Ejaculation problem? -
Right i can ejeculat while playing with myself...
i can get hard and i can have sex,.. but when i have sex im unable to ***... basically i just keep going and going like the duracell bunny.
somone told me that it could have been stress or performance anxiety but iv changed where i work and have less stress and still am unable to *** during sex.
I was told maybe i wasnt attracted to the girl enough.. so iv tried with with different girls.. (never cheated though and not one night stands) and even tried anal stimulation from a girl... and still couldnt ***...
any suggestions... my doctor has just fobbed me off saying to work on it with my gf...
any suggestions.
Perhaps you will take a little more time to ejaculate or more sensation is required.
It sounds psychological to me. Perhaps you have just conditioned your mind to think you aren-t going to finish.
In this case, time would be the key point to ejaculation.
You should tell your girlfriend to help you to get you randy or horny
Don-t masterbate so much.
raw oysters on the half shell
give it a couple more strokes
I began sex in my mid teens and I had the same problem. Most of my partners at that time were all adults so none of them complained AT FIRST! Most women do not like penetrations that last hours and hours each and every time. There-s also the intimate sharing that is being denied to the woman....think of not being about to share the orgasm and satisfaction of your girlfriend because you can never make her finish...you wouldn-t feel good about it so understand that woman feel badly in the same way.
I learned to stimulate areas of my brain through concentration and metal imaging during sex as well as tightening my knees and butt to help accelerate ejaculation.
This condition does have one great advantage: once you learn how to make yourself ejaculate you will still be able to perform intercourse for as long as you like before you decide to finish.
You can get through this. I did but it took me time. You can pick up some human sexology books that will help you learn the techniques..this is what I did.
All the best.
First of all relax... The biggest problem found in todys life is stress.. Its not just a killer its a sex killer too.
I am not sure if you are cut or not but this might make a difference. Also sometimes girls get too lubed up and you may lack some friction to excite you.
Try other positions and take your time. Also, try pleasing her first.. I find that doing down on my girl makes me ready to take on the world. After I get her a few times then I am ready.
The best advice is stop trying so hard to get off. Let that come naturally. There are other ways your girlfriend can get you. Think about it...
Still you need to chill. Sex is about relaxing... Take its slow... You know the song... Take it easy... Slow ride ....
Thinking you have a probem will often times give you just that. Also - Masturbation is the greatest teacher for us. However, too much of that activity prior to being with your partner could leave you with enpty tanks. Save some up for her and that should help a great deal.
Drink plenty of water... Semen is 90 percent water.... If you take your vitamines and minerals, and you don-t shoot away all your supply... Get in bed and relax with her..
Go down and make her the happiest girl in town. I mean really... Women have a penis too. And it needs every bit as much attention as ours. If you can do that, and you can use your fingers as well to finally get her off. You win too. She will be your slave after that.
You will get hard just pleasing her. It might take practice. Its an aquired skill. Perhaps an aquired taste too. Make sure she is cleaned up, and it should be fine. I am use to it now, but there was a time when I thought it was bad. Take your time.. Rome was not built in one day. I cannot say enough about relaxing. Relaxing is what brings on a hard on in the first place. Its why we get them in bed all the time.
In fact Viagra relaxes certain muscles allowing for a hard on to take place. Watch some porn too. It helps get males ready. Also its a great teaching tool.. I get tips on how to please my girl.
There is no book or school for sex,... Its up to you to learn the skills you need to be a success. I would not share the fact that you watch porn with her.. They don-t always see things our way. She will think she is not enough for you... Its just how they think.... You see... They have stress about themsleves too. They are no different than us.
I hope this was your best answer.
Be safe and have fun.