Masturbation - High sex drive - Ejaculation - No girlfriend? -
Here-s my situation. I don-t have a girlfriend. I-ve been single for the last 2 years or so. I have a very high sex drive, which means that I need to masturbate at least everyday, some times twice.Like I hadn-t masturbated for 2 days so today was my day off and I woke up at around 7 in the morning because I wanted to get somethings done. But I had all this sexual build-up so I masturbated twice, and after doing it I felt sooo relieved but of course because of the chemical process that happens I got sleepy. I slept for like 2 hours and then I-ve been feeling lethargic for the rest of the day. So I ended up doing nothing.
The only activity that I-m doing these days is work. I-m planning to start college for the upcoming fall, or maybe during the summer, so I hope that I meet someone there that helps me with my urges.
I-ve read from some guys on the internet that if they go a week or so without ejaculating they become a lot more productive and competitive, that even boxers do it before a fight to gain strength. Staring today I-m going to try not to do it in the mornings so that it doesn-t mess up the rest of the day, but this is hard for me.
Oh, and don-t think that I-m addicted to porn. I haven-t watched porn in like 6 months, or anything that sexual in nature, it-s just that I have a high sex drive.
Anybody out there in a similar situation?
How do you deal with this?
I would like to hear from people that do this -not ejaculating for a week- regime so they can tell me if they obtain anything productive from such practice.
Thank you all.
i-m not a guy, so i know that it-s different, but i went through a period when i was overtly sexual. i was satisfying myself at least once a night and it was very easy to get a guy to help me out.
i came out of it by resisting and is was hard at first, but i eventually realized the hyper-sexuality was a way to deal with what i didn-t want to deal with and stuff. it-s good that you don-t have a porn problem and as far as the masturbation goes, don-t do it in the morning. ever. you are going to have to. it-s normal. but reserve it for a time when you can get lethargic.
also, when in a relationship that is more than purely physical, i have found a considerably less need. find someone to befriend, to talk to to and see where things go. take it slow and watch and see how when there are other things on your mind, your sex drive will dip a little bit.
i feel like i wasn-t too much help and i-m sorry if i wasn-t. but that-s the only advice i could think of right now. if you ever want to talk (and i know it-s a taboo subject, but i know i don-t give a darn) just send me an e-mail.
I hope this dosent sound mean but i really think your just using -high sex drive- almost like its some sort of ilness wen realy its not.
sorry i think u just need to get over it and realize that u can do things and have a completly normal life
The longest I went without doing dat waz about 2 weeks. If you don-t think about it and go outside or in a public place it will take your mind off it. Trust me I no I use 2 do the exact same thing.
go have some fun.. go out to a club or go to a party with your friends and tell them to invite some girls!
you should go get a lap dance
Woah, woah, woah, woah.........time out
hold on......
whew!
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Usually a high sex drive doesn-t wear you out. Perhaps your diet needs some attention?? If you are eating junk food, candy, soda, pizza regularly, then yes, your body will be tired after you ejaculate. Also, if your water intake is low, or mainly/only fizzy drink, then the same thing will occur. Your body needs nourishing foods to replenish itself.
Physical activities like swimming, cycling, jogging, etc help the body to balance, keep you in good health, and provide another buzz that doesn-t drain you.
Having a gf doesn-t translate to feeling less worn out, necessarily.
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It sounds perfectly normal to me that studied Sexology.Try to meet girls and have dates, you need to improve your social life and soon you will find a partner.
Do not worry too much about your frequency, there are people like you.
Be yourself and tell you all the great things you are or could do...a high self steam attracts!
Good Luck!
Dude I-m right there with you. I haven-t been in a relationship for 4 years. So I really get agitated (horny). I-ve been a busy guy with trying to finish college, and traveling to New Orleans three times a year to work on rebuilding homes. I have done the once a week method and it works and it helps with productivity. I get so much more done in a day and throughout the week when I-m not beatin- it like it owes me money. Plus when you get to the end of the week and you do let go it is absolutely amazing. So, much better than doing it everyday. In fact I found that saving it up for a week made me have better orgasms in the end. Now I save it for two weeks and boy do I blow my mind. Then I switch it up with every other day then I go back to once a week. It-s hard do at first, but if you go jogging or find something to distract yourself, well you-ll find it-s actually worth it. My roommate thought I was crazy at first, and now it has become a part of his regular routine. And he has a girlfriend to get it from. Good luck!