What can cause premature ejaculation/ impotence? -
I am not even sure if these are the appropriate terms to describe my situation. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and the sex has always been amazing. Then about 3 weeks ago, I caught him in a lie so we-ve been fighting. We usually smoke marijuana before we have sex, but lately I-ve been trying to cut down, so I-ve been only having sober sex with him. In the past 3 weeks, he can only last about 1 or 2 minutes during sex, but about a full half hour during oral. Can this be caused by stress due to our fighting, or maybe because he isnt high during sex anymore? someone please help!Stress can cause both impotence and premature ejaculation. If he-s used to being high during sex and isn-t anymore - that can do it too.
There are many things you can do to help him such as starting and stopping during sex to hold off ejaculation. His body will get in the habit of waiting to ejaculate. There are also condoms with anesthetic on the inside to reduce feeling.
don-t use a condom that reduces the feeling for the obvious reasons(it doesn-t feel as good!). it is most likely because he isn-t high, i last alot longer high or drunk than when i-m sober.