Why i have quick ejaculation? -
The quick come is a very easy habit for boys to get into. The male is capable of a very fast sexual response, probably borrowed from our ancestors who had to get it over with in a hurry on the African veldt before a lion sneaked up. Often when boys discover how delicious an orgasm is, they rush to get that sensation in a hurry, like a kid cramming the whole chocolate bar in his mouth. If they think they-re going to be caught at it and embarrassed or punished, they have another reason to go quickly. With repetition, this habit becomes ingrained and seems to be the only way.
Fortunately, just as you learned this habit, you can learn another way. Find a place where you can be assured of privacy for an hour or more, and where you can feel comfortable. Practice giving yourself pleasure slowly. Savor the sensations, instead of just grabbing yourself and whacking off at top speed. Don-t even touch your penis at first. Touch other parts of your body, learn how your other erogenous zones feel. When you do turn your attention to your penis, touch it gently. Stroke it softly at first, and then when you take it in your hand, slide slowly. Make it last as long as you can. If you feel like you-re about to come, stop touching yourself and do something else for a few minutes. Start over again after you calm down.
As you practice this you will get better at it, and you will learn to delay your orgasm for a long while. This skill will serve you well when it-s time to have sex with someone else.
cause you like
Because you are probably young and very excited.
No worries:it will get better in time.
Sky.
Probably because you are still young.
No offense, but probably because you are foreign. Most American guys have less of this problem. It is probably because you have less exposure to girls then us. Again, no offense. Just stating the obvious.
probably you-re still young.
Basis of premature ejaculation
The studies suggest that serotonin, a natural substance produced by nerves, is important. A breakdown of the actions of serotonin in the brain may be a cause. Studies have found that high amounts of serotonin in the brain slow the time to ejaculation while low amounts of serotonin can produce a condition like PE.
Psychological factors also commonly contribute to PE. Temporary depression, stress, unrealistic expectations about performance, a history of sexual repression, or an overall lack of confidence can cause PE. Interpersonal dynamics may contribute to sexual function. PE can be caused by a lack of communication between partners, hurt feelings, or unresolved conflicts that interfere with the ability to achieve emotional intimacy.
Dr Anil
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com
Sexologist
India
The hands down best way you can fix this (provided you are with a girl as opposed to masturbating) is to masturbate before your girlfriend comes over. My buddies and I refer to this as -not giving her the easy one- Also you dont have to last forever, every once and a while a 30 minute session is what they want but most of the time they want it capped at like 10-12 minutes