Sharp, VERY sore pain inside my penis after ejaculation!? -

Sharp, VERY sore pain inside my penis after ejaculation!? -

Ok well a few minutes ago I was randomly EXTREMELY HARD, so hard it hurt. so i masturbated to see if that would help, but after ejaculation it just all go very very sore inside like a sharp pain like my penis feels like it wants to explode into bits! it hurts.... I masturbate probably 1-2 times daily. and this rarely ever happens. I-m 15, a virgin. so why does it hurt so much?!?

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Not as weird as some of the Answers up there.LOL

Masturbating 1 - 2 times a day is not excessive

No it won-t give you Cancer (very rare BTW)

Some other explanations ingenious.

It may just be a growing pain, your penis is getting bigger and there is tension until the other muscles - skin adjust.

There are 3 parts = 2 main chambers + urethra along the bottom. They don-t always grow at same time.

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Fifteen and you ONLY masturbate 1-2 times a day? That-s more than you think; I don-t know where you-re getting the idea that it-s normal. Over-masturbation could result in prostate cancer. Periodic pain is a sign that you might be developing it. Feel your testicles for bumps, if you feel any, then go to a doctor right away.

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There is no such thing as over mast.. will cause prostate cancer , on the other hand it help to prevent . Don-t worry .. I had this experience when I wan at your age.
It is a result of too frequent mast... rest for a few days and see the different or do it less like once a day. Drink a lot of plain water will help , some time if you drink too much carbonated sweet water and it will cause you that pain when urinate.

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something you were thinking about made you get really hard-on. and
that-s what made all the blood rush to the top and when you started
to rub your penis. this is when the pain started. and as soon as you
ejaculate. so this is normal but it goes away by itself.

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what i do n that case if jerk off again w/o it going soft..no more pain. Whats happening is that u still have sperm ready to come out but its stuck at the tip of ur dick. Try doing it now...bet it wont hurt

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I get the same. Its just a result of you being extremely filled up with blood (what causes super hardness) and your penis saying it-s in pain from the pressure.

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You are overdoing it. Lay off the masturbation for a while.

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Maybe you are sensitive to that lube.

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well if it hurt that much you wouldnt of jerked off .

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Overdoing it, ? lol

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jerk off less

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What causes Premature ejaculation? A friend of mine has it...? -

What causes Premature ejaculation? A friend of mine has it...? -

and does not know what to do about it-?

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Squeeze the penis near the tip when the feeling of coming arrives. This squeezing can take away the erection too if you keep squeezing, so just do it long enough for the urge to come go away. My husband had that and it will go away if you have sex a lot and use this technique. Also the second time you have sex in a day he might not come so fast.

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Tell him to check out Mistermanpower.com, it has a guide for him to overcome the mental and physical reasons.

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tell your friend to check
http://www.treatprematureejaculation.net
, it-s probably one of the best resources online about premature ejaculation.

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Pre-Ejaculation/ quot;pre-***quot;? -

Pre-Ejaculation/ quot;pre-***quot;? -

Does anyone know if -pre-***-, the transparent small drop of liquid secreted from the penis during sex before one cums, has any actual semen in it? And if it does, what are the chances of this -pre-***- getting a girl pregnant?

just recently I was having sex and my condom broke sometime in the process, but I dont know when. Although I didn-t actually ejaculate, my friend told me its possible that I had pre *** that could have come out, and this made me really worried.

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NO! Precum in and of itself does NOT contain sperm (semen is something entirely different that does not get the girl pregnant either - at least not without sperm).

The issue with precum getting women pregnant is something that is being passed along as truth. However, the truth is not here. Precum does not - and has never, contained semen.

HOWEVER - there are some things that CAN cause pregnancy. If you ejaculate once (either masturbation or sex) and do not clear the urethra of semen (thru either manual -squezzing- or urination) and then have unprotected sex - then the precum will push the left over semen out of the urethra during sex. THAT will get the girl pregnant.

Increased sexual arousal or -edging- can cause seminal leakage during intercourse. By edging or heightened sexual arousal for prolonged periods of time - semen begins building up and can leak out before ejaculation ever occurs. THAT will get the girl pregnant.

But precum will not, cannot, and HAS not ever gotten a girl pregnant.

Please read the abstract below of a research study conducted on this very subject which refutes the claim that precum contains sperm.

This does NOT mean you can have unprotected sex. For some men, during the emission phase of ejaculation (the phase before actual ejaculation) will begin to leak semen (containing sperm) before he begins -orgasming-. SO NO! You still need to have sex with a condom - or no sex at all.

Take care.

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highly unlikely that she-s preggers. next time, be extra careful and pull out when it starts to feel really good, that way you don-t risk pregnancy.and just let the eruption happen afterwards.i don-t know? can a condom really break?stop using the cheap ones..lol...also, a guy doesn-t always precu/\/\.it mainly happens when he-s really excited and it-s been a whle sex he last came.as i said there are alternatives.

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yuppers pre *** is just a liquid that cleans out all the thing that were left from things such as old sperm or from the last time u used the restroom but it can also have live active sperm in it....ummm if she-s late u may wanna check that out....aka home pregnancy test

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Pre-*** is a Fluid from a Gland in your inner Testicle. it is like .00001 sperm which equals a VERY small chance that you make a girl pregnant. it is like 100000000 to 1.

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you can get a girl pregnant with pre ***, and if you go unprotected and pullout because during you secrete some.

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there can be a very small amount of sperm in pre ejaculate

so just be careful

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yes, it is possible to impregnate a woman that way.

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Hi, some of u seen my last post about my penis being 6 inches and i just turned 13, Thanks for the great responses, I-m wondering, on my 13th birthday the first time i ejaculated i went to wash but i felt dizzy and like i was going to black out if i didn-t lay down, is this normal?

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your heart rate is accelerated because of the exercise you did in the act of masturbating plus your adrenalin level will have been raised as well as your endorphins etc its not unusual to feel dizzy. some times after good sex your legs can give way if you try to stand to quick (well for girls it can) stop worrying its ok you will live promise ;-) x x x

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How brilliant that you had your first ejaculation on your 13th birthday - what a wonderful way to start being a teenager!

The whole experience of orgasm is so intense - it can do funny things to your body. Feeling dizzy is normal, and you may feel tired for a little while too. But the body soon recovers :-)

In reply to your coment about how to choose a Best Answer:

-Starting four hours after you post the question, up until the time expires, a box will appear next to each answer where you can pick the best answer.-

So - wait long enough for a reasonable number of replies to come in, then make sure you choose a Best Answer before the time limit expires.

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im arounyour age but im like a little older (femal) and my guy friends talk about this comfortablly it-s completly normal it-s just a down side to growing up you will get use to it and then you probally won-t get dissy anymore give it a while . im a girl but i have guy friends so this is given fact information hope i helped nothing to b embarresd about ! :)

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What exactly is it? Do i have it cause i can masturbate, and ejaculate in like 3 minutes?

Thanks.

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PE is refered to when you have sex, not during masturbation. Get it right.

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Dude don-t worry about it, I think any guy can make themself ejaculate as fast as they want because we-ve basiccally mastered the art. If you ejaculate in 3 minutes having sex with a girl, then that is considered premature ejaculation. If you ever have an issue google panax ginseng tablets. It-s an herb perfectly healthy to take daily. It-s been used for centuries by the japanese for men. It has a couple benefits...helps your short term memory, improves focus and most of all....increases blood circulation which in turn allows for a stronger erection which helps with premature ejaculation.

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3 minutes ? I-d say you-ve got it.

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it is a matter of opinion. 3 minutes for masturbation is very average. In fact that would actually be very average even for intercourse. Most of what you read about 30 minutes or more is lots of little short periods. 30 minutes at a time would rub both people raw.

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Learning to spot the signs of imminent ejaculation is a good first step. Ease off the second you feel the first inkling of the point of no return down below. Slow deep breathing and contracting your perineum (the muscles used to squeeze out the last drops from urination) will help dissipate the sensations. Its really a matter of retraining your system and won-t take that long with a little practice.

You should never need to resort to drugs of any kind, its a billion dollar business, don-t you think they will tell you what you want to hear.

