Is it Premature Ejaculation? Or is it just me? -
I-m 18. I-ve been having sex for about 6 months now. I know. Not too long. When I very first started doing anything sexually I would last 2 minutes. If I was lucky. That was during foreplay, which included hand jobs and oral.Now I can-t even ejaculate during these events. I-ve never been able to last long during sex though, the first time around at least. But I can last forever the second time, there has been times where I can-t even ejaculate the second time and we have to quit cause my girlfriend is too tired. That-s not a big deal to me though. As long as my girlfriend is pleased than I-m happy. But lately we haven-t been able to get a second time in. We-re both to busy. I wanna be able to satisfy her the first time around. And I just can-t do that when I-m lasting two minutes. What do I do?So I am 30... ok 31 in like 6 days. When I first started to have sex I was like you and able to *** very fast. As I have gained experience... a few things have changed.
Generally speaking a woman can not get me off with a hand job. She just doesnt do it right, and when she does... she changes what she is doing and loses it. Orally I can *** but I basically am playing out a pretty hot fantasy in my head about have sex and imaging her mouth is a pussy. I know that sounds sad but if I don-t, there is just not a way it will happen. Maybe it is the fact that I am so used to holding out for endurance sake or whatever. So in those regards I think you are normal.
Try this when your girlfriend is sucking you, WITHOUT telling her close your eyes and imagine you are ******* her, and I mean really imagine it. Imagine each time she swallows deeper your thrusting deeper.. and dont be shy when she find something that feels good... tell her so she will stay there and keep doing it. That might help.
As for the single shot for the night issue, I went through that a few years ago when I was under stress. I was good for one shot but no matter the break and the time before resuming activities I was done. Kinda embaressing too. What I did in that situation till I got over it was made sure I focused on her first, yes there was foreplay but I never let it get to the point of me getting off. I would focus on her orally and let her climax first, then I would get mine, or at the same time if pausable.
It -s common for a teen to last only two minutes and the average is about two to six minutes.Try to masturbate an hour before the real event.Sometime,the second round may last for about four to six minutes.
Try to relax and forget about the masturbate earlier on or the second round may seen to last forever.
The last option is to see a doctor for some prescription on -delay-ejaculation.They come in form of spray,pills and gel.
Good lucks!
try whacking it an hour before you have sex. you can also take anti depressants. some anti depressant have been known for treating premature ejaculation
I distinctly remember hearing that consciously forcing your mind to not focus on sex to last longer does not help but can actually make it happen sooner
practice makes perfect, applies to both magic johnson and you having sex