Men- is it true that if you mastabate earlier in the day that this delays next ejaculation? -
think of the bathroom on -there is something about mary- when he wants to -release- before he goes on a date with her
Read this, maybe you will be more informed!!!
Don-t feel guilty about it, it-s your body and it-s fun.
Just don-t announce it to the world, some things are better left private :) Everyone does it, people just don-t talk about it!!!
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Masturbation is quite common in young children. In most cases, it is considered a natural, normal behavior in children of all ages. Children often begin masturbating at around eighteen months of age. Masturbation tends to peak when children are between the ages of three and five. It then declines in frequency until puberty.
Many parents are surprised and/or shocked to find their children masturbating. Parents should keep in mind that masturbation generally causes no physical harm to their children. In most cases, problems result only when adults overreact.
For parents to deal with their children-s masturbation they must know when it is normal and when it might indicate some underlying problem.
Why Children Masturbate
*Pleasure. Children learn very quickly that it feels good to masturbate.
*Self-soothing. For many children, masturbation reduces tension. These children may masturbate when they are upset, tired, bored, or feeling stress.
*Exploration. Many children will masturbate as part of the natural curiosity they have about their bodies.
What Parents Can Do
*Ignore it. Masturbation is, after all, a normal behavior for most children. Parents can best handle it by treating it matter-of-factly. Parents shouldn-t try to get their children to stop masturbating by punishing, threatening or scolding. If they do, they run the risk of giving their children the idea that their genitals are bad and/or dirty.
*Remain calm. Parents should try not to overreact. They should also keep in mind that no physical harm will come to their children as a result of masturbation. If parents overreact, they may put fear into their children about their bodies.
*Don-t be surprised. Masturbation among young children is very common, and quite normal.
When Children Masturbate in Public Places
Masturbation is something that should be done in private. Most young children, however, don-t know the difference between public and private behaviors. In these cases, children must be taught. Parents should treat public masturbation as they would any other behavior that is not acceptable in public places, for example, nose picking. Here are some specific things that can be done to minimize masturbation in public places.
*Explain. If parents discover their children masturbating in a public place, they should tell their children that is something that should be done only in private, for example, in the children-s bedroom or the bathroom. Parents should use words like, -It-s all right to do that in the bathroom or the bedroom, but not in the grocery store or when other people are around.- Parents should try not to criticize, nag, or punish their children. They should treat the behavior matter-of-factly.
*Offer alternatives. Parents should provide their children with something else to do with their hands while they are in public. They could also try to distract their children from masturbating by suggesting some other activity.
*Be consistent. If children, for example, masturbate while they are at day care, parents should work out a solution with their children-s day care provider. It is important that the behavior be treated in the same way by parents and by other care providers.
When to Seek Help
On rare occasions, children-s masturbation habits may be an indicator of other problems. Parents should consult their children-s health care provider if:
*Children-s masturbation interferes with their social interactions.
*Techniques to eliminate public masturbation have failed.
*Parents have any concerns about their children-s well being.
*Parents feel that their children are possibly not masturbating, but scratching or rubbing the genital area because of discomfort. It may be possible that such children have an infection or a rash.
*Masturbation is constant.
Parents should keep in mind that in most cases, masturbation is a common, normal behavior in children. Very rarely is it an indicator of some other problem.
www.parenting-ed.org
Masturbation Myths:::
Myth
It-s more acceptable for boys to masturbate than girls.
Fact
It-s natural for boys and girls to masturbate - both do it.
Myth
A child who masturbates has been exposed to sexual information that is not appropriate for his/her age.
Fact
From birth, children explore their bodies by touching. They learn this feels good. Showing knowledge of sexual acts besides masturbation could mean they-ve been exposed to inappropriate sexual information.
Myth
Masturbation causes acne or loss of eyesight.
Fact
This oldie but goodie probably ties to the fact that teenagers generally start masturbating around the same time puberty hits, which is also the time of acne and when many teens get glasses.
Myth
Masturbation causes sexually transmitted diseases.
Fact
In order for a disease to be -transmitted-, you need two people. Mutual masturbation is actually taught in some sex education courses as a way to avoid sexually transmitted diseases.
Myth
Masturbation causes hair to grow on your palms.
