Friday, September 28, 2007

Penis sensitive during ejaculation? -

Penis sensitive during ejaculation? -

Nobody taught how to masturbate. I found out on my own and found lubricant to help. i did not know what to use but shampoo. Ever since my ejaculations have been sensitive on the head of my penis. Only during and a little after, then its fine. Have i caused possible long term damage, and is it reversible? I do have a circumcised penis. I have also learned to use a true personal lubricant.


I-m not an expert, but I know that masturbating with shampoo can cause irritation. It is the same for girls, it can inflame the urinary tract - this is what happens with the penis too.

When did you stop using shampoo? A few days, weeks, months ago?

This is important to know.

-If it-s been only a few days ago, then you-re feeling the pain because of a recent irritation. And you will not have caused long-term damage.

-However, if it-s been a longer while ago, and you still feel the pain, you may have a problem, namely a urinary tract infection or a damage to some sensitive blood vessels in the penis head or the unitary tract because of the ever-returning irritation.

-The best thing to do is to stop masturbating for a while (say a week or two), and see if the pain persists when you masturbate again. If this is the case, I would advice you to see a doc.

Seeing a doc on this is no prob at all, it is a very common problem, because many circumcised men experiment with non-suitable lubricants.

Uncircumcised men don-t have this problem, because they don-t need a lubricant. The foreskin acts as a natural lube mechanism. Maybe this is something to keep in mind if ever you become the dad of your own son!

In any case, I wouldn-t worry. Stop masturbating for a few weeks, then check back, and if the problem persists, see a specialist.

I hope you get better, because I can imagine the discomfort.
Hi kawai250
Like you I had to learn for myself. Shampoo isn-t a good option. Although it shouldn-t cause any long term problems - in the short term it might cause some irritation. If you haven-t had any problems to-date I would think you have nothing to worry about. As a young person the head of your penis will be sensitive - even if you didn-t use any lubricant at all. This is normal. Personal lubricant is the best option. You will be ok - all the best.
Hahah don-t worry man, it-s normal. The head of your penis is loaded with sensitive nerves, which get that -tickling- feeling after ejaculation. It-s completely normal, and there is no damage being done.

And for the above comment, shampoo will burn if you get it in the tip, but it does virtually no damage other than cause discomfort, so don-t worry.
DO NOT use shampoo. That-sthe entire problem right hthere It will make it burn when you pee.
Go to the store and get k-y jelly. Use that. It-s water ssoluble so when it dries out spit on it. WIll drive you wild
Do not use shampoo to masturbate with. If you need to use lube, either use baby oil, or your own spit.
I think this is normal considering mine is the same. Not exactly sensitive... but like, almost, ticklish? xD
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Thursday, September 27, 2007

How can I stop premature ejaculation? -

How can I stop premature ejaculation? -

Guys, premature ejaculation has been the biggest problem in my relationship. I am very afraid of breaking down my relationship. If there is anyone who is willing to help me I would be very happy. I will give you an offer. Please contack me on blackbrother1@gmail.com if you are willing to help me save my relationship. I have tryed all the burshit Pills, tablet and so many things out there but they only seem to make it worst.


When the term sex is used it can cause a lot of emotions in human beings. It seems as a race that we place a lot of importance and meaning on the term, but it-s the type of meaning that we place on it that determines how our bodies will behave in relation to it. If we come from conservative families we will place a very different meaning on it then someone who comes from hippy new age family. Either way, the truth is that we must learn how to manipulate these meanings so we can achieve the results we want.

There ARE methods to manipulate this meaning, such as NLP, which is designed at changing how reality is perceived in the mind. But I know that most men want the quickest and fastest way to fix their problems, the bad news is that this is very rational and more often than not the quick fix won-t actually help with the situation, the good news is that with premature ejaculation there are INDEED QUICK FIX TECHNIQUES available.

These quick fix techniques are designed at disrupting the thought patterns of your negative thinking, these thought patterns that are destroying the natural flow of your body and thus making you premature ejaculation. But by using techniques such as squeezing, or thicker condoms or numbing creams, it can get your mind into experiencing lasting longer, and when this happen it begins to believe it can, and over time your body will adjust and you will find yourself being able to last longer without any conscious effort. So luckily for us men, the internet is a treasure trove for all this information.

The most common technique is by no means the least effective, its called the squeeze method. Basically, whilst masturbating or having sex you build up till your about to ejaculate, then you flex your kegal muscle as hard as you can and stop (the muscle you use to stop the flow of urine half way). Then you start again, and build up to the same point again, then stop. You keep repeating this process, after a while your body and mind will get attuned to going longer, and before you know it, you will be able to go as long as you want without conscious effort.

The second method is very obvious, but still effective. You basically have to masturbate several hours before you think you might be having sex, and there you have it, you last longer because you won-t be as excited.

Another method is just buying thicker condoms, just go to your local chemist and look at all the different types of condoms, and more then likely there will be an option to go thicker.

So there you have it, three methods that can get you started right now on fixing your problems. It does take time, but with patience, you will overcome it.
Nobody ever listens to me but maybe you will.
Try Kegel excercises. You can even Google it if you want. I-m not kidding.
The next time you are urinating stop in mid stream. Do this a few times to know which muscles you are using.
Now, clench those muscles any time you want. Driving in your car, sitting at a desk, watching Football. It doesn-t matter as nobody knows you are doing it. Clench those muscles for 15 seconds and then relax for 15 seconds and repeat.
I went from a Minute Man to the point where past girlfriends and now my Wife have begged me to stop! Some idiots will give me thumbs down but I assure you that this works.
After two weeks you will see an improvement. After 6 months you can go for hours just by clenching those muscles.
I swear to High Heaven that this works!
I suffer from PE on and off, and when I want to make sure that I last long enough, I use Trojan Extended Pleasure condom. It makes the tip of the penis a bit numb so you don-t feel the urge to ejaculate. It works every time, and with it, I can last an hour if I wanted.
I had a bad spate of that, so I used Num-ze-dent

It is a topical cream used to ease the pain of teething, but it also took just enough edge off so i could have a normal sex session
You can-t.
It-s not like you can magically make it stop.
It happens, everytime. Get used to it.
maybe ur not used to feeling pussy. Sex is a very intense sensation. U could just keep having sex and eventually last longer, or u can get a fleshlight.
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Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Have a hard time ejaculation during sex now? -

Have a hard time ejaculation during sex now? -

seems like the last 5 times we have had sex that i cant seem to ejaculate.what could be the problem?