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Now, i am 18. past 4 yrs i doing penile ejaculation 2times per day.what is a method to stop this action? -

Now, i am 18. past 4 yrs i doing penile ejaculation 2times per day.what is a method to stop this action? -

it cause any effects in future during sexual contact or child

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No, masturbating will not harm your ability to have sex or have a child. Masturbation is actually good for you, not bad. It even helps prevent prostate cancer. There is no reason to stop whatsoever.

1-2 times per day is average for males. Stop worrying about it, dump the guilt, don-t try to stop, just relax and enjoy your penis, its the most wonderful thing you have.

Kind thoughts,

Reyn

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There-s no effect on your future sexual performance except that some guys have more trouble being aroused and satisfied by a partner after many years of masturbating, just because they-re so used to doing it themselves. There-s no effect whatever on your ability to make babies. Your supply of semen is good for a lifetime, since you make more all the time, all your life.

If you take your time, or if you have a partner, you might need to masturbate less often. Otherwise, twice a day is common and harmless.

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Through the frequency of regular ejaculations you have been doing, it seems you have been overindulged or obsessed with ejaculatory pleasure. Please remember: Overindulgence and obsession will always generate significant negative impact to your desirable balanced life and living; that is not advisable. Forget your past, which has no return; move on positively. Good luck.

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It-s totally fine to masturbate twice a day.

Just don-t use the -death grip-, which involves grabbing yourself really hard and going really fast, every single time. You want to be able to enjoy subtler experiences as well, so be sure to vary your routine and ejaculate from all kinds of stimulation.

Masturbation will only help you learn what you enjoy, which is a good thing to know for future sexual contact, and which won-t hurt your ability to have kids at all. So go explore, and have fun!

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Right, so you-ve been masturbating since you were 14. Nice to hear you-re a normal healthy male. It doesn-t have any effect on your ability to bare children or any of the other horrible health myths you might have heard. Enjoy your body. If you don-t want to do it, then you just exercise self contol and keep your mind and body busy.

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According to Dr.s regular use of your equipment will keep it functioning well for longer. One effect you should consider is that you may wind up losing sensitivity. When you actually encounter a -real- female you may find yourself not sufficiently stimulated to -finish the job-.

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if you masturbate and reach orgasm twice a day, there is nothgin to worry about at all. You are just doign what most healthy normal guys do. No effects on your future sex life or kid making ability. Will lower your risk of prostate cancer though.

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Not an issue, you are just one of the crowd, everyone beats off, and there is no problem with it. It is simply solo sex. Keep enjoying yourself.

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Penile ejaculations, as opposed to...?

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No - it-s perfectly normal and healthy.

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there-s nothing wrong with it...lol em...don-t be so politically correct and diplomatic. jerking off is healthy :)

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I dont know wat that means.

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stop wanking!

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shoot yourself

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lol! uhhhhh how about u GET someone to do that for u? hm? ever thought about that? no because
u !z uB3z g@Yz3ez

Now, i am 18. past 4 yrs i doing penile ejaculation 2times per day.what is a method to stop this action? -

Does it make the THING more sensitive (fast ejaculation, fast size-changing..) when a man masturbates so much? -

Does it make the THING more sensitive (fast ejaculation, fast size-changing..) when a man masturbates so much? -

- is the effect forever or it could be removed after some days intrupts or don;t masturbating for a week (a month, etc)? How much time does it need to become normal?

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actually i think masturbating more often makes you less sensitive. and ive never heard of it changing size because if it, except i do have my own theory about if youre left handed or right handed. it will curve that way after awhile. ... ive seen a real sex thing where guys pull on it and stretch it out often to try and make it longer. ... there are ways to prolong ejaculation. hang a small rag, towel, shirt over your erect penis and lift repeatedly. ... hope that helped. maybe if i was a dude.

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Masturbation is just a way to satisfy your sexual needs and to clean up your nut sack due to lack of sexual activities. It does not help to make the THING bigger, ejaculate faster, or more. Neither does it leaves your any side effects provided you did not overdid it. You will still be the normal you, no change after everk jerk.

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I wouldn-t know.

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in my experiance masturbation makes it less sensitive. which can be a good thing and can be a bad thing

Does it make the THING more sensitive (fast ejaculation, fast size-changing..) when a man masturbates so much? -

Premature ejaculation...its there anything to make it last longer? -

Premature ejaculation...its there anything to make it last longer? -

Not Viagra.......and this question is not for me is for a friend of mine.......hahahaha

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Refer this to your friend:)

Premature ejaculation is more common than anyone would admit, and it causes many physical and psychical disadvantages to a lot of peoples in the world. There is a very simple trick which is not generally known, but very effective and safe. I found it when reading a french sexology treatise (unfortunately I don-t remember which one). But I speak by my direct experience, not of someone other. It was very useful for me!

That is the point: each time you go to urinate (or as frequently as you can), do not leave it in only one go, retain it and go again for two or three times. Is it clear? This simple practice enable you to have with time much control even in other situations...
I suppose that it can strengthen the prostate-s muscles (or something like this) and possibly has also other useful results. Ask to a therapist for a possible medical explanation. Anyway, I am not a practitioner and I can guaranty nothing, of course.

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Thank you too.Now I know that this technique is called -Kegel Exercise-.
It is true that using this technique during urination is only a starting point as one easily learn to doin that also independly.See also

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/T…



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Masturbate a few times a week. It works believe me.

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relax and learn how to control. Most of it can be overcome

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Viagra doesn-t help with premature ejaculation anyway. It helps with erectile dysfunction.

Drinking alcohol does help prevent premature ejaculation. It will numb the senses a bit so that you are less arousable. However, lasting longer just take a lot of practice. Try concentrating on something other than sex while having sex.

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Drink alcohol.

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go jacking-off

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Premature ejaculation question...? -

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I-m 15 and I haven-t had sex yet but I know I am ready for it. When I masturbate I ejaculate in very little time, within 1-2 minutes. If I am correct, this is premature ejaculation and this worries me a bit. What when I have sex this happens to me? I don-t want it to last very little time and leave my sexual partner unsatisfied. Any help please?

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Hi, You at the age of -15- are not supposed to worry and ask solution for this type of problem. Actually U have no problem. Ejeculation during Masturbation at this age is not so long as the excitement and energy is very high both mentally and physically. Also at this time of age SEXual satisfaction is only the ejeculation which take us to the practise of Masturbarion.
As U grow you will know the stopping and releasing your fluid So stop worrying about it.
And if U want a permanent life long solution then try the KEGAL Exercise. (Contracting your Abdominal muscle- between anus - testicles as long as U can easily) while sitting straight on the chair. Do it 3-4 times a day.

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What they said is great but Premature ejaculation actually is when you ejaculate without even knowing it. This causes possible pregnancy because a lot of couples have sex without a condom and she expects the guy will know when he is ejaculating. They say, -You could stop masturbating or stop before the climax-, or whatever. However, I know that if you wear a condom you could just always ejaculate and slow down and then continue and you can just make it longer by going by the second ejaculation or masturbate before having sex but I don-t suggest doing that.. Guys don-t like to try for the second time but it actually takes longer and gives the same feeling even though you won-t ejaculate as much as the first time. I really hope you wait to have sex though I am still a virgin theres no shame in it seriously guy its not worth possible pregnancy, HIV, or just sleeping with someone who may just want to sleep with you but not actually like you. Guys who have balls to actually wait are the ones who actually will have a better time and better GF. Take my advice in consideration please and if you can stop masturbating that-s good too. I-m almost ready to stop myself. I only do it about once a week or two. Not that its bad but it just doesn-t helps us that much and if you think about it with all things in the air you could get something by masturbating because if you can get an infection masturbating then you can probably also get something even though highly unlikely.

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I got this info from a site.Forgot what its called tho I-ll google it up for ya in a moment.Anyways,in the site says you could end premature ejaculation by masturbating and stopping before the climax.Do this a few times and you can end premature ejaculation.Hope it helps. :)

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biggest secret. right now pretend you are peeing. now stop. that muscle you just used is called the PC muscle. you can feel it clinch if you put your finger between your balls and your butt hole. you can work that muscle by flexing that muscle as much as you can. like 300 times a day. you will soon be able to completely control when you bust.

