How can I deal with my problem of pre-mature ejaculation? -
I-m 24, in good shape, good looking and I have found the girl of my dreams. The first few times we had sex it was great but lately I literally can-t last longer then 2 minutes and its driving me nuts! She says its OK cause she is getting off but I-m not dumb and I am fully aware of when I-m hitting the right spots. Now I find myself drinking a lot more every time we go out hoping it will make me last longer. 1 to 2 minutes cannot possibly be normal. I cant even concentrate on her when we are in bed messing around cause the only thing I have on my mind is that when I get ready to put it in I-m going to *** a minute later. Is there anything that can be done about this?Instead of worrying so much, sit back and concentrate on her and how much fun your having.
Did you know that drinking a lot of alcohol actually is the main reason that guys don-t last as long? You should NOT drink a lot more when you go out, cuz it won-t help you.
First of all drinking does not help, on the contrary !
Don-t worry too much about it, and try to masturbate before you go out with your lady.Seriously, this will tone down a little the anticipation, the eagerness. The more you relax, the more you will be able to keep IT up.And if IT still has a mind of its own and does not obey your commands, you can try using a co@# ring. Anyway, don-t worry, it-s just a fase, it-ll pass. Also if you finish before your lady, continue to pleasure her (use your fingers, tongue,maybe toys and imagination) and I can promise you that when she-s done you-ll be -ready for action-. You can visit Sue Johanson-s web site, I think it-s called -talksexwithsue- but I-m not sure.Google her, she-s an old lady from Canada and for over 30 years she-s a great sex educator. I-m 43, divorced and learned a lot from her TV show .
Good luck !
Sanda Turner