My new boyfriend has a problem with ejaculation..........? -
Every time we have sex he don-t last more than 2 minutes. Is there anything we can use to prevent this? What would be the cause for this?
He is 34 and I am 31
You could always try the squeezed technique. While you are having intercourse, you pull out his penis as he gets close to ejaculating. Place your index finger over the top of the glans (penis head) and your thumb on the underside. Apply firm and steady pressure on the penis; this will cause the feeling of imminent orgasm to subside. More importantly, it will prevent ejaculation from occurring. The sperm will return to the testicles. During this period don-t stimulate his penis in any way until about a minute or so has passed. After this you can resume sex again after this time. Try repeating this process several times until you-re ready for him to ejaculate.
Try one of these....
The -stop and start- method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
The -squeeze- method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
some guys have that problem, there are a few things you can do to make it last longer
Let the patters go and know what -early ejaculation- is.
As well as the ED nowadays it-s the most widespread dysfunction among men. Reading around you could know that - being a complicate psychological - nervous patology - it has no effective treatment till now. Lately in New York some new study reaches the end and a lot of guys are now waiting for the specific authoritation. Nothing miracolous but in some severe case some minutes further (of sex) becomes a solace. I realize it-s still few for a woman......
At last, it depends what sex represents for you in your relationship, of course!
He doesn-t have enough confidence in himself. Give him more encouragement and prolong the procedure before ejaculation.
Haha @ Jack.
Anyway, This used to happen to my guy, the way he would prevent it was by masturbating a while before actually having sex. Not full out till he comes though. Just so he can last longer while having sex.
It worked for him. Try more foreplay and see how that works.
I think at first you are a sexy person and you have sex with yor other friend and that is not good so mabye he has not the power for sex
Before doing the actually act you 2 should engage in a little foreplay. Try doin oral on him until the point of ejaculation, then him on you. By the time he-s done -orally pleasing- you he should be eroused again and should last longer than the 1st time.
ur probably very hott for a start hence the quick release.
And i would use 1 or even 2 rubbers,to make him less sensitive,and last longer.
When he is about to release, squeeze the base of his penis with your hand. This usually delays the release. You can also get a penis ring, it goes in the base of his member. Slow down the motion while having intercourse. Good Luck
There are many causes, but the most often is a really sensitive penis or that his body is -trained- not to take long.
He can use destimulants (Usually in the form of creams), which will make him last longer, but this is a temporary cure.
He needs to -practice- lasting longer for a permanent change.
This is done by masturbating until close to ejaculation and then stopping for a while and continuing again.
This may take a few weeks, I don-t know, but it-s a well known method of fixing premature ejaculation.
They have coc rings at most adult book stores. If this alone does not work try using it conjunction with a condom. It help with the sensitivity. If that dont work than you can always start to have sex wih his face first, and then let him get his.
you must be too sexy talk about shopping or painting the walls that will put him off.
Hi x
There are condoms on the market that are designed to help the male last longer during penetration.
Another remedy I heard about was to use a thin layer of antibiotic cream on the penis which supposedley helps but I-d rather you researched this idea before putting it into use.
hope this helps.