Teenage premature ejaculation? -
i-m 16, i was with a guy a few nights ago (also 16), and we had only just gotten started... after a few minutes he came and i had barely done anything to him.. is this normal? could it have been something i did? do you think hes as embarrassed as i am? help!
Neither of you should be embarrassed. Kinsey rather clearly showed (and the result of the study has since been replicated) that over 70% of males ejaculated in less than 2 minutes after penetration. Long leisurely sex acts are mostly a myth made up by men who have tremendous self-image problems and by women who just aren-t satisfied with life.
If you want to orgasm as well, he should be starting with physical and oral manipulation of your organ to bring you to that point during the make out stage -- only then should you start on him, and then both of you can orgasm quickly and know the joy of sex without the pressures you are obviously determined to bring to bear -embarrassment?- -- how utterly silly and moreover - wrong -- for either of you. He-s 16 years old -- what do you expect, that his sexual response will be like that of a 60 year old? Go ahead, suck the joy out of sex for a young man -- do it -- after all, that is what you are doing by having unrealistic expectations.
The methods of solving the situation I suggested will work and allow you to have pleasure, without taking away your friend-s masculinity and sense of self-worth over something he does not and should not have control of --- a much better solution - wouldn-t you say?
Regards,
Reyn
HI,
I-m sure he was way excited and turned on by you. That-s normal. Maybe it was his first time or at his age I-m sure he-s not really -experienced.- Just be smart and make sure you demand anyone you are with uses a condom even if you are on the pill or something. No sex is worth getting an std or HIV.
I-m sure he-s feeling embarrassed but just tell him it-s alright and that you aren-t mad or upset. Are you feeling like you got nothing out of it? if so I guess the two of you will just have to experiment together. I hope you are in love and not just having sex for curoisity reasons. take care and please respect yourself as a young woman. :)
Eileen
I think its something normal cuz it does happen , I just think you exited him alot or made him hot enough to just let it go a little early, i would say you should think of it as a compliment
Anxiety did that:next time before you two have sex he should have jerked off before:then he lasts longer:pretty normal.
Sky.
I think that it was his first time and he was excited and didnt know what 2 do
he was just very excited. yo shouldn-t be embarrased at all it-s normal for 16 year old boy