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1 in 4 men suffer with this problem i wouldn-t worry about it too much as your first time wont normally be that long anyway. in order to over come your problem you need to work at it, and if the person you sleep with cares about you then she will be supportive and wont get angry or upset about it.

Just work at it a believe me your over come this small problem

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it might fix itself if you maybe cut down on times you masturbate.....

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I lose my erection before the ejaculation..and is not about the girl she locks great . and im excited about -

I lose my erection before the ejaculation..and is not about the girl she locks great . and im excited about -

....title said all ...still... i waiting 4 some solution ...

I want to be able to keep my erection until ejaculation.

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There are many things this could be. However, lets start with the most obvious and go from there.

i) Erection needs friction to stimulate and eventually ejaculate. Is she too moist? If you are practicing lots of foreplay prior to sex, she may be. This will reduce the friction.

ii) Worrying about it. If you are so worried that you will not perform adequately, then you may just do that! My husband, after we got engaged, suffered the same problem. He said he was so pleased he had that ring on my finger, he was worried he would mess up now. Relax, and practice masturbation applying different pressures and different paces, until you are happy you can try again.

iii) Failing all the above, you may have a physical problem. Some drugs interfere with the physical responses in this area. And some even alter the blood flow causing erection problems. So - if you are using recreational drugs, stop and see if things improve. If however, you are taking prescribed medication, read the side effects and/or visit the GP and ask for help. He may be able to prescribe something else instead.

I wish you all the best my Friend.

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delayed ejaculation is a form of -ED- and can be caused by many things

the tops are:

stress
low testosterone
pain killer meds
anti depression meds
(any med can cause it)
low vitC
or you could be nervous, if its your first time

try masturbating, alone to see if you can achieve ejaculation
or going off any meds your on (if it will not pose other threats to your health)

and if that dose not work see your doctor it can be sign of STD, other medical problems including cancer.. (both unlikely, don-t worry)

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Maybe you could try a different technique or a long desired fetish to increase your stimulation. Maybe you are having sex to often and your penis need some time to -cool down and recover-. If you are worried about this and think that there might be a medical problem involved here (eg. testosterone deficency) contact a doctor.

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thats unusuall, how old are you? if you are under 30 i would contact a doctor to see whats going on, if you over 30 maybe look into viagra or somthing.

also it might be a metal issue, maybe try not to think about it and it probably wont happen, just calm ur anxiety and that should be good.

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Are you having sex so often or do you smoke? Then this could be the cause nervousness and fatigue,stress could be the other reason.
the others could be age related factors for men about fifty years or its medical condition.

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watermelon rinds will help- eat them-
otherwise viagra
otherwise talk to a Dr. there might be underlying physical or emotional issues

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GOT ANY NAKED PICS OF UR GIRL I BET I CAN KEEP AN ERECTION AND MAKE HER C.U.M TOO

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research shows this may be an effecxt of stress, tierdness, anxiety, or just not in the mood.

itll go away try some mediating

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fantasize while having sex

I lose my erection before the ejaculation..and is not about the girl she locks great . and im excited about -

Why does the pleasure go away after ejaculation? -

Why does the pleasure go away after ejaculation? -

It is nature-s way of saying, -no hard feelings- ...

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because after you have ejaculated into your partners vagina, God has designed the system in such way that the sperms move further inside and the best sperm tries to fertile the egg. If you keep on feeling pleasurable even after ejaculation , you may try to penetrate again which will spoil sperms advancement in vagina - which is not what god wants.

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a contratile ejaculation is temporary and lasts for the duration of the contracting period. however one can LEARN multiple Male orgasms to stretch out the pleasurable feelings.

There-s Tantric Sex techniques, Zen Sex Techniques and the Karma Sutra.

also go to amazon.com (or somewhere to find books) and do a search on multiple male orgasms.

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After that comes a feeling of total happiness and closeness with your partner. If you-re missing that, you should rethink your choice of partner or your own commitment.

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because if u always feel so pleasurable , u wont find the need to ejaculate at all n if that happens to all of us our species will go extinct.

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Yeah, i like female ejaculation

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That-s how god wants you to be. Good things wont last forever.

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because you came...duh...

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On scale 1-10 how bad/dangerous is frequent masturbation amp; ejaculation? -

On scale 1-10 how bad/dangerous is frequent masturbation amp; ejaculation? -

09, very risky especially if you are clumsy, I always end up hitting myself in the chin.

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it actually helps you produce more sperm.... me and my husband are trying to concieve, and due to the fact that he already did one tour in iraq, he did a lot of research.... you can only imagine... lol it won-t hurt anything, but if you do it to much it will cause pain to you.... (speaking from my husbands point of view)

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Well, the frequent masturbation can irritate the skin, and sometimes cause cuts to form. As for the ejaculation, i-m not so sure about.

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Not only is it not harmful, the urge to masturbate is meant to help keep your sperm in optimal condition. Read the article below and scroll down to -sperm warfare-:

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2. Doing it too frequently might result in some chafing or soreness. Be sure to lubricate properly and clean up thoroughly afterward.

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It is not bad for you...

I asked this is CPR (Creating Positive Relationships) =]

She said there are no symptoms. hahaha

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It depends on if you are masturbating so much that your penis is sore and literally raw. If you masturbate and ejaculate once or twice a day I would say the number would rate at 0.

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-10, because for men and even woman, it-s very good for health. In men I think it-s the best to flush carcinogens and keeps your junk safe from cancer.

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3
You can cause irritation from frequency but that is the only harm... rubbing yourself raw... lol

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masturbation is healthy prevents prostate cancer and many other things
0

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8: anytime you become dependent on stimulation, it-s not good

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lol it is not bad for you, it relieves stress which is good for you.

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IT is not dangerous at all.

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0 (or 1 if we use your scale)

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Pretty dangerous....you might hit somebody in the eye with that stuff!!

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0 lol

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How about 0?

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umm it makes last less
in actual sex so for girls 10
for guys 0

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11?! your penis can blow up!

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r u serious? YOU WILL DIE

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YOU WILL GO BLIND!

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How to over come premature ejaculation? -

How to over come premature ejaculation? -

Depending on severity, chronic premature ejaculation can be significantly reduced, or completely cured. Most sex therapists prescribe a series of exercises to enable the man to gain ejaculatory control. While the exercises are intended for men who suffer from premature ejaculation, other men can use the exercises to enhance their sex lives.
By far the most common exercise is the so-called start-stop technique. While the technique varies, the purpose is to get the male accustomed to maintaining an erection for an extended period of time while gradually increasing sexual tolerance. In doing this exercise, the male obtains an erection through self-stimulation, or masturbation. After achieving an erection, he stops stimulating himself until he begins to lose his erection; at that point, he begins to stimulate himself again. Gradually, over a period of several weeks, he is able to stimulate himself for longer periods of time, eventually gaining ejaculatory control. In order for this technique to be successful, the male should avoid feeling discouraged if he ejaculates rapidly; instead, he should use his sexual responses to learn how to vary the technique in a way that most benefits him. The male can choose to integrate his partner into these exercises.
Kegel exercises, which consist of flexing the pelvic muscle, also play an extremely important role in achieving ejaculatory control. A person can locate his or her pelvic muscle by using it to abruptly stop the flow of urine while urinating.
Kegel exercises are easy and can be performed inconspicuously at any time, unlike the more difficult start-stop technique. The exercises vary, but their aim is to strengthen the pelvic muscle. The male might flex his pelvic muscle for ten seconds, relax for ten seconds, and then repeat the cycle for as long as he can. Or he might flex the muscle ten times, relax, and flex it ten more times, and so forth. Eventually he will be able to flex his pelvic muscle for longer periods of time. Together with these exercises, he should practice learning to release all pressure from the pelvic muscle, which enables the relaxation necessary for sexual satisfaction. The male might also benefit from performing these exercises while erect. While Kegel exercises are helpful in overcoming premature ejaculation, they have been shown to improve the sexual response in both men and women.
The idea behind these pelvic muscle exercises is that with a stronger muscle, the sufferer can stop the flow of ejaculate at will, and he will be able to achieve the orgasm without ejaculating or losing of erection.
The male can evaluate the progress of exercising while urinating. He must try to release only a tablespoon of urine and stop the flow for 2-3 seconds, then to repeat the cycle. When he is able to hold and release the flow without any problem, a good control has been achieved.
The male-s partner is usually integrated into the exercises. They can stimulate the partner using the stop-start technique. When the male has achieved some level of ejaculatory control, he can insert his penis into his partner without thrusting. After his penis becomes accustomed to being inside his partner, thrusting can be gradually included, according to the male-s abilities, using the stop-start technique. In less severe cases, the male might overcome his premature ejaculation early on, making exercises with his partner superfluous.
Men who suffer from premature ejaculation should also practice other forms of relaxation, such as taking long, deep breaths. SSRI antidepressants have been shown to delay ejaculation in twenty to sixty percent of men. While drug and alcohol abuse are linked to several forms of sexual dysfunction, men who suffer from premature ejaculation might benefit from alcohol in very moderate amounts prior to intercourse, such as a glass of wine over dinner. Other pharmaceutical products known to delay male orgasm are; opioids and diphenhydramine.
The male-s partner plays an essential role in enabling him to overcome premature ejaculation. Without understanding and emotional support, the male is unlikely to obtain the level of relaxation required for sexual satisfaction. Both the male and his partner should communicate their feelings openly and with sensitivity. The male should learn to sexually satisfy his partner, orally or otherwise, while they work with him to overcome his premature ejaculation.
Hypnosis has also proven very effective in the treatment of Premature Ejaculation. It is believed that ejaculation is a subconcious habit and by giving the mind hypnotic suggestions to last longer, the problem can be greatly alleviated if not completely cured. Most men report dramatic improvement after only a few sessions of hypnosis.

