Delayed Ejaculation (Inability to ejaculate inside a vagina)? -
Hey guys, I suffer a weird and annoying condition called Delayed Ejaculation. I am unable to ejaculate while inside the vagina. Its not a blessing like some of you might think. It causes me to be able to keep going and going with sex for hours (literally) without ejaculation. I have to actually stop and masturbate in order to achieve an ejaculation. I wanted to know if any of you guys have ever suffered this and if any of you have ever overcome it. If so, how did you overcome it? I have suffered this condition my whole life. My partner thinks that she is unable to satisfy me but this is not true. I am VERY attracted to her and she turns me on very much, I just can-t achieve an ejaculation inside of her. My penis will remain hard for hours yet no ejaculation. We want to have kids someday. Please help me if you can. And I am not gay. This condition has nothing to do with sexual orientation in most cases.Treatment for delayed ejaculation varies depending on the cause. The condition often resolves once the underlying physical cause (e.g., injury, disease) is treated successfully. In some cases, learning to better manage stress may be helpful. Avoiding alcohol and illegal drugs, getting enough exercise and sleep, and eating a healthy diet also are important.
Delayed ejaculation caused by medication can be difficult to treat, especially when the prescribed medication is working properly to treat the underlying disease or condition. The decision to put up with this unwanted side effect or to try another medication that may not be as effective can be a difficult one.
Sex therapy and counseling often are used to treat delayed ejaculation caused by psychological factors. In this treatment, which usually involves both partners, a qualified mental health professional or sexual therapist takes a sexual history. A sexual history includes information about early sexual experiences and about past and current sexual relationships. Information about religious values and upbringing also may be important.
Couples may be instructed to avoid sexual relations for a period of time to help reduce anxiety. In some cases, sexual activities that emphasize communication, emotional intimacy, and pleasure, rather than performance, are encouraged. Counseling can help resolve conflicts and personal issues (e.g., resentment, anger) that can contribute to delayed ejaculation. Hypnosis also may be helpful.
Sex therapy and counseling is successful in about 75% of cases. Prompt treatment and the absence of serious psychological or physical problems increase the chances for success. Success rates also may be higher in men who previously had a satisfactory sexual relationship and in those who love their partner and desire sexual intimacy.
Please visit the webpage I have listed below for more information regarding this issue.
http://www.urologychannel.com/delayed-ej…
I know a guy like this... he does the whole -pulling out and masturbating- thing, too
but... he also does this thing where he puts a vibrating device against his perineum and it helps induce ejaculation
maybe try something like that while you are inside her
Have you ever thought about going with your problem to a urologist?They have seen and heard it all before:he might have a simple solution to your problem.
Just make an appointment.
Regards:Planets.