Could Anyone tell me the truth (time for a virgin penis ejaculation)? -
If i haven-t had sex before how it would take to ejaculate when my penis just touches her nd there is a sec part she is a virgin too , am afraid that it might blow the load before doin anything
The solution is rather simple if you think about it! If you are engaging in the act of sex and suffer from a bout of premature ejaculation, Wait about ten minutes and see if you can get it up again! Young guys often suffer from this problem, being hyper excited about having sex, especially the first time, just remember, your are not limited to one ejaculation per evening, if the first one comes off too quick, take a short breather and go for another round! You will find that the time it takes to reach orgasm will increase with each ejaculation in any giving evening!
Hi there,
It may take anywhere between 2 minutes to few hours, depending upon the couple-s mental framework like how much -relaxed they are-, and how much -stressed they are- , etc etc.
best wishes...
yes thats gonna happen wether she is a virgin or not.. you-re gonna lose it before you have any fun.. and she isn-t gonna be very happy
So what if you do?
Wait half an hour and try again.
The best advice I received was to knock on off two hours before.
Don-t worry, just remember:-
Charh Ja Bacha Sooli Per ...... Raam Bhali Karay Gaa
JUST DO BETTER
practice at home before being alone with her that way you can time it, and if she is a virgin too it may not be so hot for both of you
Premature ejaculation (PE), also known as rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax or early ejaculation, is the most common sexual problem in men, affecting 25%-40% of men. It is characterized by a lack of voluntary control over ejaculation. Masters and Johnson stated that a man suffers from premature ejaculation if he ejaculates before his sex partner achieves orgasm in more than fifty percent of their sexual encounters. Other sex researchers have defined premature ejaculation as occurring if the man ejaculates within two minutes of penetration; however, a survey by Alfred Kinsey in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ejaculate within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters. Today, most sex therapists understand premature ejaculation as occurring when a lack of ejaculatory control interferes with sexual or emotional well-being in one or both partners.
Most men experience premature ejaculation at least once in their lives. Often adolescents and young men experience premature ejaculation during their first sexual encounters, but eventually learn ejaculatory control. Because there is great variability in both how long it takes men to ejaculate and how long both partners want sex to last, researchers have begun to form a quantitative definition of premature ejaculation. Current evidence supports an average intravaginal ejaculation latency time (IELT) of six and a half minutes in 18-30 year olds.[1][2] If the disorder is defined as an IELT percentile below 2.5, then premature ejaculation could be suggested by an IELT of less than about one and a half minutes.[3] Nevertheless, it is well accepted that men with IELTs below 1.5 minutes could be -happy- with their performance and do not report a lack of control and therefore do not suffer from PE. On the other hand, a man with 2 minutes IELT could present with perception of poor control over his ejaculation, distressed about his condition, has interpersonal difficulties and therefore be diagnosed with PE.
treatment
Depending on severity, premature ejaculation symptoms can be significantly reduced. In mundane cases, treatments are focused on gradually training and improving mental habituation to sex and physical development of stimulation control. In clinical cases, various medications are being trialled to help slow down the speed of the arousal response.
[edit] Medications
SSRI antidepressants have been shown to delay ejaculation in men treated for different psychiatry disorders.[9] SSRIs are considered the most effective treatment currently available for PE. These include paroxetine, fluoxetine, sertraline and more. The use of these drugs, that require chronic therapy, is limited by the neuropsychiatric side effects. New SSRI drugs specifically targeted to treat premature ejaculation (e.g. dapoxetine) can be taken on an as needed basis and have been recently shown positive results in large phase III studies.[10] Nevertheless dapoxetine is not yet approved by any regulatory authority around the world. There is speculation that some of the associated effects are caused by lowered libido and blood pressure as well as lowered anxiety levels. Other pharmaceutical products known to delay male orgasm are; opioids, cocaine, and diphenhydramine.
The effects of the hyperforin extract of Hypericum perforatum has been evaluated on the ejaculatory reflex duration by using the intravaginal ejaculatory latency time (IELT) and sexual satisfaction.[11] In this trial sixteen men who desired longer sexual intercourse and without erectile dysfunction took with hyperforin immediately prior to sexual activity. All 16 participants completed the trial and there was a significant increase in mean ejaculation times from 246±29 to 331±34 seconds (p-0.002) in persons taking the hyperforin. The increase was seen in both the men who reported PE as bothersome and those who did not feel that PE was a problem for them. The effect of hypericum perforatum is similar to dapoxetine.
Local anesthetic creams (like lidocaine, prilocaine and combinations) have shown to be effective in clinical trials and are being used for the treatment of PE.[12] Their use is limited by its own anesthetic effect that reduce sensation on the penis and vagina.
[edit] Behavior modification
Most sex therapists prescribe a series of exercises to enable the man to gain ejaculatory control. While the exercises are intended for men who suffer from premature ejaculation, other men can use the exercises to enhance their sex lives. One of the most common exercises is the so-called start-stop technique, documented by Semans in 1956.[13][14] While the technique varies, the purpose is to get the male accustomed to maintaining an erection for an extended period of time while gradually increasing sexual tolerance. In doing this exercise, the male obtains an erection through self-stimulation, or masturbation. After achieving an erection, he stops stimulating himself until he begins to lose his erection; at that point, he begins to stimulate himself again. Gradually, over a period of several weeks, he is able to stimulate himself for longer periods of time, eventually gaining ejaculatory control. In order for this technique to be successful, the male should avoid feeling discouraged if he ejaculates rapidly; instead, he should use his sexual responses to learn how to vary the technique in a way that most benefits him. Another variant, for example, is to stimulate the shaft and frenulum of the penis, exploring the glans more as control improves.
The male-s partner is usually integrated into the exercises. They can stimulate their partner using the stop-start technique. When the male has achieved some level of ejaculatory control, he can insert his penis into his partner without thrusting. After his penis becomes accustomed to being inside his partner, thrusting can be gradually included, according to his abilities, using the stop-start technique. In less severe cases, the male might overcome his premature ejaculation early on, making exercises with his partner superfluous.
The male-s partner plays an essential role in enabling him to overcome premature ejaculation. Without understanding and emotional support, the male is unlikely to obtain the level of relaxation required for sexual satisfaction. Both the male and his partner should communicate their feelings openly and with sensitivity. The male should learn to sexually satisfy his partner, orally or otherwise, while they work with him to overcome his premature ejaculation.
[edit] Devices
External latex rigid sheathes fastened to the body have been developed that cover all part of the penis during penetration so that the penis is protected from all the stimulation of the vagina. These help to gain control and to provide satisfaction to the partner. Masters and Johnson recommended the use of the Lateral coital position to help alleviate premature ejaculation
hope it helps ;)