Premature Ejaculation? -
At the beginning when me n my gf began having sex, i used to last 10 -15 minutes, but now lately we can have sex 2-3 times a night and i still can only last a minute or two, idunno what to do, i feel shameful that i can-t please her. Any advice? I tried searching on the internet but all the advice don-t work, i try real hard to follow them but they still don-t work. Do you guys have any tested advice or tips?
Obviously it is no fault of your own. If you have tried all the known methods to control your orgasm, you need to resort to artificial means. Might I recommend using a dildo to satisfy her after you have gotten off. Obviously, you need to discuss this with her first, so that she will not be offended. As long as she is fine with it, proceed. She may not want you to use artificial stimulant and may be satisfied with just getting you off.
It is an important issue that you need to discuss together, so that you both don-t become frustrated.
If all else fails, you can always have alot of foreplay before you get to the actual act. And if she-s still wanting more, oral is always an option.
You may be feeling guilty about sex, from old messages from your parents in childhood. You can discuss these with a counselor or clergyperson. That might also help to eliminate the problem.
OR, you might be starting to be angry at your girlfriend about things - not discussing them is interfering with your sexual enjoyment. Be sure to have regular discussions about relationship concerns throughout your times together!
sucks to be you. Sry dude
My boyfriend had the same problem and everything we tried didn-t work. I read on webmd.com that Zoloft might help. So my boyfriend took 100mg of Zoloft about 15 minutes before and it absolutely worked! He was able to control it the entire time and didn-t get the point of no return until we were ready.
Imagine your doing it with Rosie O-Donnell
orally satisfy her first , then insert right after her orgasm subsides this could bring her off a second time
Try antidepressants. Really.
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did you check already
http://www.treatprematureejaculation.net
? I heard a lot of people from Yahoo! Answer found a solution for their premature ejaculation problem on that site.
there is a list of treatments and techniques to cure premature ejaculation with an easy description for each of them.