Take a break, you need to recharge for a while. I-m sure that-s all it is. There are other things you can do with each other than actually having intercourse. Try doing massage, taking a bath together, watching a sexy movie, just having a nice dinner and talking to each other. When you do get back together, I bet things will be working just fine.

Good luck to you.
not sure but you should see your doctor.....good luck
ur gay or you need another woman/women
take a bath and get relax and let her make very horney and you will edjucate sperm
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Masterbaiting/Ejaculation problems.? -

Masterbaiting/Ejaculation problems.? -

I-m 16 sometimes when i have a toss, i reach and orgasm in about 3-40 seconds and get little to no sperm at all. Is this a problem? What can i do about it?


I would say that when masturbating, three seconds is almost impossible and 40 seconds is pretty normal for a teenager.
Semen quantity varies widely from person to person and orgasm to orgasm. As long as you are drinking plenty of fluids and keeping hydrated, you will be fine.
Sperm are microscopic in size. The quantity of sperms (50-300million) ejaculated, whatever the volume of semen, is pretty constant and will barely cover the head of a pin.
frequency and quantity of orgasm differs from one person to another.

Normal sperm count is 20million per cm3. Any number lower than this can be considered infertile. But with this method you need to undergo lab exam.

Also the production of semen is ranging from 3-5mL or cc. 1mL is equivalent to 1 teaspoon. With this you can observe more easily.

Orgasm can also happen without ejaculation and this is considered normal. However if this is always the case then there is definitely something wrong.
Im 15 and this is normal happens to me too.

What the orgasmic feeling is, is the semen passing through the tip of the penis. So if you pump that fast then your getting some semen ready to come out but not all of it. So if you take your time you-ll get a larger amount of semen. You don-t have a low sperm count you just don-t let it build up enough.

Hope you understand what im saying.
talk to your doctor. you probably just suffer from premature ejaculation
Cranking one out in three seconds seems impossible. See a doctor, and contact Guinness World Records.
dependes how often are u pulling on it if u do it alot give it some time and it might change but outher than that idk my gess is u got a low sperm count
im me and maybe i can help
talk to ur doctor im 13 and that has never happened to me
Masterbaiting/Ejaculation problems.? -

Do I have premature ejaculation?? -

Do I have premature ejaculation?? -

Do I have it? I am a virgin, 16 years old. When I masterbate to porn i can come really fast (3-4 mins) unless i keep stopping. So when the real thing happens and I am with a girl will i look like a fool??
The idea is not to masturbate and get off as quickly as possible. The idea is to teach yourself to go more slowly.
That way, when you are with a partner, you can concentrate on her - women take a much longer time than men - and you won-t have to worry about premature ejaculation. Teach yourself some techniques that help you to prolong things.
probably will kiddo, use your other tools first, tongue fingers. you gonna come quick the first time, you could always think of your granny or something, may delay the inevitable by 30 secs.
when you actually have sex for the first time you will ejaculate quicker than you will while masturbating.....but no your body will begin to adjust and you will be able to go longer.....you are a healthy normal young man
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Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Do you have premature ejaculation?did you solve this problem? -

Do you have premature ejaculation?did you solve this problem? -

If you have ejaculation shorter than 3 min.you have problem.Did you ever try to solve it ? If so how? Did yuou ever go to psychiatrist and was it helpful fo you?


I have this prob and yes Ive tried to control it with my mind I mean they say think of baseball or some crap but how can I think of anythiing but what Im doing at time its so niceeeee! but Ive heard in Germany the women grab the man at the tip so nothing comes out and wait till it subsides a little and continue . I dont know how old y ou are but somthing that works for me is I masturhate before sex so it takes more time after to ejaculate but thats just me !
For this problem mind exercises do not help. The only remedy that worked for me has been viagra or it-s kins.
I used to have this problem, but I think that I have solved it without going to the any psychiatrist or any medical practitioner. Initially one of my friends told me to think of some other things I love doing whenever I am having sex, but this helped only a little. I started taking small quantity of alcohol whenever I want to have Sex and this helped me better because it tends to delay ejaculation. Then I started having sex more often than I used to, and before I know it premature ejaculation with me became a history.
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Saturday, September 22, 2007

How do u stop premature ejaculation? -

How do u stop premature ejaculation? -

In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.

Some helpful techniques include the following:

The -stop and start- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

The -squeeze- method:

This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.


Tips To Prevent Premature Ejaculation

The Start Stop Technique: The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.


http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature.…

if its by yourself your probly in a bit of trouble. but if its a girl masturbate just before you see her. use the stop start method. think about someone and or something grose when your with her (or him) maybe even if your desperate get* your prostate checked. its not hard to get prostate fixed nowadays.
With a razor, applied to your scrotum.
When you are engage in sex, don-t move.
How do u stop premature ejaculation? -

Ejaculation? -

Ejaculation? -

whenever i ejaculate its always clear and sticky stuff that comes out never white like most peoples and im beyond the age when most people start producing semen. Could this be a problem and if its not does anyone have a solution to make it whiter?


semen is not always white
its color can vary

you sound OK
beyond what age? I didn;t knwo there was a set age by which guys had to produce semen containing sperm.