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tie a knot in it hehe

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as I understand it, premature is either because the guy is young, over enthusiastic, or hasn-t had sex in a long time so is over anxious....But, sometimes it-s a good thing to have premature. It-s nothing to be embarassed or sensitive about.

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practice sex more and just work on control.

It-s all about holding back. Realize that pleasure can last longer, the longer you hold back. good luck

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Shag it out first and then penetrate.

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not to think more about sex and try YOGA to stop premature ejaculation

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viagra pills!!!

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use a double condom this will reduce the sensation a Little

How to over come premature ejaculation? -

Help me control my premature ejaculation? -

Help me control my premature ejaculation? -

I am in my tweens age group.Whenever I have sex with my gf I always have ejaculation just a few minutes after penetration.And I think that this is causing some trouble to my gf as she has never said to me that she ever had good orgasm. Even when I masturbate I come very early.This is a really embarrassing problem for me and is ruining my relationship grossly.kindly answer to my questions below ...

If this is premature ejaculation then can you please explain it?

What causes it?

Is there any good training program or book to control it QUICKLY ?

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From the problem you stated it appears that you are suffering from Premature Ejaculation.Many men suffer from it but most of them are shy to tell it publicly.I am happy that you have been frank enough to expose your personal problem to the world.I have done a bit of research and tried to write a lengthy response to all your questions.Hope this helps out many other men like you...

What is premature ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual problems. The condition is most often described as being an inability to delay ejaculation to a point when it is mutually desirable for both partners. The definition of when ejaculation is premature is subjective. While some men have trouble controlling their orgasm upon entry, others consider 5-10 minutes of copulation too little time. How long a man is able to last is not the important factor in diagnosing premature ejaculation. The crucial issue is if a man is satisfied with the length of coitus.



What causes premature ejaculation?

Most men have experienced this problem at some time in their life. Premature ejaculation was once thought to be caused by drugs or certain infections such as urethritis, but popular wisdom suggests it is more psychological in nature. The exact cause of the condition, however, still remains a mystery.

Premature ejaculation often occurs during the first experiences with sex, and in this case is most commonly attributed to anxiety. The majority of men gradually learn to control their orgasm, and have no lasting effect. Some men will develop a longer-term anxiety toward sex, which can cause a prolonged experience with premature ejaculation.

Sexual behavior is also a factor. The longer the period since last ejaculating, the quicker young men typically reach orgasm. Younger men tend to ejaculate more quickly than older men, as experience seems to be associated with ejaculatory control.



Any good training book on premature ejaculation?

Luckily I don-t face this problem, thus I haven-t personally read any book on premature ejaculation! But my cousin was suffering from this same problem and he was really worried about it. I had asked him what he did to control his situation. He said that he first tried to search the internet for getting free information on techniques to control the timing of ejaculation. He did find some techniques but could not follow them because there were no accurate instructions on how to practice them correctly(once he had even bruised his pennis while following a squeeze technique in faulty manner! ) So I suggest you to buy some good book on premature ejaculation rather than going for free methods and risking your parts. My cousin afterwards had bought an ebook called Ejaculation Trainer written by Matt Wutzke .He said that it had helped him a lot to extend ejaculation by an extra 15 minutes within 1-2 weeks and he has been improving since then. I first had thought that the book contained some advice on using drugs, but my cousin said that this book had techniques to treat PE naturally without any drugs. Now I don-t want to appear like a sales-person promoting that book, thus I am not giving you any links to buy this book. Rather I searched for a review of this ebook on Google and luckily found an unbiased review of this book whose link I am posting in the sources box below.

Hope my answer helps and I wish you good luck to get over this problem like my cousin did

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most young guys in early sexual relationships with a partner have this issue and it is only with practise that they improve their performance
You are right though that sex with a partner should satisfy the needs of both parties and not just the guy
You say it happens when you masturbate also , so practise edging , which is fairly straightforward . You cease stimulation as you feel orgasm approach , then commence again after a little while . You do this stop/start for as long as you can and over time can build up to longer sessions
Similarly during intercourse , you can stop penetrative sex , and switch to using your hand or mouth to arouse your partner and this will lengthen the session . However if all else fails and you do orgasm too quickly , just continue stimulation of your partner and at some stage you will become erect again and 2nd orgasms will normally take longer anyway
Just keep practising , be honest with your partner about how you are trying to improve your technique , and above all just enjoy the time you have together rather than worry about ejaculation before she has reached orgasm

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you could try the masturbate and stop Technic play with your penis more and more slowly as you approach orgasm then stop when it feels you are going to come wait a moment then start again this Technic helps you to recognises the feeling just before orgasm you then have to transfer the knowledge to your love making.
If your girl friend cannot get to orgasm before you it-s not necessarily that you are coming to quick it could be your foreplay Technic which you need to improve on when we girl say we want a man that can last it does not mean that we want him to be on top for thirty minutes or so get the foreplay right and you should not need to be (on top ) for more than five to ten minutes max good luck happy humping ;-) x x x

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book mike castleman-s -great sex- he adress pe in it, and the two ways of trying to retrain your body.

that said, if your gf hasnt had a really good climax, you arent doing your job. 70+% of women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation. if you arent doing oral, using your fingers or a toy to give her a climax, you have a lot to learn about sex.

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Hi Tamas

You need to relax more and have a lot more foreplay.
When you are both relaxed then have penetrative sex.
You will be fine.
Try not to think about the premature ejaculation though as the anxiety of that may affect your sexual performance.

Best wishes
Andy

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What the hell are you doing having sex anyways if you are only in your tween!. Have you ever thought that this is the problem.

Help me control my premature ejaculation? -

Ejaculation question? -

Ejaculation question? -

At what age does ejaculation start?

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Wet dreams start at around 12-13 years of age when the male hits puberty, from then on puberty and hormones usually kick in and they masturbate and ejaculate from that. But it usually starts at 12 or so.

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It depends on the age you start puberty. Many people are able to ejaculate at around 12-14 though it is normal to start either befor or after that time period.

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from age 13 or 14- 15

or u can find someone who aready is ejaculation, like me and get w/ them

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around 12-14 just a rough estimate

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I was waking up in my own mess at about 12.

Ejaculation question? -

Ejaculation?? for adults, prefrebly men? -

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I was wondering something, I was masturbating my bf (sry to be explicit) and he ejaculated. It came out very liquid and milkish white color, very light white. It was the 1st time for me to masturbate him, so was wondering if thats normal for a guy or does it depend on every guy?? I thought it wasnt going to be so watery and light white....

