Do all men de-flate after ejaculation ? -
Yesterday i had sex. I ejaculated ab-normally quickly but i think its because i rushed in without getting her wet. Therefore more friction.
However i wanted to carry on more for her afterwards, but i couldnt get it back up.
Is this normal ?
Yeah it-s normal, after ejaculation most men-s bodies want a little rest (as you can probably tell from tiredness after ejaculation).
But personally I don-t -de-flate- after sex, only after ejaculation caused by other means, but I suppose that is only because the situation is still arousing.
It is perfectly normal to de-flate after ejaculation. It is abnormal to have another erection, immediately or a few seconds after ejaculation. You have to wait about half an hour to an hour to have another erection, if you have still the drive and the interest. Don-t worry about it. Relax.
Yes. It-s called the male refractory period, and there-s no way around it, I-m afraid, other than some... mechanical aids that prevent the blood from leaving. But I don-t know how dangerous those are.
It-s totally natural to go flaccid. The rest period needed is usually about twenty minutes, then you should be able to achieve another erection and finish the job... haha.
OH! Yes it happens. don-t worry. Play with her for couple of minutes( Kissing, Talking dirty, touching smellin and get your mind in the game! It will get back up for 2 hours before ur next ejaculation!
The problem is that your body says -hey stop for a while- and you do....so, keep going in some way or another to keep yourself AND your partner aroused, cos that-ll help you both ;-)
It-s normal to not be able to get it back up right away. You need a period of -rest- before you can go at it again.
guys need to wait a bit after c*mming, my bf needs about 20 mins after a w@nk for another one unless I suck him off then he is okay after about 10 - its all about stimulation and mechanical renewal
I hope you apologised to your boyfriend.
The pepper spray in your eyes may have been a factor.