Fact is that can happen any time during puberty between age 10 and age 18. So unles syou are over 18, you need to have patience and let puberty finish up with you.
Hmm i think your fine.; It isnt always thick white sometimes theres more in the -blast- than others.
Maybe you ejaculate too much. Give it a few days
mines the same way...
Ejaculation? -

Friday, September 21, 2007

Premature Ejaculation? -

Premature Ejaculation? -

I have severe premature ejaculation which jeopardized my relationship with ex-wife. Anybody know the proper medication and how to overcome this problem.


When you are having sex and you feel like you are about ready to c um, either quit or better yet, have your partner reach down and grab your balls and give them a gentle squeeze. The pain will stop your orgasm. Then continue to have sex until you feel like cumming again, then repeat the squeezing thing. After four or five times of the squeeze, your partner probably has reached orgasm and should let you complete the deed. It takes practice by both partners but it really works......
Try Fleshlight-s Stamina Training Unit. It helped me in the past:

http://stu.getfleshlight.com
http://en.wikipedia.wikl.org/Fleshlight
try this http://www.nitsam.com/penishealth
masturbate.
it helps.
you have to learn to relax.... also excercise your prostate muscles.....
when u feel it coming, STOP, quickly, think of something bad, or pull down your balls really hard!

it takes time anad practice?
lol,i heard doing kegel exercises works for that.
you are boning your ex-wife?
Premature Ejaculation? -

Different types of ejaculations? -

Different types of ejaculations? -

I got another question here guys, i don-t masturbate like every day or anything but i still masturbate. Ever since i masturbated i usually get the usually get the same sensation, but there has been times when my ejaculation gets a kinda the same feeling but way way better sensation. I like how the 2nd sensation feels but i dont get it all the time, i dont know how to get it either, it just happens all of a sudden at a random time. Has anyone else experienced this?
Alright man first of all don-t listen to the guy who said to squirt it on your face! He-s either gay and likes the juice or he-s about 45 and never had a girl.. The thing to really make it better is to hold off for a while and don-t do it as much. The more u do it the less intense it is so just wait a week or maybe a couple of days and see what happens
This will be difficult but as an experiment refrain from all sexual activities includng masturbation for 1 week. After the week is over you can crack the head off it and then im sure it will be the best ever! I am sure it has something to do with time. You probably dont get this feeling often now because of your addiction but try and cut down before the addiction gets out of control.
Ejaculations are different all depending on how excited your are! The more excited you get then you will have a more intense orgasm. Try to go without masturbating for a week or so, then give it a whirl and you-ll see! Have fun!
Yes it has. The best ones are the ones when u point it at urself. Then shoot on ur face. Trust me. It feels f*ckin great! Trust me!
not me
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Tuesday, September 18, 2007

How can i control my premature ejaculation? i am so sensitve down there and it just feels so good. what to do -

How can i control my premature ejaculation? i am so sensitve down there and it just feels so good. what to do -

practice practice practice. try holding back during masturbation.
by using muscle control. Experiement.
When it happens...try to have sex again within the next 10 to 15 minutes. It should last longer the second time around.
You could even masterbate before having sex.


When you first become aroused, pinch your glans (head of your penis) slightly.
whew that has been a lifelong problem here too. I have done all the excercises like mastrubate just until your about to blow and then stop. Do that four times in a row before letting it finally happen and your supposed to be cured. Not me... There is an antidepressant called Effexor. The med students called it -NOSEXOR- They swore it would let them go for a long time before they finally came. It is supposed to be taken about 2 hours before sex. I am not sure it is an urban myth but they were hording the stuff like gold. I have never used it and can not comment on it personally. (I do have some horded though LOL) I do know that some people who take it regularly as an SRI antidepressant do experience less sexual fuction and even feel impotent, so there might be something to it if you only took it occasionally. I really do not know for sure.
You are probably tensing your BC muscles and that brings on ejaculation early. The BC muscles are the ones that contract and cause fluid ejaculation. They are also the ones you use to spurt out the last bit of urine when you urinate.
Do this test: stroke yourself to the point of nearing climax then stop. You should feel your BC muscles relax when you stop stroking if you have them tensed. Stroke again and stop to see if you are tensing everytime you get stimulation. If so, you need to train yourself not to tense when recieving stimulation.
Begin by doing Kegal excercises to strengthen the BC muscles so you will have better control over them. Then try to practice relaxing them during stimulation.
you need to learn to control. it takes time and practise.
Get a de-sensitizing cream for the head of your penis. It is sold next to the condoms and it will help you to last longer by cutting down on the sensitivity of your penis.
you need to control your thoughts but having a w*nk just before sex also helps
Don-t control it, just warn her when you are starting that you will not last and that you have to go slow. After the first time you can go for much longer and a good partner will be able to help. It feels so good I hate to think restraining it. Let it go and have fun with it. Also dont drink or you won-t be able to keep it going.
are you in Australia? if so there is a company called AMI. they have this nasal spray technology that turns you from a 2 minute wonder to a 60 minute hero. Its pricey but is apparently the best thing on the market at the moment. they are listed in the phone book.
Try anal sex!
Some people can control it, others like you aren-t able to, due
to too much sensitivity at your private parts. It needs some
practice and mind control to do it.
However, if you can-t, then just let go. It really feels very good
and bad for restraining it too long.
Ejaculate a little while before sex. You may last longer the second time around.

Have your partner, or you do it yourself, hold tightly around the base of the penis when you get the urge to orgasm. Hold tight until the urge stops.

Think about something totally unsexual when you-re getting too carried away. Picture yourself sweeping the garage or something. This might not work if you-re a clean freak tho! lol.