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Yes, this is absolutely natural. Also you are correct! It does depend on every guy. The taste, the amount, the texture, the consistency, the smell and the color of ejaculate varies from every single man. The colors can range from an almost yellow, to almost bleached white and the ejaculate can be either very thick, or also extremely watery. No worries, your man is perfectly normal ^.^

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yes its normal, and its semen that your seeing not sperm. sperm are microscopic and can not be seen by the human eye, semen is the liquid that sperm is in.

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That-s normal it-s sperm and the color and density depends on what he-s eating so no problems .

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yup it-s normal.that juicy called sperm lol.


-ham@KEHOE-

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Normal . normal, normal...

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Try it on someone else. Then you can compare.

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Normal.

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Normal.

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What did you expect it 2 come out like glue thick and real white? lol j.k

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That is very normal, dont worry

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Normal and called semen (has sperm in it).

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that is what semen is ,

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its normal..

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yes it normal

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of course it-s normal

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its normal its a think called sperm....

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yes it called sprem

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it should be more like lotion...taste it next time and report to us on how it tasted.

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yes its normal,

and no agness! its called sperm. lol

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Another Ejaculation Problem? -

Another Ejaculation Problem? -

Well, about 2 hours ago. I ejaculated and I went back to watching TV. But after 30 minutes I noticed that my penis was still hard? I tried putting an ice pack on it, it didn-t work. I tried heating up a cloth and placing it on my penis, and that didn-t work. And also didn-t feel too well. I have anger problems, which doesn-t help me because I have started beating it in an aggressive type manner. It is still very hard and I don-t know what to do. Please help.... I-m scared.

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try sex, i hear its very helpfu,l

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Just relax and chances are it will go away. There is no point in beating your own meat literally. Your penis turns out to be one of the best friends that you will ever have.

If you took something like a Viagra capsule, and if your gear doesn-t relax going on past 3 hours, call a nearby hospital emergency number and ask what you should do.

Taking care of yourself is way more important than weather or not you are embarrassed about it all. You need your equipment working good for a long time ahead.

There is also some value in what Ferick says, because bringing yourself to another orgasm might just cause the system to play out and relax, and release the blood which is being held in.

Hoping the best for you Man

Me!

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You may have damaged the reflex that allows your penis to release the blood flow back into your body. If your penis is still hard after 6 hours get to the doctor IMMEDIATELY! Try masturbating to ejaculation again and see if it will go down. If not go to the doctor NOW! Your penis can be irreversibly damaged if it stays hard for too long. Good luck and calm down!

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if you keep thinking about it, it will never go away. do something that gets your mind off it and the hot girls at school or whatever. play a video game, listen to some music. once you into the game or music you wont even realize its gone away.

ben

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Stop thinking about it. The more attention you give your penis the more persistent it is.

If that still doesn-t cut it for you, masturbate again til you ejaculate and it should go away.

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That my friend is called -Second B0ner- and it is a very useful little friend to help you have lots of sex...
So what you have to do is obvious...use it! Jack off again or have sex if your lucky...

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See your doctor. It could be priapism and could cause damage

Here from the Mayo Clinic


http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/priapis…

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Flick at the base of it with your fingers. You can also snap a rubber band at it. If that fails, have a hamster bite it.

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Lol! Don-t hurt it. Now im not lying when i say this. If it lasts for 4 hours, you must call 911. No joke. If you think im lying, search erection for more than four hours.

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sing a song in your head over and over until it goes down

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According to the Viagra and Cialis ads, this could be a serious condition if it lasts more than a few hours. Try posting your question at WebMD.

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staring at your grandpa naked would definately help you a lot right now.

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lolz X Infinity. Uhh stop thining about the hot girls at your school, and when they bend over how you wanna **grab them**. Also i wouldnt advise hitting your penis, it has feelings too.

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If 2 more hours pass. Then go see a doctor.

For now, just masturbate again.

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just masturbate again or leave it and it will go away

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Pre-ejaculation? -

Pre-ejaculation? -

i was just wondering how big of a possibility is it to get pregnant off pre-ejaculation. i know it is possible but does this kind of thing happen often?

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Well I think It-s just less of a chance but still a big chance. It is sperm and it is inside you so if those little DNA sacks swim to your eggs you will get pregnant. There isn-t as much force as in a regular ejaculation but that doesn-t really matter so yes, I believe it is a big possibility.

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Well. . . . it is possible. . . .but uhh. . .i dont think its that big a risk. . . .of course thats a chance some guys wont take. . .just use a condom or something

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You bet!

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yes there is a possibility. its not as big as a full ejaculation. but there is alot of sperm that comes out with just a little ejaculation. you should always wear a condom and then
you wont have to worry about it.

BE SAFEEE

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How much time does it takes for an average adult male to sustain erection in a womens vagina befor ejaculation -

How much time does it takes for an average adult male to sustain erection in a womens vagina befor ejaculation -

i just followed valkyrie here... i guess i just hope for a good finish, i don-t really care about the amount of time...

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It depends upon persons, it varies from person to person, temptation, sexual urge, attraction, romance, foreplay, health, nutrition all these factors will decide time. before ejaculation it will remain from 5 minutes to 1 hour. A man can himself decide the time according to his health and techniques.

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stop bothering with this bullshit. some women cannot keep their legs open for more that a few minutes, some cant keep them closed that long. wht matters is that u have had a decent foreplay and the lady is as aroused as u are. then it doesnt matter whether its a few minutes or viagra-loaded-hours..............

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3-5 minutes sober, 3-5 hours drunk with viagra. which does she prefer? 3-5 minutes with 45 minutes foreplay.

Rishi, if I only spent that much time on my missus she-d think I-d booked a table at a restaurant and didn-t have time to finish what I-d started.

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Average person with foreplay and without any drugs 5 to 10
minutes.

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Average person with foreplay and without any drugs 4 to 6 minutes

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oh, on average about 12 minutes

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Depends on how much they-ve had to drink.

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3to5 minutes

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I-ve had guys shoot it on my leg before even getting it in.

Do I still have to count them as someone I had sex with?

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you didn-t have to tell every one valkryie

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Depends on the person, his feelings - more.
pkn

How much time does it takes for an average adult male to sustain erection in a womens vagina befor ejaculation -

How to control ejaculation? -

How to control ejaculation? -

I ejaculate within seconds of intercourse. I am married for 10 yrs.

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http://www.treatprematureejaculation.net
published a list of treatments and techniques to prevent and cure premature ejaculation.

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Dont get urge to have sex
speak with your partner and slowdown your act on her body and keep slow movements and dont think about the final count down. You need to contole your temprature by taking a cup of milk before having sex. relax yourself for few miniutes then act with your partner without any urge. You can definitely controle. If not there are spray to controle the sensitivity. But dont use large quantity. You may lose the tension when needed. Try Meditation.
all the best

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Strange.... and why are you asking for help only now?!
I don-t know your age but I guess you just have lived a great part of your life, just the best then, together that bad dysfunction! If you-re actually resolved now, don-t waste further your time and meet both an urologist and a psychologist. You can improve a little bit, surely!

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Get your wife to gently tug on your balls before you come and this should delay it, either that wear a cock ring.

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put some lubricant and slide u penis completely in side then
stroke with the base of u penis not the top if u feel like coming pull out and wait for few minutes then try again
there are some sprays that make it num plus tru to use a condon to make it less sensitive

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First I think you should see a doctor, I had the same problem and went to a doctor, it worked.

1. Count the strokes till you ejaculate (eg.say 50)

2. Next time when you have intercourse stop at 30 relax inside, again stroke another 40, relax do 50. You keep continuing this till you reach say 100 and gradually you will increase. All the time let the penis be inside.

This was given by the doctor and it has worked for me

Hapy intercourse.

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Masturbate half an hour before.

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Have you tried chinese herbs to prolong your love making session?
Some information at
http://www.xtrajoy.com/blog.