Fact
About 98% of adults have reported that they-ve masturbated at some time in their lives. I don-t know anyone with hair on their palms. How about you?
Myth
Teenagers shouldn-t masturbate often, as they will lose the ability to have children.
Fact
Teenagers will tend to masturbate more often than adults as their hormone levels are at the highest they will be in their lifetime. Remember to knock when their door is closed - and don-t worry - they will still be able to give you grandchildren
Source(s):
Masturbation information and advice for parents of teenagers. Resources also include information on masturbation myths and mutual masturbation.
http://parentingteens.about.com/...
Masterbation Myths
·Women are just as likely to masturbate as men are? — TRUE
94% of men and 85% of women have masturbated including people who are happily married.
·Masturbation can be addictive? — TRUE
Masturbation can become a problem is it-s compulsive. It is rare and usually associated with an anxiety disorder.
·Masturbation reduces the ability to conceive? — FALSE
The body is constantly making sperm and ejaculation can stimulate it-s production.
·If you masturbate you are dissatisfied with your partner? — FALSE
Masturbation alone or with you partner, is a pleasurable sexual experience. It-s also one of the best ways to find out how to help your partner achieve orgasm.
·It-s normal for young children to explore their bodies — TRUE
Kids are naturally curious and according to childhood specialists, exploring their bodies is just part of growing up.
Masturbation is the self-stimulation of the genitals to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm (sexual climax). It is commonly done by touching, stroking or massaging the penis or clitoris until an orgasm is achieved. Some women also use stimulation of the vagina to masturbate or use -sex toys,- such as a vibrator.
Who Masturbates?
Just about everybody. Masturbation is a very common behavior, even among people who have sexual relations with a partner. In one national study, 95% of males and 89% of females reported that they have masturbated. Masturbation is the first sexual act experienced by most males and females. In young children, masturbation is a normal part of the growing child-s exploration of his or her body. Most people continue to masturbate in adulthood, and many do so throughout their lives.
Why Do People Masturbate?
In addition to feeling good, masturbation is a good way of relieving the sexual tension that can build up over time, especially for people without partners or whose partners are not willing or available for sex. Masturbation also is a safe sexual alternative for people who wish to avoid pregnancy and the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases. It also is necessary when a man must give a semen sample for infertility testing or for sperm donation. When sexual dysfunction is present in an adult, masturbation may be prescribed by a sex therapist to allow a person to experience an orgasm (often in women) or to delay its arrival (often in men).
Is Masturbation Normal?
While it once was regarded as a perversion and a sign of a mental problem, masturbation now is regarded as a normal, healthy sexual activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable and safe. It is a good way to experience sexual pleasure and can be done throughout life.
Masturbation is only considered a problem when it inhibits sexual activity with a partner, is done in public, or causes significant distress to the person. It may cause distress if it is done compulsively and/or interferes with daily life and activities.
Is Masturbation Harmful?
In general, the medical community considers masturbation to be a natural and harmless expression of sexuality for both men and women. It does not cause any physical injury or harm to the body, and can be performed in moderation throughout a person-s lifetime as a part of normal sexual behavior. Some cultures and religions oppose the use of masturbation or even label it as sinful. This can lead to guilt or shame about the behavior.
Some experts suggest that masturbation can actually improve sexual health and relationships. By exploring your own body through masturbation, you can determine what is erotically pleasing to you and can share this with your partner. Some partners use mutual masturbation to discover techniques for a more satisfying sexual relationship and to add to their mutual intimacy.
http://www.webmd.com/content/article/45/…
For men, as a general rule this is true. Because it takes some time for your body to recover from orgasm (erection and ejaculation), engaging in masturbation may increase the amount of time it takes you to achieve orgasm the next time, assuming that the two event occur within a relatively short time of each other. It wouldn-t make much of a difference if you masturbated today and had sex in a month. Likewise, for some people with a sexual dysfunction masturbation does not effect how long they can have sex because of that dysfunction. Of course, having sex twice in proximate times to each other has the same effect.
yes its true, it makes you less sensitive and less excitable and so increasing your staying power.
Its always best to wack/suck the guy off first time and enjoy the longer stay on the second session
maybe, maybe not..depends on the person..but it will kill the sperm count..
No true. Maybe the sperm count will be very low the next time. But 20 minutes is all that is needed to regain the normal status.