Spend some time alone practicing with almost coming, then stopping just before, then starting again, and holding back. It takes awhile to learn the control, and you can teach yourself what it takes better than anyone else can.

You-ll do great!
I am clinical pharmacist.
if u havnt any heart problem or mental disease,
I think the best way for u , can prolong intercourse at least 30 min is:
TAKE TRAMADOL 50 MG TABLET 3 hrs before intercourse.
i sure that good enough can cause e-mail me for thanx!!!
I would highly recommend that you go to AllExperts.com, click on fitness and health, click on sexuality, and then click on -female masturbation, yes -Female-. Her name is Samantha, and she helps men also and is a real expert and she will help you through your problem. Trust me on this one.
the only way that worked for me is to shoot a load before she gets to your house. If its spontaneous sex, I-ll excuse myself to the bathroom and shoot a load in the toilet within 30 seconds. Then I can last 2 hours. Without those methods I may last only 3 pumps
OK, here-s the solution, try it and you won-t regret
1st of all try to reduce porn, because when you are ejaculating infront of porn, you don-t feel any joyof sexual contact and that-s why you ejaculate early.
2nd, use what-s called squeezing technique, don-t just rub your penis while masturbating, squeeze it more, that reduces the sensations a bit and delays ejaculation.
3rd, if you are able to use condoms, those would help you much because again they reduce the sensations and delay ejaculation.
Finally, if nothing of the previous measures work with you, then you should use topical anesthetics, only ask your doctor, those reduce sensations but not cancel them ofcourse.
How can i control my premature ejaculation? i am so sensitve down there and it just feels so good. what to do -

Does the spray for delay in ejaculation really work or is it just a myth? do they work instantly. any one ever? -

Does the spray for delay in ejaculation really work or is it just a myth? do they work instantly. any one ever? -

It does by numbing your penis. However it can rub off on your partner making it hard for her to reach orgasm try putting it on and using a condom

Does the spray for delay in ejaculation really work or is it just a myth? do they work instantly. any one ever? -

Sunday, September 9, 2007

Is it true that Ejaculation can also happen by itself when someone is sleeping? -

Is it true that Ejaculation can also happen by itself when someone is sleeping? -

yes it is


Yes. It-s called -nocturnal emission-, or, in slang, a -wet dream-.

It-s usually caused by a sexual dream, or just your penis rubbing against the bed sheets or your clothes. Wet dreams are also a way of getting rid of excess sperm. So, that means that boys who rarely masturbate are more likely to get more wet dreams.
sure if the amount of ur semen or sperm is high in ur body
u will have sexual dream while u r sleeping so u will ejaculate normally

any dream could be like (u dream that u have sex with with anyone or u dream that u r masturbating
It needs a stimulation, not happened by itself. Like you-re dreaming have sex with someone you like.
Especially in adolescents. It-s known as a nocturnal emission or as a -wet dream.- Normal
Yep wet dreams, happen when you dram about something sexualll =]
Very true. Of course there has to be arousal in one-s sleep for this to occur; it usually derives from a wet dream.
yep it is called wet dreams which is when you are dreaming about girls and you get an erection then you ejaculate or ***
yea, especially when your going through puberty... called Nocturnal Emissions, or Wet Dreams
The wet Dream brings back memories.
That is called a wet dream.
Yes
its called a wet dream
go back to 5th grade sex ed classes
yes, it-s called a wet dream
Is it true that Ejaculation can also happen by itself when someone is sleeping? -

Hi i am a man and i have a problem which is the early ejaculation? -

Hi i am a man and i have a problem which is the early ejaculation? -

get desensitizing cream


Try masturbating before you have sex, it will slowdown the second erection - ejaculation.
Jack off like an hour or two before u start w/ ur lady....
its ok
This isn-t uncommon at all. Like others have said, it might be a good idea to masturbate prior to sex so you will last longer. If you still have this problem, just pull out and maybe try a different position or concentrate on her for a bit.
think something while having sex or do the breathing technique. or try some supplement that can help to prolong or delay your ejaculation time.

I have supplement that i found on the net while surfing and i give it a try and i didnt tell my wife that i-m taking the pills lol.
she was surprised coz i last 5 minutes during sex.
Hi i am a man and i have a problem which is the early ejaculation? -

Saturday, September 8, 2007

Question about Pre-Ejaculation? -

Question about Pre-Ejaculation? -

Is it true that the fluid itself contains no sperm, that it is just lubricant and to clear the urethra, and that usually the only reason it contains sperm is because of past ejaculations? And that if a male was to urinate after ejaculating, and then later did some sexual activities that caused him to again pre-ejaculate, no sperm would be present?
Just curious. Please, only answer if you really know what your talking about.


there is always some small amount of sperm in any pre-ejaculate
and a small amount is enough to get a girl pregnant

yes it does clean and lube the urethra and yes urine could kill the sperm but new sperm is made all the time and when aroused a guy does produce pre-ejaculate and it does have live sperm in in it
You can believe that if you want to - and end up becoming a Papa long before you planned - and by law, having to pay child support for EIGHTEEN YEARS!
Nope that-s not true pre-ejaculation does contain sperm you better believe it.
there is always sperm in pre-ejaculation, no matter the circumstances don-t take chances with this.
There is sperm in pre-ejaculation!
I have heard that there can be sperm in the pre fluid.
thats what i believe. i did mad research about it and all the reliable sites said exactly that
Yes there is sperm in p/e.
Question about Pre-Ejaculation? -

WhAT HAPPENS TO A MAN AFTER ORCHIECTOMY AS FAR AS EJACULATION GOES? -

WhAT HAPPENS TO A MAN AFTER ORCHIECTOMY AS FAR AS EJACULATION GOES? -

Semen fluid is produced up inside the body from seminal vesicles and prostate. Testicles only produce sperm that is added to the semen. Orchiectomy should not affect semen quantity at all.