How to control ejaculation? -

Teen Problem - Ejaculation Problem - Very New To Manhood amp; Puberty - Cant Have A Therapist. Can You Help Me? -

Teen Problem - Ejaculation Problem - Very New To Manhood amp; Puberty - Cant Have A Therapist. Can You Help Me? -

I want a therapist to help me but my parents say no because you pay money. It-s embarrasing for me though to tell a therapist this. Can you help me?
Can you please help me, please? Thanks. Here goes:

-Well, I am 13 and a half year old male - I started to ejaculate about 2 months ago - I always wash my hands, take a bath/shower. I just, like, hate my sperm. Especially when it goes on my stuff and how it gets there by semen stuck on my hands and all that. I am new to this stuff. I also hate how when once my sperm gets on something, I chuck things in the bin (not expensive things because my parents say no plus it-s expensive). I want so help! I need help! like if I have something that is my favorite, such as an MP3 and my semen got on it, I wouldn-t want it anymore. Please help me! Thanks.
Here are few questions that I also want you to answer:
1. If a little bit of semen got on your stuff, what would you do?
2. Would you care if your semen was on your hands dried or just leave it?-

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Semen is a natural substance that you such be proud of. Someday you will have kids, which will originate in you-re semen, do you really want to be grossed out by you-re own kids. You have to try and deal with it being on stuff, like every other session clean the stuff off, and don-t throw it away, increase the number of days you do this. You HAVE to try hard to correct this problem. After you have corrected it then you can move into a room with not as many objects, but you need to solve that problem first.


Don-t worry about getting someone pregnant, unless sperm are inside the vagina they die in less than a minute. Don-t be ashamed in you-re manhood, you-re a man!

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oh, yes it-s dirty. you should deal with it

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Well, I am 21 and started ejaculating around your age however I did not have the same problems you are dealing with.
Ejaculating feels good, right? That is why you continue to do it. Its normal and part of every boys puberty so don-t feel ashamed talking to someone about it.
99% of the world admits to masturbating, the other 1% are liars.
Sperm is gross...agreed, but its not like your eating it.
To avoid getting it on your stuff, I suggest not ejaculating near your stuff. Problem solved. Don-t get a girl pregnant!!! If you need to have sex, wear a condom but you should not be having sex at 13, wait until your mature enough..you don-t sound like you are quite there yet.
When most people do it or at least when I do it and it gets on my hands or body, I shower, I usally do it at night so I shower after...relax and good luck+

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I-m guessing that your parents messed you up in your thinking about your semen, so they owe it to you to let you talk to some kind of counselor, at least your family doctor, about this.

First, it-s not all that unusual for boys to not like their own semen. My buddy in college was that way, but he got over it.

Please believe that fresh, wet semen is not -unclean waste- like your urine, it-s perfectly safe and healthy to touch, or whatever. You don-t have to scrub down after touching it. The only reason you need to wash it off your hands is that it eventually decomposes and then it can be a haven for germs. But not as it comes out of your penis.

Most guys (boys and men) use a special towel or pillowcase to masturbate and ejaculate into or to clean up with. Just be sure to wash it regularly so that it doesn-t become germy and smelly (again, not because semen has any germs in it, but because it attracts germs when it decomposes).

For every boy like you who is uncomfortable with his own semen (let alone someone else-s), there are boys who like to spray themselves with it when they ejaculate!

Bottom line: you-ll live. Semen is harmless. Try not to fret over it.

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1. wipe it clean. (always secure some towel at your side to wipe your semen)
2. i will wash it of course! that-s a lot of mess.

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This is all new to you, so I do understand why you-d have questions.

As to what to do with semen: Just wash your hands/junk with soap and water. It-ll come completely clean. If a spot of semen were to get left somewhere on your body long enough to dry, no big deal. It-ll flake off. If some gets on your sheets, no big deal. It-ll come out in the wash. If some gets on your belongings, like your MP3, same thing. It-ll wipe off (just try not to shoot it on your belongings!)

You-ll get used to the whole issue shortly. But there-s no danger involved with semen, and it comes clean on virtually everything.

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wash it off, and don-t *** near your stuff. its very easy to control. use a tissue or a rag.

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also beware of Lawrence I. Sank-s -Traumatic Masturburatory Syndrome-

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I think you are right. You do need a therapist. Good luck.

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Wash your hands and clean your things with wet then dry towel....better yet just masturbate where you will not bust on anything....do it on a towel or in the toilet

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I can-t imagine how you manage to soil all your stuff? I-d wipe it off and leave it be.

I doubt you suffer from a phobia, but you link your fear of semen with the -unclenliness- of the act you are doing. Sooner or later you-ll realize that what you are doing is perfectly fine, and 95 % of all men do it. When you come to accept, you will no longer be intimidated by your own associations.

You do not need a therapist. You-ve just been introduced to a new stage, and it-s OK to be insecure at first.

Out of hygienical reasons, I-d reckommend you wash off afterwards.

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First of all don-t be emabarrased. You don-t have anything to be embarrassed about. You said yourself that you have just started experimenting with self pleasuring. Okay, semen can be bit messy, but it is completely sterile so it wont hurt you in anyway. And it will wash out.

If you after a while you would still like to see a therapist there are plenty of help lines for to call; but I would suggest that you wnet to see your doctor, without your parents knowng, and ask him for a referal to a therapist. It will be free on th NHS.

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Firstly masturbate some where, where it is nearly impossible for your semen to get on your stuff. Aha! a perfect example the bathroom when you have a shower do it in there, all the -evidence- goes down the drain and you can wash everything while your in there!
Secondly i Don-t get semen on my stuff because i masturbate in the shower!
And Third this wouldn-t happen to me becauseeeee......i masturbate in the shower! no drying up no nothing!

I-ve got one solution for you!
Masturbate, ejaculate and **** in the shower!

PROBLEM SOLVED! (:
Hope i helped,
Yours sincerely Zo.

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how in the world are u busting on all your stuff that makes no since what so evr and if there is bust on my hands it doesn-t rlly bother me have a girl jack u off then it will get on her haha j/k but I don-t c y this bothers you so much if it gets on ur stuff then take a wet cloth and wipe it off (and I still don-t understand y or how its gettin on ur stuff) and its not a big deal if it gets in ur pants when girls are all ovr me I do it and its no big deal

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MASTURBATE AWAY FROM UR STUFF!
problem solved

Teen Problem - Ejaculation Problem - Very New To Manhood amp; Puberty - Cant Have A Therapist. Can You Help Me? -

Teen Problem - Ejaculation Problem - Very New To Manhood amp; Puberty - Cant Have A Therapist. Can You Help Me? -

Teen Problem - Ejaculation Problem - Very New To Manhood amp; Puberty - Cant Have A Therapist. Can You Help Me? -

I want a therapist to help me but my parents say no because you pay money. It-s embarrasing for me though to tell a therapist this. Can you help me?
Can you please help me, please? Thanks. Here goes:

-Well, I am 13 and a half year old male - I started to ejaculate about 2 months ago - I always wash my hands, take a bath/shower. I just, like, hate my sperm. Especially when it goes on my stuff and how it gets there by semen stuck on my hands and all that. I am new to this stuff. I also hate how when once my sperm gets on something, I chuck things in the bin (not expensive things because my parents say no plus it-s expensive). I want so help! I need help! like if I have something that is my favorite, such as an MP3 and my semen got on it, I wouldn-t want it anymore. Please help me! Thanks.
Here are few questions that I also want you to answer:
1. If a little bit of semen got on your stuff, what would you do?
2. Would you care if your semen was on your hands dried or just leave it?-

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Semen is a natural substance that you such be proud of. Someday you will have kids, which will originate in you-re semen, do you really want to be grossed out by you-re own kids. You have to try and deal with it being on stuff, like every other session clean the stuff off, and don-t throw it away, increase the number of days you do this. You HAVE to try hard to correct this problem. After you have corrected it then you can move into a room with not as many objects, but you need to solve that problem first.


Don-t worry about getting someone pregnant, unless sperm are inside the vagina they die in less than a minute. Don-t be ashamed in you-re manhood, you-re a man!

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oh, yes it-s dirty. you should deal with it

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Well, I am 21 and started ejaculating around your age however I did not have the same problems you are dealing with.
Ejaculating feels good, right? That is why you continue to do it. Its normal and part of every boys puberty so don-t feel ashamed talking to someone about it.
99% of the world admits to masturbating, the other 1% are liars.
Sperm is gross...agreed, but its not like your eating it.
To avoid getting it on your stuff, I suggest not ejaculating near your stuff. Problem solved. Don-t get a girl pregnant!!! If you need to have sex, wear a condom but you should not be having sex at 13, wait until your mature enough..you don-t sound like you are quite there yet.
When most people do it or at least when I do it and it gets on my hands or body, I shower, I usally do it at night so I shower after...relax and good luck+

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I-m guessing that your parents messed you up in your thinking about your semen, so they owe it to you to let you talk to some kind of counselor, at least your family doctor, about this.

