Another stupid ejaculation question.? -
HeyI-m 19 and have been dating my girlfriend for just over a year. Whenever we have sex, I always end up finishing in like 5-10 minutes. I try to stop and let myself relax then keep going, but once I go back in, I just feel the urge to *** again. how on earth can I go for longer? It-s disappointing, it must not be fun for her. I then feel like a loser and it has actually made me not want to have sex anymore because I know I-m just going to disappoint her.
any tips? any help would be appreciated.
The very fact that you even care enough to ask this question proves without a doubt that you are a genuinely -nice guy- and your girlfriend is lucky to know you...
Quit worrying about it so much, if she-s still with you after a year, it-s obviously no big deal to her (unless you are an extremely wealthy 19-year-old and that-s why she-s there!).
Spend more time on -foreplay- (before AND after you --^%^%-) and quit worrying about it! Suddenly one morning you-ll wake up old and it-ll take you ages!
Deadman5: Let me guess and be honest. You do a lot of masturbating or did, and liked getting right to the end result with ejaculation without holding back huh? You have made your please with this way of getting off, now you need to retrain yourself. In some instances it becomes easier to do foreplay to the point where she orgasms first with your fingers or what have you, because we have done this so long it becomes our routine as yours apparently is,then do your thing man. Or you can try Prolong which is available from the pharmacies to help numb the feeling of the penis. as long as both are enjoying it fully that is the main thing. Good Luck Steve
Ok honest answer now...5-10 minutes of sex is enough. Seriously. Girls don-t like guys that can go forever. Once a girl has gotten off it-s fine. I-ve been with guys that last this long and it-s great. With guys that can last 20 minutes the only thing that is on my mind is -omg will you f***ing get off and get off of me already!!-
if u masturbate before sex it could help a little bit if u think about something else for a little bit that will help to dont concentrate so hard on cumming. one more tip when ur about to *** ur testicless kinda shrink and rise up try pulling on them like if u were stretching them that always works just dont try and rip them off
1. Take deep breaths
2. Focus on every in the house except her
3. Sing to yourself of beat a little
4. Take periodic break and get yourself together.
5. If all else fails about 3 hours before you start masturbate.
If she loves you she won-t care. Plus, it feels really good for a girl when a guy cums, so i don-t see why she-d mind too much. If you can go again right after, then just let ur self ***, and go again.
I-ve heard that if you use a lot of foreplay it helps. I guess if you enhoy that then when it comes to the sex you won-t need to go longer.
Hope this helps a little!
Good Luck x
u need to keep your wallet full of cash, and to hide it. oh best thing ? learn to cook and wash the dishes...and everyone including you can watch football and feel satisfied..trust me this works.
Masturbating before you have sex with her would severely help you last longer the 2nd time around and she will be very satisfied- TRUST ME!!
Good Luck man and happy wacky!
You could try jacking off before she gets there to last longer.
If you can-t help it, just *** and if she hasn-t got off get her off by going down on her.
Google -kegels-
try oral till ur ready to go again it should take longer the second times
I-ve got your 5-10 minute record beat! It takes me about 20 seconds!
you need to yank one off earlier in the day.
its okay your okay dont be selfconscious just go oral first it should giv u a start
Don-t worry about her, just as long as you get yours it-s all good.