WhAT HAPPENS TO A MAN AFTER ORCHIECTOMY AS FAR AS EJACULATION GOES? -

Friday, September 7, 2007

Premature ejaculation exercises? -

Premature ejaculation exercises? -

hi,

i was just wondering that if exercise for a period of time squeezing and releasing my pc muscle for number of reps would this help me to hold my ejaculation back during sex and how do you hold it back?


Premature ejaculation is a male sexual dysfunction characterized by ejaculation which always or nearly always occurs prior to or within about one minute of vaginal penetration; and inability to delay ejaculation on all or nearly all vaginal penetrations

Tips To Prevent Premature Ejaculation

The Start Stop Technique: The basic technique is stimulation of the penis until just before the point of orgasm, and then stopping stimulation until arousal is lower. Start stimulating again and the process is repeated until desired length of time until orgasm is reached, You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. The most Important part of this exercise is to try everyday if possible. This exercise may take 3-5 months for improvement.


Pelvic floor muscles: Stop the flow of urine while you are peeing. As you are peeing, intentionally stop the flow of urine. Do this several times until you can clearly feel the muscle you are using to stop the flow.


http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature.…

Found this on the net:

Time Required: The most important part of these exercises is to practice (daily if possible).
Here-s How:
Use a stroking technique.
Begin masturbating by stroking your penis up and down. This is the best method for these exercises as it most closely approximates penetration. Don’t think about premature ejaculation or trying to last longer. Just pay attention to the physical sensations in your penis and pelvic area as your masturbating.

Try to notice the “tickling” sensation prior to ejaculation.
As you get close to ejaculation pay particular attention to the physical sensations in your body. Try to notice the “tickling” sensation that occurs just before you ejaculate. Once you know what that feeling is like, you can concentrate on the feelings that occur just before this stage, when it is still possible to stop ejaculation.

Get comfortable recognizing the “tickling” sensation.
Continue masturbating without trying to last longer or think of anything special. Just pay close attention to how your body feels as you become more excited, and to recognizing the “tickling” feelings. Do this for at least the next three times you masturbate. Don’t stop yourself from ejaculating, just try to recognize the “tickling” feeling, and the feeling in your body just before the tickling feeling.

Start and stop masturbating to learn control.
Once you can tell when the “tickling” sensation is going to come you’re ready to begin the exercises. Try to avoid fantasizing more than necessary, and don’t use lubricant or sex toys while doing these exercises (they’re great, but they’ll come later).
Begin stimulation while paying close attention to the physical sensations in your body.
Masturbate until you start to feel turned on and have an erection. Then stop the stimulation for at least 15 seconds and concentrate on the feelings of decreasing excitement in your body. Notice how your penis and pelvic area feel, and how that changes when you stop stimulation. Notice how the rest of your body feels.

Continue until you get close to the “tickling” sensation.
Begin to masturbate again, and continue to start and stop periodically until you feel you are getting as close to the “tickling” stage as possible. When you feel yourself getting close stop until you feel you are back in control. Some men find that doing and Kegel squeezes helps them get back in control.

Don-t worry if you lose your erection.
You may lose your erection when you stop the stimulation, but just start again. You may need to use fantasy to get excited again, but once you-re turned on, try to focus on your body. Bring yourself close to the tickling point three times. After this you can just masturbate until you ejaculate.

Pay close attention to your body, and repeat this exercise daily.
You may find it difficult to do these exercises at first. You may lose your erection, your mind may wander, you might get bored. But try to stay with it, and practice this daily. As you do, two things will happen. First, the length of time you have to wait to regain control will gradually decrease. Second, the length of time you can continue stimulation between stops will increase.

Visualize your sexual response.
Look at the diagram on this page which gives a visual representation of the start and stop technique. Each time you stop stimulating yourself try to picture your body responding as if on this graph.

Build up the number of times you stop.
Increase the number of times you stop stimulating yourself until you have reached six. Once you can do the entire exercise ( stimulating yourself just before the “tickling” point, stopping stimulation until you regain control, and then starting again) six times, begin to practice this daily.
Use a good lubricant.
Once you’re feeling confident with the exercises, and are able to stop six times, you can increase the stimulation, and the usefulness of the exercises by using a good oil or water based personal lubricant. Because this is only for masturbation, an oil based lubricant is fine to use (but not safe for use with condoms, and not recommended for use in vaginal penetration).

Using the lubricant to simulate penetration, start the exercise.
As before, stimulate yourself as closely as possible to the point of ejaculation and then stop until control is regained. Begin by stopping three times before going on to ejaculate, then gradually increase the number of stops to six per session.
Once you feel comfortable, include a partner.
If you are in a relationship, ultimately you need to bring your partner into the exercises. Don’t rush this, but once you feel confident with your ability to know when to stop and wait until you regain control, you can involve your partner in the exercises.
Tips:
Don’t ever try to stop ejaculation once it has begun. If you go past that point, just let yourself ejaculate.

Try to use fantasy only as much as you need to. Because of the starting and st
Well it would help a little bit I guess. What I-ve done to successfully beat my PE:

Do not use the start-stop technique, it-s shameful. There are several great guides available on the web with lots of techniques to cure and prevent Premature Ejaculation. I-ve bought one with a money back guarantee so I-d be sure that if it didn-t work I had only wasted my time and not my money. But it did work and in a few days I had doubled my lasting time! The guide came with a online membership and with loads of extra material to help me out. A must-have! Now, I-ve set up a website to help people who have PE just like I had. With several reviews of guides and information on them:


http://how-to-get-rid-of-premature-ejacu…

Men all over the world suffer from premature ejaculation. There are a number of treatments available but how effective are they? To understand better how these work the treatments have been explained below..link..
http://topherbs.blogspot.com/2008/11/how…

thanks
manik
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yeah this helps as well as holding your pee in for as long as you can it strenthens your muscles
ejaculated Ron.

quote: Harry Potter
arrr bless ur a come quick
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Thursday, September 6, 2007

Is pre-mature ejaculation genetic? -

Is pre-mature ejaculation genetic? -

Maybe.