First, it-s not all that unusual for boys to not like their own semen. My buddy in college was that way, but he got over it.

Please believe that fresh, wet semen is not -unclean waste- like your urine, it-s perfectly safe and healthy to touch, or whatever. You don-t have to scrub down after touching it. The only reason you need to wash it off your hands is that it eventually decomposes and then it can be a haven for germs. But not as it comes out of your penis.

Most guys (boys and men) use a special towel or pillowcase to masturbate and ejaculate into or to clean up with. Just be sure to wash it regularly so that it doesn-t become germy and smelly (again, not because semen has any germs in it, but because it attracts germs when it decomposes).

For every boy like you who is uncomfortable with his own semen (let alone someone else-s), there are boys who like to spray themselves with it when they ejaculate!

Bottom line: you-ll live. Semen is harmless. Try not to fret over it.

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1. wipe it clean. (always secure some towel at your side to wipe your semen)
2. i will wash it of course! that-s a lot of mess.

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This is all new to you, so I do understand why you-d have questions.

As to what to do with semen: Just wash your hands/junk with soap and water. It-ll come completely clean. If a spot of semen were to get left somewhere on your body long enough to dry, no big deal. It-ll flake off. If some gets on your sheets, no big deal. It-ll come out in the wash. If some gets on your belongings, like your MP3, same thing. It-ll wipe off (just try not to shoot it on your belongings!)

You-ll get used to the whole issue shortly. But there-s no danger involved with semen, and it comes clean on virtually everything.

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wash it off, and don-t *** near your stuff. its very easy to control. use a tissue or a rag.

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also beware of Lawrence I. Sank-s -Traumatic Masturburatory Syndrome-

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I think you are right. You do need a therapist. Good luck.

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Wash your hands and clean your things with wet then dry towel....better yet just masturbate where you will not bust on anything....do it on a towel or in the toilet

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I can-t imagine how you manage to soil all your stuff? I-d wipe it off and leave it be.

I doubt you suffer from a phobia, but you link your fear of semen with the -unclenliness- of the act you are doing. Sooner or later you-ll realize that what you are doing is perfectly fine, and 95 % of all men do it. When you come to accept, you will no longer be intimidated by your own associations.

You do not need a therapist. You-ve just been introduced to a new stage, and it-s OK to be insecure at first.

Out of hygienical reasons, I-d reckommend you wash off afterwards.

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First of all don-t be emabarrased. You don-t have anything to be embarrassed about. You said yourself that you have just started experimenting with self pleasuring. Okay, semen can be bit messy, but it is completely sterile so it wont hurt you in anyway. And it will wash out.

If you after a while you would still like to see a therapist there are plenty of help lines for to call; but I would suggest that you wnet to see your doctor, without your parents knowng, and ask him for a referal to a therapist. It will be free on th NHS.

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Firstly masturbate some where, where it is nearly impossible for your semen to get on your stuff. Aha! a perfect example the bathroom when you have a shower do it in there, all the -evidence- goes down the drain and you can wash everything while your in there!
Secondly i Don-t get semen on my stuff because i masturbate in the shower!
And Third this wouldn-t happen to me becauseeeee......i masturbate in the shower! no drying up no nothing!

I-ve got one solution for you!
Masturbate, ejaculate and **** in the shower!

PROBLEM SOLVED! (:
Hope i helped,
Yours sincerely Zo.

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how in the world are u busting on all your stuff that makes no since what so evr and if there is bust on my hands it doesn-t rlly bother me have a girl jack u off then it will get on her haha j/k but I don-t c y this bothers you so much if it gets on ur stuff then take a wet cloth and wipe it off (and I still don-t understand y or how its gettin on ur stuff) and its not a big deal if it gets in ur pants when girls are all ovr me I do it and its no big deal

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MASTURBATE AWAY FROM UR STUFF!
problem solved

Teen Problem - Ejaculation Problem - Very New To Manhood amp; Puberty - Cant Have A Therapist. Can You Help Me? -

Teen Problem - Ejaculation Problem - Very New To Manhood amp; Puberty - Cant Have A Therapist. Can You Help Me? -

Teen Problem - Ejaculation Problem - Very New To Manhood amp; Puberty - Cant Have A Therapist. Can You Help Me? -

I want a therapist to help me but my parents say no because you pay money. It-s embarrasing for me though to tell a therapist this. Can you help me?
Can you please help me, please? Thanks. Here goes:

-Well, I am 13 and a half year old male - I started to ejaculate about 2 months ago - I always wash my hands, take a bath/shower. I just, like, hate my sperm. Especially when it goes on my stuff and how it gets there by semen stuck on my hands and all that. I am new to this stuff. I also hate how when once my sperm gets on something, I chuck things in the bin (not expensive things because my parents say no plus it-s expensive). I want so help! I need help! like if I have something that is my favorite, such as an MP3 and my semen got on it, I wouldn-t want it anymore. Please help me! Thanks.
Here are few questions that I also want you to answer:
1. If a little bit of semen got on your stuff, what would you do?
2. Would you care if your semen was on your hands dried or just leave it?-

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Semen is a natural substance that you such be proud of. Someday you will have kids, which will originate in you-re semen, do you really want to be grossed out by you-re own kids. You have to try and deal with it being on stuff, like every other session clean the stuff off, and don-t throw it away, increase the number of days you do this. You HAVE to try hard to correct this problem. After you have corrected it then you can move into a room with not as many objects, but you need to solve that problem first.


Don-t worry about getting someone pregnant, unless sperm are inside the vagina they die in less than a minute. Don-t be ashamed in you-re manhood, you-re a man!

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oh, yes it-s dirty. you should deal with it

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Well, I am 21 and started ejaculating around your age however I did not have the same problems you are dealing with.
Ejaculating feels good, right? That is why you continue to do it. Its normal and part of every boys puberty so don-t feel ashamed talking to someone about it.
99% of the world admits to masturbating, the other 1% are liars.
Sperm is gross...agreed, but its not like your eating it.
To avoid getting it on your stuff, I suggest not ejaculating near your stuff. Problem solved. Don-t get a girl pregnant!!! If you need to have sex, wear a condom but you should not be having sex at 13, wait until your mature enough..you don-t sound like you are quite there yet.
When most people do it or at least when I do it and it gets on my hands or body, I shower, I usally do it at night so I shower after...relax and good luck+

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I-m guessing that your parents messed you up in your thinking about your semen, so they owe it to you to let you talk to some kind of counselor, at least your family doctor, about this.

First, it-s not all that unusual for boys to not like their own semen. My buddy in college was that way, but he got over it.

Please believe that fresh, wet semen is not -unclean waste- like your urine, it-s perfectly safe and healthy to touch, or whatever. You don-t have to scrub down after touching it. The only reason you need to wash it off your hands is that it eventually decomposes and then it can be a haven for germs. But not as it comes out of your penis.

Most guys (boys and men) use a special towel or pillowcase to masturbate and ejaculate into or to clean up with. Just be sure to wash it regularly so that it doesn-t become germy and smelly (again, not because semen has any germs in it, but because it attracts germs when it decomposes).

For every boy like you who is uncomfortable with his own semen (let alone someone else-s), there are boys who like to spray themselves with it when they ejaculate!

Bottom line: you-ll live. Semen is harmless. Try not to fret over it.

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1. wipe it clean. (always secure some towel at your side to wipe your semen)
2. i will wash it of course! that-s a lot of mess.

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This is all new to you, so I do understand why you-d have questions.

As to what to do with semen: Just wash your hands/junk with soap and water. It-ll come completely clean. If a spot of semen were to get left somewhere on your body long enough to dry, no big deal. It-ll flake off. If some gets on your sheets, no big deal. It-ll come out in the wash. If some gets on your belongings, like your MP3, same thing. It-ll wipe off (just try not to shoot it on your belongings!)

