How come I didnt use to suffer from premature ejaculation and now i do? -
When I was about 15 and I got a handjob for the first time, I remember it lasted forever... then gradually over the years I-ve been lasting less (handjobs, oral and sex itself)... What could be the cause of this? I tend to overthink things and worry about stuff too much.. I believe that maybe that first time i got a handjob I didn-t even know that chicks cared that much about their lovers ejaculating prematurely, so maybe when i found out about this I got nervous and developed this problem... Could this problem be related to that insecurity and that maybe I worry too much about not lasting long enough? If so, what can I do to focus my energy in other things and not on my fears? Yoga or something?every guy goes through this
don-t worry
To last longer you could wear more than one condom to desensitize your member as much as possible. You could also try to keep erotic thoughts out of your mind when having sex by doing math in your head or trying to remember the words to a song or something of that sort.
Dear there can be lot of reasons of PE. One of the most important reason is masturbation but there are other similar important reasons too. Like Stress Anxiety , Performace pressue, Psychological blocks, etc
For sucessful treatment we have to first analyze the case in detail so that exact reason of PE can be known
Dr Anil
Sr Sex Specialist
dr.anilkumar@hotmail.com
When you are with a lady, take your time with her. Lots of foreplay and even manual manipulation of her vagina before you enter her.
If you have a good relationship with your current girl friend and she is willing to work with you, ask her to be on top the next time you have sex. Lie completely still (difficult to do) as she inserts your penis and glides her body up and down your penis. This should help you to last longer. Wear a condom since this will also cut down on your sensitivity a bit and help.
It takes practice but if your lady works with you and you take lot of time with her before you enter her body, you should be able to last longer and, if you don-t, you will have already satisfied her by manual manipulation.
You have a lot of pleasure practicing with a willing partner.