Scientists have long suspected a genetic link to certain forms of premature ejaculation. In one study, ninety-one percent of men who suffered from lifelong premature ejaculation also had a first-relative with lifelong premature ejaculation. Other researchers have noted that men who suffer from premature ejaculation have a faster neurological response in the pelvic muscles. Simple exercises commonly suggested by sex therapists can significantly improve ejaculatory control for men with premature ejaculation caused by neurological factors. Often, these men may benefit from anti-anxiety medication or selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), such as sertraline or paroxetine. Some men prefer using anaesthetic creams; however, these creams may also deaden sensations in the man-s partner, and are not generally recommended by sex therapists.

Most men experience premature ejaculation at least once in their lives. Often adolescents and young men experience -premature- ejaculation during their first sexual encounters, but eventually learn ejaculatory control. Adolescents tend to experience ejaculation more rapidly with older partners than they do if their partners are their own age or younger. Because there is great variability in both how long it takes men to ejaculate and how long both partners want sex to last, researchers have begun to form a quantitative definition of premature ejaculation. Current evidence supports an average ejaculation latency time (IELT) of seven to ten minutes. If the disorder is defined as an IELT percentile below 2.5, then premature ejaculation could be suggested by an IELT of less than about one and a half minutes. Nevertheless, it is well accepted that men with IELTs below 1.5 minutes could be -happy- with their performance and do not report a lack of control and therefore do not suffer from PE. On the other hand, a man with 2 minutes IELT could present with perception of poor control over his ejaculation, distressed about his condition, has interpersonal difficulties and therfore be diagnosed with PE.

Psychological factors also commonly contribute to premature ejaculation. While men sometimes underestimate the relationship between sexual performance and emotional well-being, premature ejaculation can be caused by temporary depression, stress over financial matters, unrealistic expectations about performance, a history of sexual repression, or an overall lack of confidence. Interpersonal dynamics strongly contribute to sexual function, and premature ejaculation can be caused by a lack of communication between partners, hurt feelings, or unresolved conflicts that interfere with the ability to achieve emotional intimacy. Neurological premature ejaculation can also lead to other forms of sexual dysfunction, or intensify the existing problem, by creating performance anxiety. In a less pathological context, premature ejaculation could also be simply caused by extreme arousal.

Some physical illnesses, such as a prostate infection, are also known to induce premature ejaculation. In other instances, premature ejaculation is caused by a physical injury that affects the nervous system. Certain medications, such as cold medications containing pseudoephedrine, also cause premature ejaculation. Sexual dysfunction is a common symptom of psychiatric afflictions ranging from bipolar disorder to post-traumatic stress disorder. In these cases, it is best to discuss the issues openly with a physician.

Today it is believed that the neurotransmitor serotonin (5HT) has a central role in modulating ejaculation. Several animal studies have demostrated its inhibitory effect on ejaculation modulated through the PGI system in the brain. Therfore, it is perceived that low level of serotonin in the synaptic cleft in these specific areas in the brain could cause premature ejaculation. This theory is further supported by the proven effectiveness of SSRIs, which increase serotonin level in the synapse, in treating PE.

Studies show that one in three men could have fixed their PE problem just by simply drinking less coffee every day, since caffeine has been proven to cause the male to ejaculate much sooner from the added energy.

This condition can be successfully treated. See links below.

Good Luck.

Rick the Pharmacist

P.S. Richard Pryor once said about his wife, -My wife said to me, -Honey, you come too quick, and I said,-No Honey, you come too slow!-


no, your sexual glands are very sensitive.
no.
no not really its the game of mind
no...

it-s all in your brain -coz if you-re easily
stimulated by the feeling of doing your stuff
you-ll easily release it as well..
the faster the stimulation the faster it gets out..
If it really was genetic, then how could you ever pass on the gene?
Just joking...
ask your parents if they have that problem, then your grandparents! lol im kidding, sorry:(
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Monday, September 3, 2007

What is premature ejaculation? -

What is premature ejaculation? -

I have heard of the term premature ejaculation before, though I am not completely sure what it is. Though to my knowledge it is when a guy cums too quickly during intercourse. Why do women not like guys who ejaculate prematurely? Is it because they do not get a chance to become sexually stimulated? Opinions from both guys and girls would be appreciated. Is it also true that premature ejaculation was once considered to be a good thing?


Really premature is going off before you are inside the woman-s body, which is irritating and messy. But the term usually has to do with going off as you penetrate or very soon after. Since a guy often loses his erection when he ejaculates, this ends the sexual session early unless both he and the woman can re-stimulate him. It was considered a good thing when it was thought to be a form of birth control - getting rid of the sperm, but that turns out not to be valid.
No, it was never a good thing. (your girlfriend lied to you) Premature ejaculation is when you ejaculate before penetration, or getting your partner to the -goal line.- It can be controlled, you just need practice, try not psyching yourself up during intercourse, or think of something else to distract your mind if you feel about to go early.
Premature ejaculation (PE) means coming too quickly, and it-s one of the commonest of all sexual problems.

In our survey of several thousand British males, approximately 10 per cent of them said that they often or sometimes had this trouble.

