Premature ejaculation a BIG problem? -
My husband of 15 years who is almost 40 has had this problem since day one..I thought with age so would the good sex..but as my appetite for sex increases in my 30-s now he still can;t last more then 2 mins......literally 2 mins is the max..HELP!?
There are books which teach easy exercises for the both of you to do as a team. Basically start intercourse stop, squeeze penis and repeat.
Your husband shouldn-t have masturbated so fast 28 years ago to reach his ejaculation as so soon as he discovered the penis was for more than urinating.
Only kidding---go to the Library an obtain a good book to decrease the premature ejaculation and follow the instructions.
Also there are desensitizing creams on the market to apply to the penis. Should you be using condoms during intercourse, try using several at same time to decrease his sensitivity.
This probably isn-t the greatest place to look for serious answers to this - have you tried a professional sex counselor? I took a couple college courses on human sexuality years ago and the professor had a private practice, her specialty was sexual disfunction.
try mental relaxation, breathing, and possibly a c*ck ring
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There are alot of personal lubes with numbing agents in them (they are usually for anal sex to help with the pain) but if applyed to the penis it can numb the pleasure enough to help with staying power.
i-ll do ya if it will make you feel any better
try a cock ring that should fix the problem
Try three things, have him use Viagra or cialis, you get on top, and have him use a condom until you are ready for him to finish. And if that doesn-t work, let him get off two hours before you are ready and then give him the Viagra and get on top and use a condom.
there is an antidepressant called celixa......it was fist desinged for premature ejaculation......works like a charm!.....hubby was on it for depression........lasted hours......and he didn-t have a problem to begin with!