No ejaculation??? -
My husband and I have always had a good sex life. And we still love each other and have all the passion that we-ve always had, so don-t think that. But lately, it seems that he can-t ejaculate anymore...what can I do???1. Get him a checkup. Many diseases, including diabetes and depression, can result in impotence.
2. Explore his fantasy life with him. Maybe he could reach a climax if you dressed up as a lamb, as a nun, as a schoolgirl, or as Richard M. Nixon.
3. Stress can be a big factor. It-s hard to lose yourself in sex when the wolf is at the door.
4. Introduce games. A length of clothesline is awfully cheap - but you-ll have to experiment, to find out whether you need to be tied up, or he does.
5. Is he getting enough rest?
6. Does he like it better when you talk dirty to him - or when you don-t?
7. Try some different positions. The -scissors- position allows for deeper penetration; it-s more stimulating if the glans is pounding on the cervix.
8. Maybe you need to introduce some kinks. Invite a friend over to watch - or participate. It-s not cheating if you are both honest.
9. Have you changed birth control? The diet you and he are eating? *Scent* plays a big role.
10. A guy who is insecure about his relationship may not be able to ejaculate with a woman he doesn-t trust. Find out if he can climax with a whore. What-s the difference? A whore gets a single payment up front. A girlfriend or ex-wife goes to court and gets support payments for a couple of decades.
your hubby needs a doctor he could have sugar,many other reasons but sugar is on top of list be sure to get to a good doctor
Is he on an anti depressant by chance or any new meds or supplements?
that can cause this issue
play with it a bit more brutally!
he should go to the doctor
Give Him A Go Sucking That Will Make Him Squrit
he should go see a doctor because there may be something obstructing the ejaculatory duct which may need surgical operation
or if he takes antidepressants or anti hypertensives they may be the cause
Is he taking any new medications? Some medications, especially anti-depressants will have this exact same effect.
Even diet pills, such as phentermine, will have sexual side effects like this.
Is he still having orgasms? If he is but is not ejaculating, he needs to see a doctor.
If he isn-t, it is most likely mental. Maybe he just isn-t enjoying it anymore. Try changing things up.
Not being able to ejaculate (in other words having a dry orgasm) and not being able to reach the point of orgasm are two totally different issues. But, just to let you, and your husband, know, both can be side effects of medication. If he takes any meds on a regular basis, have him contact his MD to ask if his issue (whichever one it is) might be a side effect.
If so, he may need a dosage adjustment or change in medication all together. I hope this helps. By the way, I began taking an antidepressant, several years ago, and it caused me not to be able to reach the point of orgasm. It-s very frustrating and humilitating. Atleast, it was for me. I was so glad, when I discussed it with my MD, he changed my medication and the problem was resolved.
It is probably not your fault first off!
Let-s just get that out of the way.
He may be experiencing a form of ED. Even if he has no problem getting it up, reaching orgasm may be a problem.
I would say you should see a doctor, but this can be very immasculating for a man, so maybe you should try approaching it yourself first.
Tell him you want to know you are pleasing him and you are worried about his health also. Try to avoid words that make it insulting.
Good luck!
(ADDED) Oh yeah I forgot Rx-s can be related too! Good observation nurse!