We found that it-s commoner in younger men - which is not surprising, as there-s a distinct tendency for it to improve with age. Men generally get better control as they grow older.

if you want to control it
there are some good ideas for help you
http://healthcaretous.com
lets see perfect example if you-ve ever seen the movie american pie when the kid is in his room with the exchange student. as shes having him touch her he suddenly ejaculates. in other words if before you can make your partner climax, you climax within a couple of seconds of starting then thats premature ejaculation. if your looking for an exact definition go to wikipedia
Premature ejaculation is when a man climax-s very early. Women don-t like it because they don-t have enough time to enjoy sex. Just when they are getting into it, it is over. It can be very disappointing. I am unsure if this was once considered a good thing.
its when your hores jumps outta the gate before the gunshot.lol
lotsa guys get really excited when having sex and sometimes all it takes is a little touch or even an imagined one. of course gals don-t like it when you get them all messy and dont even let them enjoy it.
premature ejaculation is when you make a guy really horney and the *** is building up in his balls. Some of that *** leaks out Hence Premature ejaculation. This happens to all men.... Not a bad thing.... When he really gets horney and ... EXplodes, thats the good stuff.
Premature ejaculation is when you *** before penetration. If you penetrate before you ***, that is not premature ejaculation, no matter how soon you *** after you penetrate.
Well basically premature ejaculation happens when a male becomes overly excited before intercourse and ejaculates before intercourse begins not during the act.It can happen to overly stimulated women also.
Well if it is a good thing then I-m in luck. I-ve been suffering from it for ages and nothing seems to work. When I gave up my virginity at age 23 I had no problem. After that I started with it and I-m 56 now.
i dont see why it would be a good thing, but ive never had to deal with it and im a girl
but yeah that IS what it is
unfortunate.
it-s just unfortunate.
It-s when you *** involuntarily..
you are completely correct except the last question.
It-s like spilling the cake before the guests can have a slice ! I love awkward analogies !
You asked a question and answered a question...that earns you -3 points
premature is when it gets in my eyes, normal is when it tickles my tonsils!
It means you have failed
Since you seem to already have the answers, why are you asking us? Do you want our approval?
ive done that
lol
What is premature ejaculation? -

Is this premature ejaculation? -

Is this premature ejaculation? -

Me and my girlfriend have just started to talk about doing sexual things. I came as soon as she put her hand in my boxers. Should I just give up on having a girlfriend forever now? I-m very depressed


NO this is pretty normal if you are you young. Don-t worry as you get older you will have more control.
The reason you come too quickly when you suffer from premature ejaculation is because there’s too much friction on your penis. The stimulation gets too intense and your climax is triggered. So, what can you do to stop this from happening? You can increase the lubrication.

One common way to do this is to use shop-bought lube, like KY jelly or something. This is okay, but it’s not great. You have to keep applying it, which is annoying for you and your partner. A much better way is to pleasure your partner so much before and during sex that she becomes and stays soaking wet herself, without the aid of artificial lube.

This is a good idea for two reasons. First, it keeps things slick, so the friction is lessened and your sexual performance is extended and second, you break up sexual intercourse with other pleasurable activities which not only keep your partner wet, but also keep her turned on and enjoying the sex like crazy. Here a few ways to do this. Remember: make foreplay last at least 10 minutes and make sure your partner is very, very wet before you start penetrative sex and also, remember to use non-penetrative techniques between sex positions to give your penis the break from stimulation it needs.

Here’s how to get your partner soaking wet:

Even before starting foreplay, you need to turn your partner on. You do this by getting her in the mood. You should know how to do this already, because you know your partner better than anybody, but you can try: talking slowly and descriptively about how horny and turned on you feel and how sexy and tempting she looks.

Don’t randomly start doing this in the middle of the street. Wait until the scene and mood is right. Build it slowly and make it genuine. Begin slowly touching her, but NOT on her most sexual areas, like her breasts and between her legs. Softly touch her neck and slide your fingertips up and down her bare arms. You get the idea. Be smooth and sensual. Dedicate lots of time to teasing your partner before making oral or manual contact with her vagina. You want her to be gagging for your mouth and fingers before she gets them.

Start foreplay using your mouth and fingers. If you know you aren’t very good with oral, get practising! Read up on good techniques and use them on your girl. During oral or other foreplay, check how wet she is getting by inserting your fingers into her vagina. Keep pleasing her until she’s really wet and, well, almost sticky down there. When you start penetration, she will be really wet, so don’t dry her up by pumping her hard and fast straight away. Start really slow and steady. This will get her even wetter and will also allow you to keep your stimulation levels under control.

For more ways to last longer in bed, check out the free report here --
http://www.ejackulation.net


It has some great techniques in it and what-s important is that... It really works for me :)
No you-re just need more control.

If you need more info, plz talk to your physician. He(or she) is the best expert for you.
Learn some control and you will be ok
Is this premature ejaculation? -

Slow it down ejaculation? -

Slow it down ejaculation? -

What can you do to make the penis last longer (not ejaculate)?
With the start and stop technique:start masturbating or have sex till you feel you are coming:then stop moving:have more foreplay cool of and restart again:you can do this as many times as you want.Can be done in sex and masturbating
Planets
if u relax ur penis muscle while doing it,
u will last longer.
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I am 21 year old when i excited my penis flow great quantity sticky liquid befor ejaculation i want prevent th -

