Ejaculation Problem? -
Hi , i am an unmarried guy of 29.I masterbating since i was 14.I daily masterbate twice,But i donot ejaculate daily or ejaculates only1-2 drops.When i do after a week or so, i ejaculate about a spoon first time and then only few drop next time. am i normal or is this some problem.I have heard that one should ejaculate Daily.Is it right.Please help me.Will this create some problem in my married life afterward for being a dad or satisfying my wife. Am i normal?
Hey sandy,
Your concerns are very normal. The first time i ejaculated i thought i had broken my penis.
Your sperm cells are produced in capacity of millions everyday. So you have to understand, when you don-t masturbate for 2 days, there is more sperm that is stored in your body.
Simple mathematics to help you understand, say you masturbate once everyday, you-re ejaculating a million sperm cells (taking as the avg. growth of sperm cells in the body). Now say you masturbate once in 2 days, you-re ejaculating 2 millions sperm cells. Its that simple. Solves your first query.
Is it normal? Yes very much! I would suggest you should wait for sometime to masturbate, like have gaps of 2 days or so. Cause when you do it after a long time, the feeling is better, so is the pleasure. The orgasm is also more intense.
Masturbating is the safest way of sex. There is nothing wrong with it and would cause no future harm to you. This has been prooved btw. All is well as long as you-re not addicted to it.
Hey dude its your body telling you to stop. Its drying up like a well. You take to much out and dont let it refill you will run dry. Man drop masterbation all together. It makes your hands prone to sweating and also creats muscle loss. due to your body not eating your sperm. If you do continue I advise you to start eating it to gain nutrition and muscle building antioxidens!
dude if everythng is normal that first spooge contained abou 1 million sperm dudes so the second go around is just for plesure not a problem enjoy
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The low amount of ejaculate is normal as you generally need 2 days to stock up again.
As for affecting future married life, I think masturbating twice a day will definitely have an affect on your marriage!
its normal dont worry u will satisfy ur wife
Do you reach orgasm faster than you can say, -****-? Many men dread this situation, and with good reason. Cumming too early or too fast robs you and your partner of the pleasure that sexual intercourse can give. This is believed to be the most common sexual complaint of couples. About 29 percent of men are reportedly bothered by these episodes.
There are many reasons why a man -cums- too fast. Biologically, men experience climax much earlier than women. They do so 2-3 minutes after penetration, in contrast to women who take their time (about 12-14 minutes). Likewise, there are also psychological factors that bring about early ejaculation. These include guilt, anxiety (lack of experience), or fear of sexually transmitted infections, potential pregnancy, etc. Older men are also known to be able to control their ejaculation as compared with their younger counterparts. They credit it to their experience.
So, how can you control yourself from ejaculating too quickly? One way is to exercise your PC (pubococcygeus) muscle, which is the primary -sexual muscle- that forms part of the pelvis. The PC muscle is largely involved with sexual functions such as ejaculation and orgasm. With regular exercise, this muscle can provide firmer and larger erections, powerful ejaculations and more intense climaxes.
So where is this muscle located? Try stopping the flow of your urine midway. The PC muscle, located between the anus and scrotum, is the one you contracts when you try to stop the flow of your urine.
How to go about exercising your PC muscles? Try clenching and releasing your PC muscle in ten-second periods. Perform three sets of this. Take a breather. Now, try the clench-and-release technique for five seconds. Perform ten sets of this. This time, try tightening the muscle for 30 seconds and relaxing for 30 seconds. Perform three sets of this.
This exercise is rather simple and easy to perform. You can do it by yourself -- just about anytime and anywhere. You don-t need any device or contraption to exercise your PC muscle. But, like all exercise regimens, you need to commit to a routine devotedly. Famous porn stars, with explosive cumshots, are even rumored to perform these exercises faithfully.
So next time you and your partner are making love, try to go inside her and pause for awhile. Don-t move for several seconds; then try tightening and relaxing your PC muscle.
You also have to keep in mind that different women also prefer different types of sex. Some prefer the long and sensual approach; while others favor the pound-pound-pound approach. It-s always better to know your partner-s preference so that you can both enjoy an intimate sexual fun.
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Get a medical check up as a lack of ejaculate could indicate a problem with your prostate gland or seminal vesicles (paired structures behind the prostate gland) as this is the main source of semen production along with the seminal vesicles. Over 90% of the semen is produced from the prostate and seminal vesicles and not from the testis:
http://www.andrologyaustralia.org/pageCo…
Read this question and answer also:
http://en.allexperts.com/q/Urology-Male-…
Over-masturbation could perhaps be a contributing factor but I suggest you discuss this with a Urologist who is better able to advise you.
Is your diet adequate? Do you get enough zinc which is important for male sexual health including healthy sperm and semen production. Eat lots of pumpkin seeds for prostate health...they are rich in zinc and other compounds that promote a healthy prostate gland.
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There is some anecdotal evidence (i.e. from individuals affected) that masturbation could lead to curvature of the penis and/or Peyronie-s Disease (curvature of the penis with plaque or fibrosis).
Here are some links for individuals talking about that:
http://www.sybian.com/venus2000_testimon…
http://uk.askmen.com/love/dzimmer_100/11…
http://www.peyronies.org/pages/forum.htm
It might be difficult to prove medically but anecdotal evidence is perhaps the next best thing.
According to the following website there is homeopathy for masturbation depending on the specific effects but I don-t know if this is backed up by homeopathic associations. This is from a qualified homeopath who has written a book on this subject but I have not read it so don-t know the basis (science and theory) behind this:
http://www.homeoint.org/site/ahmad/mastu…
According to Chinese Medicine, masturbation could lead to premature ejaculation:
http://www.tcmtreatment.com/images/disea…
According to Ayurvedic Medicine, masturbation can weaken the immune system and derange the nervous system:
http://www.ayush.com/common/news/store_n…
your question is eye opener for others. You have been masturbating for 15 years is very long period, Its too early and too much, remember everything on this earth vanishes some early some late. certainly your sex power may also not respond you favourably for long time after marriage, early discharge, poor ejeculation, early vanishing sex power etc, you may face such problems, morever you may not be able to satify your partner often, stop mastubate immediately atleast now, same situationarose in one of my friend life.