and try to tense up the pelvic muscle which is the muscle u use to push urine out and hold it and stuff. Now you have to try tense it up (like holding ur urine) hold it for about 10 seconds (its ok if u cant get up to that much) just take it slowly and the amount will increase some ppl can do that for up to 30 secs. Also once he gots the 10 secs relax and do 2-3 quick squints which helps relax the tensed up muscle from before. he can do it every night and i promise you he will see some result after a few weeks but it wont be very obvious until about a month on.
I do the exercise every night before i go to bed and its a very simple exercise everyone could do male or female. The exercise works for many of the people i know including my cousin who has a prostate gland problem and my self who used to ejaculate fairly fast but not as fast as your friend, after the exercise the time your friend can last will increase. Hope he gets better soon.
Dear his conditin shall have no effect by stopping masturbation only. His pattern of ejaculation is distorted by permenence. Until an unless his ejaculation pattern is corrected he will suffer from PE and this can be lifelong. This may also effect his behaviour , nature and his mental status. He needs few short supportive medicines and a combination threapy where he has to learn to train his mind to delay his ejaculation. Mind it this is a slow and gradual process. Key to sucess is practice and patience.
Dr Anil Kumar
Specialist Sexual Medicine
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com