Problems with erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation? -
ok ive only had sex twice and I was with this girl who wanted to have sex with me, and as attracted as I was to her, I COULD NOT GET IT UP. this has never been a problem for me before, I can get it up easily watching porn and I can also get it up not watching porn and touching myself, but with this girl i had real trouble getting it up. any commentary? is it all mental?eventually I DID get it up, but i think the build up made me even more nervous and as soon as we started having sex I came in like 30 seconds. it was suuuuuuch a bummer, and even though the girl was completely cool and understanding, I NEVER want this to happen again.
can someone please help me make the next best step to prevention of this problem? I would really appreciate any help that I could get. thank you
You are just used to going solo and have to ease yourself into being with a partner. I was the same way- try to let off on the masturbating for a while and things should improve. It may help to take things slow with her and let her in on what-s happening- that you need to get used to doing this. When it gets close to orgasm, stop and wait a few seconds til you can go for a little longer again and keep doing it that way- pausing when you are close. Then after a while then go ahead and have your orgasm. This will also help her to get to the point of having an orgasm herself, which ultimately is what you want to have happen .
Premature ejaculation is kind of good here, because at least you know that things work the way they should - even though yes it can be embarrassing. Do you work out? Do you drink? Do you smoke? All these things can affect your erection! See my article which I hope may help a little:
http://www.helium.com/items/575496-erect��
use a condom and make it slowly. you can get any drugs too..
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wearing a condom dulls the sensation. maybe then you could last longer.. and about not getting it up..i think you were just nervous
Practice Screw Technique for 15days
you will get the results