Premature ejaculation? -
when i get erection, my penis releases some kind of -pre-***- and then i lose my erection, why? how to solve it? it wasn-t like this at all few months back. i am 29 yrs old. the only difference now is i am more stressed in life and tired with work everyday. please help me, as i am not able to have sex with my girl.
Hope this helps. Good luck :)
To learn ejaculatory control:
Don-t use drugs or alcohol. They-re distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the -relaxation- involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It-s the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.
Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this several times over several sessions. Approach your point of no return, then back off. For most men, it doesn-t take long to develop good ejaculatory control while alone.
Then move on to masturbation with a lubricated hand. Use saliva, vegetable oil, or a commercial sexual lubricant. For most people, lubricants increase the sensual intensity of erotic fondling. Follow the same program: Masturbate until you approach your point of no return, then back off. Repeat this several times over several sessions.
Once you have good control during masturbation, and appreciate whole-body sensuality, and feel comfortable breathing deeply during lovemaking, then you-re ready for the couples program -- if you-re in a couple. The couple approach is called the -Stop-Start Technique.- First, arrange -stop- and -start- signals with your lover, for example, a light pinch or tap, or a tug on an ear.
Then, your lover strokes your penis by hand as you lie still. When you approach your point of no return, give the -stop- signal. Your lover immediately stops stroking you and simply holds your penis gently, as you continue to breathe deeply and pays close attention to the sensations you-re feeling. When you no longer feels close to ejaculation, gives the -start- signal, and your lover begins stroking you again. How many stops and starts should you do? A half-dozen over a 15-minute period works well for most couples. Do what feels comfortable for you.
With stop-start, the focus is on the man. He-s the one learning the new skill. But don-t forget the woman-s sensual needs. As part of each practice session, she might guide your hand over her to show you what she likes.
Once you-ve gained good ejaculatory control with your lover-s hand, try the same stop-start procedure with oral caresses. Again, you begin by lying still.
Once you-ve gained good control orally, feel free to start moving. You-re making love again -- but now you have ejaculatory control. Congratulations.
Its because your thinking to much about your precum. Ok one if your able to see your precum and know when it is coming out of your penis then.....you should try sleeping with a women. trust me just her being there should be enough to keep you erection....oh she has to be attractive to you ...
oh and the other stop looking at your cock just watch porn or something.
oh and if its bad dude try viagra...man it works. my boyfriend tryed it out of fun....hahaha the dog would not sit down !!!hahaha
why in the hell do girls awnser these damn, sick, asswipe Q-s.
You need to seek professional consultancy. I suffer the same and it was diagnosed as what you stated -Stress-. Nothing to worry about bro.
He proscribed me B Complex and Multivitamins. I am far better.
Good luck and have a nice day.:)
stress has a lot to do with it. You need to learn to relax before trying to perform for her. Usually the precu* shouldn-t have you going soft afterwards
First, try to stay calm. I think I know what you-re talking about. Sometimes that happens to me, although I still have an erection. I-m young right now, and I don-t know exactly how can a man lose his strenght like that. Have you tried... mast--------? maybe you can control it that way.
But, I-ve heard somewhere that if you mast------- too much, there is a part of the man-s internal organs (one which closes pee and lets you eyaculate) that may be deteriorated due to excess mast--------. And then you eyaculate automatically without the feeling of an orgasm. Go to a doctor and tell him your problem. Maybe he-ll understand you a lot more.
First you need to go see your Doctor, I really think it-s time for you to go on some kind of Vacation, if you can take some time off work .Don-t think of anything not even sex. Take your girlfriend out for a nice romantic dinner ( If money is a problem ) make the dinner yourself. Take a deep breath and try not to stress your self so much, life is to short for stress. Find out what the problem is with your pre-jack. Till then try pleasing your girlfriend for a while (Don-t worry so much and time will heal all) there are many ways of having sex without actually having sex . Talk to your girlfriend and tell her what is going on , talking is all ways a good thing, hope this helps. good luck !
Try to calm down and just enjoy it.
Many men occasionally ejaculate sooner than they or their partner would like during sexual intercourse. As long as it happens infrequently, it-s probably not cause for concern. However, if you regularly ejaculate sooner than you and your partner wish — usually, before intercourse begins or shortly afterward — you may have a condition known as premature ejaculation.
Premature ejaculation is the most common male sexual dysfunction. In the United States, premature ejaculation affects about one in five men ages 18 to 59. Although the problem is often assumed to be psychological, biology also may play a role.
In some cases, premature ejaculation is a secondary problem related to erectile dysfunction. Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining their erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate.
Numerous treatments, often used in combination, are available to improve premature ejaculation. Asphaton tables is an example of a treatment to your condition
maybe u have std/.............. i dont know.. ask ur doctor
Talk to your doctor...it may be that you just need to relax...but there also may be something more complicated that needs treatment...
Don-t take any chances when it comes to your health...
Stress can wreck havoc on your sex life. And worrying about it only makes matters work. Have an open - honest talk with your gf and remember, sex doesn-t have to be solely with your penis. Your gf will appreciate the attention you give her even without the pressure of the actual act itself! Explore new ways to have some fun ;-)
You should see a doctor... it could be stress but it is better to have a professional check you out... he may know how to hanldle it.
well i don-t know what to tell u maybe something is wrong who-s know maybe u should go to the Doctor or something
kitange solve u even quicker