You-ll get used to the whole issue shortly. But there-s no danger involved with semen, and it comes clean on virtually everything.

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wash it off, and don-t *** near your stuff. its very easy to control. use a tissue or a rag.

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also beware of Lawrence I. Sank-s -Traumatic Masturburatory Syndrome-

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I think you are right. You do need a therapist. Good luck.

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Wash your hands and clean your things with wet then dry towel....better yet just masturbate where you will not bust on anything....do it on a towel or in the toilet

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I can-t imagine how you manage to soil all your stuff? I-d wipe it off and leave it be.

I doubt you suffer from a phobia, but you link your fear of semen with the -unclenliness- of the act you are doing. Sooner or later you-ll realize that what you are doing is perfectly fine, and 95 % of all men do it. When you come to accept, you will no longer be intimidated by your own associations.

You do not need a therapist. You-ve just been introduced to a new stage, and it-s OK to be insecure at first.

Out of hygienical reasons, I-d reckommend you wash off afterwards.

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First of all don-t be emabarrased. You don-t have anything to be embarrassed about. You said yourself that you have just started experimenting with self pleasuring. Okay, semen can be bit messy, but it is completely sterile so it wont hurt you in anyway. And it will wash out.

If you after a while you would still like to see a therapist there are plenty of help lines for to call; but I would suggest that you wnet to see your doctor, without your parents knowng, and ask him for a referal to a therapist. It will be free on th NHS.

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Firstly masturbate some where, where it is nearly impossible for your semen to get on your stuff. Aha! a perfect example the bathroom when you have a shower do it in there, all the -evidence- goes down the drain and you can wash everything while your in there!
Secondly i Don-t get semen on my stuff because i masturbate in the shower!
And Third this wouldn-t happen to me becauseeeee......i masturbate in the shower! no drying up no nothing!

I-ve got one solution for you!
Masturbate, ejaculate and **** in the shower!

PROBLEM SOLVED! (:
Hope i helped,
Yours sincerely Zo.

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how in the world are u busting on all your stuff that makes no since what so evr and if there is bust on my hands it doesn-t rlly bother me have a girl jack u off then it will get on her haha j/k but I don-t c y this bothers you so much if it gets on ur stuff then take a wet cloth and wipe it off (and I still don-t understand y or how its gettin on ur stuff) and its not a big deal if it gets in ur pants when girls are all ovr me I do it and its no big deal

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MASTURBATE AWAY FROM UR STUFF!
problem solved

Teen Problem - Ejaculation Problem - Very New To Manhood amp; Puberty - Cant Have A Therapist. Can You Help Me? -

How2 control the immediate ejaculation ...? -

How2 control the immediate ejaculation ...? -

like 2 prolong it

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It is tough once you reach to -no return- point. But as soon as you know that you are gonna ***, just stop right away and take deep breaths. Focus on the good feeling all over body instead of just one point. It your organ becomes highly sensitive, just stop doing it and divert your focus. Try the -stop-start- method. And, btw..wat-s the big hurry...take your time and enjoy!

Good luck!

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it is important both must interested in contuining sexual intercourse
start with a prolonged foreplay that must be from speaking sexy and touching gently hours b4 mating
have light weight dresses or undress completly for free and peace of mind
the food taken b4 mating shd also normal diet
start mating slowly and speak to your partner how she likes this
type of approach
after a slow start stop and speak again .change your positions;then start again
use both hands to caress total structure of partner
tell her you love her most
then come to a good position in which you both wish to mate
pick up speed and prise her then ejaculate
at least you have to try this repeatedly for 4 weeks(twise in a week) for
continous success
HAVE A SUCCESS FUL MATING

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Whyto control the ejaculation man enjoy with your partner. She will love you more and more.

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make sure u have lots of foreplay first so ur not too excited as soon as u go into penetration..

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Use stop and start process.

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count 1 2 10000 and do it

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**** a fuglee obese chick!

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use cock ring

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Ive got a question about premature ejaculation? -

Ive got a question about premature ejaculation? -

A guy goes to see his girlfriend. But he notices that when he is with her and starts touching her and holding her, he starts getting an erection. But after a while the erection subsides and he can feel wetness around the penis. After that, it is hard to get back the erection. It takes time and once it comes back, it tends to do the same thing as before. Would this be considered premature ejaculation? I know premature ejaculation happens during sex and that lots of men suffer from it. But would the scenario I described be considered premature or is it considered something else?

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Yes, I-m afraid it-s a tragic case of premature ejaculation of the worse kind. Ejectulating before penetration of penis is not good, but can be remedied by time - paientce. With the help of the girlfriend, use slow stroking motion of penis till erect, then stop before you reach PONR ( point of no return ). Gradually you will master self control of ejectulation, - length of time for erection, - end up being a great lover.

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Yes, it is premature ejaculation

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no..that-s just lubrication...the throbbing pleasurable spurt would be pre-ejaculation.

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Sounds like something else. If there is no orgasm, then it is probably pre-***, which is a lubricating clear liquid.....

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Something else, it is called pre *** and it is a natural lubricate

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Good news and bad news. It-s premature ejaculation - that-s the bad news. The good news is that it sounds like you-re very young, so you-ll be better able to control your body-s sexual responses as you mature. It-s not likely to be a permanent problem.

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You aint got a worry after a while it wont happen anymore u just have to learn how control it and u will everyman does, it will take but it will be worth it. and yes it is considered premature ejaculation which i don-t believe in, if u *** early then u was meant to *** early.

After a while it wont be a problem

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It is something else

Ive got a question about premature ejaculation? -

Can one gets orgasm withought ejaculation? -

Can one gets orgasm withought ejaculation? -

hi,

I-m not able to ejaculate but enjoy my wife. she-s concern that I might not enjoying since am not ejaculating!

Do u reckon we-ll have issue in future? well, I mean me!? because she-s able to become wet when gets orgasm!

could u plz shed some light?

thanks heaps!

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It-s called delayed ejaculation. There could be any number of reasons but in general, if you ejaculate during masturbation then it-s a matter of too much on your mind during sex. Perhaps you-re overly concerned about your woman-s enjoyment or you harbour some psychological block. Therapy usually involves both partners and is really a matter of getting comfortable with just enjoying sex. The treatment is often a gradual introduction to ejaculating with a female partner perhaps starting with masturbation with the partner in an adjoining room, progressing to masturbation in her presence to her giving a handjob and so forth. There are also communication and touching exercises. The success rate of treatment is supposedly quite good.

Sometimes, the woman-s attraction to the relationship is based on the prolonged sexual intercourse available.

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YES. You might be talking about -dry orgasms- like after many prostate removals. This could also be -Retrograde Ejaculation- when semen enters the bladder instead of emerging through the penis. (Seen a doctor?) As long as you FEEL an orgasm your mental state should be fine. Just not likely to make a baby. (And no oral snack.)

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maybe u need to try different things that might get u more arroused. try different positions, try to have sex in different places not just your bed, try to talk to her and see if she can play into one of your fantasies if that doesnt work then go to the doctor.

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yes, if the flow of semen is blocked by something, orgasm is still achieved. people who wear cock rings experience this. you should probably see a doctor if you are not ejaculating but still reaching orgasm

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After ejaculation should the tip of the mans penis be slightly sore? -

After ejaculation should the tip of the mans penis be slightly sore? -

If the ejaculation isn-t the result of REALLY vigorous sex, then I think you might have a problem. Get checked out for various STD-s, by visiting your doctor or a clinic. Also look for any redness or pus.

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No. Should be checked for STD

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i was gonna say sensitive too .. the testicles may be sore though

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Id say sensitive but not sore.

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only if you got an STD

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not sore, you might have problems dude. just normal or ticklish, sensitive.

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I-m not a man - but, previous boyfriends said that after ejaculating their penis-s would be very sensitive.

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sensitive not sore

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only if the process of stimulation is very very vigorous - like say masturbating for 3 hours - any muscle would be sore.

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I am not a man, but I don-t think it should hurt. Generally pain is the bodys way of telling us something is wrong...Does it hurt any other time??? Maybe a trip to the doctor is in order.

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What the heck are you doing with your wiener that makes you sore?

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