How do I stop him from premature ejaculation? -
My boyfriend is 20, i stole his virginity so he has no experience we-ve probably had sex about 20 times and every single time he only last about 10 seconds [at the most] and he said he can-t help it that im so hott. he definitly has some self-esteem issues and afterwards he feels really bad and says he cant do anything right and hes a failure. Will I ever have good sex? I don-t think he would go to a doctor if I told him.Don-t worry... The solution is for him to tie a rubber band around his dick... REALLY TIGHT!!!!!!!!!!
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Premature ejaculation affects more than 50% of men, interestingly.
Several things can be done from his side and your side -
1. Slow down or stop the motion when he starts feeling very aroused before he gets to -the point of no return-. You may have to do this several times during each sexual encounter and you need his help to tell you when he is getting close to that point. Doing this over several weeks will prolong his staying power as his penis then gets -used- to being in your vagina and he then doesn-t come immediately he is inside.
2. Squeeze tightly the base of his penis when he is close to the -point of no return- and his urge to ejaculate will go away. You need his help for this too.
3. Do it again immediately after he comes the first time as he is able to last longer the second time.
4. You can get topical lotions at any drugstore which are to help reduce the sensation on his penis and may help prolong ejacultion.
5. There are a few medications which help, I-ll let you know if you need to know.
Hope these few tips help.
ask him to practice masturbation for long hours,like when he is about to ejaculate ask him to stop rubbing his penis. so that he vl last long.Or u can stroke him for long hours just stop storking when he is abt to ***.I mean have a long foreplay. When he is abt to *** u can hold the tip of the penis(the part touching the balls and penis) tightly,so u can stop him cumming.
Come again?
my boyfriend lasted real short, not that short, before, the more we did it the longer he lasts now, practice makes perfect!. Also just playing with him or blowin him before sex is also good.
na just but a bag over your face then get it on
tell him to start masturbating once in a while so that your sex will last longer
get him to do stuff to you before you have sex that way youre ready and you guys can finish at the same time?
you sound too premiscuous..... his friend is really good???? Where is your interest in the PERSON? Get real
After guys -release the days tension- the last thing on their mind is sex, or masturbation. If he would masturbate more he would last longer, or you could always tell him to think of Barbara Bush, that-ll throw him off. If it doesnt you might want to have a little talk...
Premature ejaculation is something I used to have a problem with in my younger days. Heck sometimes I didn-t even penetrate because I was so excited and I was spent. If he masturbates earlier in the day like in the morning so he doesn-t have as much spunk waiting to get out it should help. Just beware it could also cause the opposite problem of him not being able to get it up. So be careful this could be a double edged sword. If he watches porn maybe he should lay off of it a little. Actually masturbation causes premature ejaculation there are training exercises where you masturbate and just before you feel like you are going to come you stop and relax. Then repeat the whole process. It is supposed to build up stammina and strength at holding back the come. Just do your boyfriend a favor be supportive. If he still has a problem there are other methods of play that can work very well and are quite fun too.
Tim
there-s not much you can do,maybe try some foreplay or have him masturbate a little before you guys have sex, that usually slows down the next orgasm.