I am 21 year old when i excited my penis flow great quantity sticky liquid befor ejaculation i want prevent th -

i am 21 year old when i excited my penis flow great quantity sticky liquid befor ejaculation i want prevent this secretion
You can-t. This is a natural secretion from your Cowper-s Gland and allows greater lubrication for intercourse.
You can-t. This is a natural secretion from your Cowper-s Gland and allows greater lubrication for intercourse. it can be controlled
little by taking curd salad with onion it can be done a hour before get in to the work..
No Stupid! You don-t want to stop it. That fluid is lubricant and it is essential to pleasurable male--female sexual activity. It is produced for a reason and it is not -sticky.-
never extend ur penis...it will solve the problem...
You can-t. This is a natural secretion from your Cowper-s Gland and allows greater lubrication for intercourse.
that-s normal...as it is said above its just the lubrication
Just normal guy juice. Shows you are virile.
GO FOR PELVIC EXERCISES.
Its GOOD.
you can`nt ,its natural and you should be happy or other wise when you have intercourse and what you call it sticky liquid is not there then you foreskin may tire
Do exercises like yoga or go on fast. Do not take hot or milk products.
I am 21 year old when i excited my penis flow great quantity sticky liquid befor ejaculation i want prevent th -

Sunday, September 2, 2007

Ejaculation? -

Ejaculation? -

Can ejaculating from masturbation too often weaken men physically and cause pre mature ejaculation during sex? Also what are some positive effects of moderate masturbation.


If when you have solo sex you try and acheive climax and ejaculation quickly, you do train your body that that;s what you want to do. So when you have a partner, your body may think you want to unload fast. So when having solo sessions, don-t make it a speed event. Go slow, take it easy, enjoy yourself and even try and learn when to back off as you feel the urges rising. This will help you better control your release.
As to too often causing weakness--heck no. Solo sex is no different physically than intercourse: Erection, stimulation to climax and ejaculation. Just using a hand instead of a vagina. And solo sex is less physically taxing than with a partner. You don-t see anyone worrying that too much sex will cause harm, do you? Of course not. Positive effects: reduces your sexual tension, which can cause irritability and aggressiveness. Let-s you relax and enjoy the high you get from a good climax. And teaches you about your own body. Self love is always a good thing.
Ejaculation can make the man feel -weaker- and athletes try to save up their sexual energy and channel it into their sports.
But it would take a lot of ejaculations to actually weaken you. Once daily shouldn-t interfere much.

As for premature ejaculation -- YES it is very possible that masturbation can be causing that.

To avoid this, a male needs to learn that it is not a race to finish quickly.


If he does it in a way where he keeps getting close to finishing but he forced himself to back off and stay close to the edge -- then it will HELP to prolong sex with a partner.

In other words, start to practice the above to learn self-control when you are by yourself and a -session- shouldn-t ever be shorter than 15 minutes.
There was one asker who was wondering about the same thing, he said he is a masturbater, but nowadays he doesn-t masturbate as much as he does in the past. He has some sexual partners and whenever he had sex, he ejaculates quickly making it no longer very exciting to continue. So its possibly true that frequent masturbation makes the ejaculation mechanism more reactive than normal and the result is premature ejaculation. Whenever you masturbate, your body uses up hormones that stimulate the process and hormones do make effects in your physical structure. Another asker said that he is a frequent masturbater and pimples appeared on his chest for an unknown reason.

If you read the history books more deeper, try to look for the Mongol emperor, Genghis Khan who was a sexually active man. Today he has so many descendants, but he didn-t die of a very old age so it is technically possible that his extreme sexual drive made his body weaker. We can say that the release of semen might have negative effects to your health.

Masturbation in a moderate state has little positive effects to your health except for the stocked semen being replaced as some claim as benefit. Masturbation degrades your health somehow. You should try to live a health lifestyle if you wanna live longer, Dude. Peace to all!!!
well some doctors told me that masturbate is friggin- wrong it make the guy not able to have normal sex with a woman because he has became addicted to masturbate and may not feel comfortable while havin- it with a woman...also it mal form the shape of the penis because you r using irregular shape to get pleasure from it.....

other say that the physical benefits of masturbation and having an orgasm or ejaculating creates heightened arousal while epinephrine courses through the body, producing the flushed face, shallow breath and post-climactic euphoria It is held in many mental health circles that masturbation can relieve depression, stress and lead to a higher sense of self-worth (Hurlbert - Whittaker, 1991). Masturbation can also be particularly useful in relationships where one partner wants more sex than the other – in which case masturbation provides a balancing effect and thus a more harmonious relationship.
Hi Mark
Ejaculation during masturbation has no harmful effects whatsoever.
The benefits are that it releases your semen regularly and gives you a pleasurable feeling.
Regards
andy
Masturbation is perfectly safe, harmless, and pleasurable. There are no real side effects. It can relieve stress that you might be dealing with as well. No need for worries my friend =)

-Mike
Don-t do it in excess....moderate masturbation has no negative effects and its perfectly ok.
ejaculating from masturbation do not have any problem................its really a pleasure ............ enjoy it...
there are no side effects of masturbation
wowowowow this betta not be true i like to masterbait
if thats true then every guy in the worl has this problem
Ejaculation? -

Do anti-depressants affect the length of sexual intercourse, ejaculation and semen volume? How to overcome it? -

Do anti-depressants affect the length of sexual intercourse, ejaculation and semen volume? How to overcome it? -

Yes, they have alot of sexual side-effects. Talk to your doctor about getting off them or trying a different anti-depressant with less side-effects.
Yes, they can affect all of that as well as your desire to even have sex. There is nothing you can do about it while you are on the medication. However, there are antidepressants that don-t cause problems, so ask your doctor if you can change your prescription to something else.
excess of every thing is bad. Un-necessary and frequent use of drugs of course reduces the sexual act in all respects...
Yes. Stop taking them immediately. Better start drinking Noni herbal fruit juice twice a day. It will solve all your other problems.
it effects you two ways either you cant come , but get hard
or you have no feelings at all
nope sorry your either depressed or unable to have sex
Try to avoid anti-depressants. Sex is a natural anti-depressant.
Do anti-depressants affect the length of sexual intercourse, ejaculation and semen volume? How to overcome it? -