How can i control ejaculation? -
friends m 26 male started having sex a couple of months back but the problem is i can-t control my ejaculation for long it takes me only 10 to 15 strokes i tried everything otherthan medicine.
Tell me if it is normal
its very normal in beginning stage. because u will be exited in seeing some of her parts and moves while u sex, u just forget that its a problem and start enjoying regularly.
try enjoying in dark and discuss openly with your partner after sex - this could make u take control.
don-t waste ur money, health and confident in taking medicine. good luck
The premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual disorders, perhaps as common as the common cold. Generally ‘climaxing’ before one wants to, is considered as ‘premature ejaculation’. The premature ejaculation is defined as -persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, during, or shortly after penetration and before the person wishes it.-
The causes may be primary, wherein the disorder exists from the beginning or secondary wherein it occurs subsequent to a prior normal function. The causes are situational or constitutional. Situational causes (usually primary) are Anxiety, Sexual inexperience, Deterioration of relationship, Victimization by partner, Prolonged abstinence, Unrealistic expectations from self/partner. Where as constitutional cause (usually secondary) are Diabetes mellitus, Neurological disorders - Genito-urinary pathology.
Some cases of premature ejaculation are more severe, bringing the man to orgasm as soon as his penis makes vaginal contact. In less severe cases the man is able to make vaginal entry and stroke, but unable to maintain control in high levels of arousal. The voluntary ejaculator can sustain sexual intercourse in the -plateau- stage of arousal, maximizing sexual stimulation as the penis is at its most erect state before climax.
Many techniques have been used to delay orgasm. The one you used is also common one. Other method commonly used by many includes mental arithmetic, local anesthetic ointment, wearing a disposable tissue and condom around the penis to decrease sensitivity, yogic exercises and oral medicine. Out of all these option only oral medicine is the only very effective way to handle premature ejaculation problem.
1) Sexual Therapy
Usually requires weeks of hourly sessions in attempt to determine causes and establish a keener sense of premonitory sensations.
2) Rings
Devise utilized to trap blood in the penis by applying pressure to the key arteries/vessels through which blood is transported into the penis. Commonly used to treat impotence but has become a method for preventing premature ejaculation too.
3) Topical ointment
Local anesthetic ointment used to reduce sensitivity in the highly sensitive areas of the organ. Usually applied 10 to 15 minutes prior to sexual contact. A Topical can be presented in a variety of ways, from an all-natural liquid roll on to spray on solutions. Researchers report side effects, typically -some degree of numbness of the penis.- Another downside was that the men were required to put on a condom before sex to ensure that the topical ointment does not affect partner. The cream-s effectiveness may diminish over time.
4) Sexual Position
The female superior position often helps delay the premature ejaculation.
5) Yogic Exercises
The Vajroli Mudra and the Ashwini Mudra could be of help in the treatment of premature ejaculation. These yogic exercises strengthen the anterior and posterior part of the pubococcygeus muscles respectively. Such exercises when done ten times, every morning and evening for six to eight weeks often give adequate control over the orgasmic reflex. Sometimes, practice of contracting the anterior part of the pubococcygeus muscle just prior to orgasmic (ejaculatory) inevitability during coitus helps to delay the orgasm (climax).
6) Oral Medicine
This medicines delivers the essential building blocks to the body necessary for optimal sexual performance. The men-s partners appreciated the treatment as well. According to the men-s reports, the women in their lives were more than twice as likely to have an orgasm when the men were using the treatment. They note, the problem of premature ejaculation may disappear after treatment of three months and make treatment unnecessary. However these medicines are not recommended for use if person is suffering from enlarged prostate.
Yeah, its very normal, what you need to do is learn some form of self hypnosis, mind over matter, it doesn-t control you, you control it, you will *** when you are ready, not the other way around. And I really do not see any point at all in seeing a doctor about it, its ejaculation, everyone does it, you could spend all of this money on medication OR you could just teach yourself how to control it.
Its norman my friend. Did you try start and stop technique. There are plenty method from which u can control ur ejaculation. First go and consult ur doctor.
MOST EXPERIECE THIS..DONT WORRY.ALL WILL BE OK..IF POSSIBLE CONTACT A DOCTOR......