How can I delay ejaculation? -
When I-m having sex, often (but not always) I am ready to come in less than a minute. I-m not sure why this happens, but is there a way to treat it?
If you know you-re going to have sex in advance, rub one out before your date. Once you-re in the act and get the urge, pull out and squeeze the base of your penis for a few seconds. This should you delay coming too soon. There are also cremes designed to desensitize the penis and prevent early ejaculation.
If that all fails, just make sure the woman involved is satisfied before hand. She will be more forgiving of a short performance if her needs were already tended to.
Maybe your not squirting the hose enough, and the tank is ready to burst once the gate is open.
You probably think about it too much and don-t relax. Concentrate on other things other than the joystick, and don-t jab the stick too fast.
Failing that get a less attractive partner. Then you may have the opposite problem, and not be able to do it. Find a balance
If you want to last long you should think of ESPN the entire time you are banging the girl. If you feel like you are getting close to finishing you should slow down and/or pull out. If that doesn-t work then you should last longer the second time you go at it, so just get the first one over with quick and then go longer the second time. You should also remember that this happens to most guys, and it kind of sucks that we have to think of distractions to last longer, but ESPN does work. Think about all the details of the game that you watched that day. Good luck!
you can do a -stop and go.- you penetrate until the point before ejaculating, you withdraw and then stop without any stimulation to the penis. that holds back the semen from coming out and prolongs the orgasms for later.
the pluses to this is:
*you training yourself
*prolonged orgasm
*biiiiggger load when ejaculating
.....i love the stop and go, wrks ALL the time.((pleasurable))
Dont think unsexy thoughts, it might deflate you. Stop, change positions, try things that take the downward pressure of the penis like her on top or you behind with her on her side. Or stop for a bit, stay in without changing positons but do other things to keep her heart rate going while you take the heat off your urge to come, eg suck her nipples, flick your tongue back - forth across the nipple as you suck it, kiss the neck, you know, the usual.
think of family members LOL