Is is dangerous to hold back ejaculation? -
Last night my fiance and I were foreplaying and I was giving him a handjob. He normally has no problem with this at all and all it does is set the mood for him, but for some reason within three minutes he was about to ejaculate (this has NEVER happened before; is it something I should be concerned about?). He warned me and I removed my hand, which is what normally happens, and he-s able to calm down and prevent himself ejaculating, but last night he nearly didn-t catch it in time and he covered his glans with his hand to hold back the ejaculate, and he didn-t want to let go overwise it would-ve gone everywhere. What I-m wondering is, he kept this way for several minutes and it didn-t go down, but surely this can-t be healthy for him...? Eventually he removed his hand and ejaculated, but only after a while.It is not wise to do this to prevent ejaculation on a regular basis. There is a valve in the urethra, just after the bladder exit, that closes on ejaculation to prevent semen being pumped back into the bladder. If you close off the exit, the back pressure of the semen forces the valve open and it passes into the bladder. If this happens on a regular basis, the valve can get damaged, and when a normal ejaculation is wanted, it may be weak or even absent.
One time may do no damage, but he would be unwise to do this as a regular part of sex.
There-s nothing unusual at all about him wanting to ejaculate during a handjob - it just proves you-re doing it properly for him. it can get painful if he gets to the point of wanting to ejaculate and stopping it, last night he probably got past the point of no return and had to do it, if he hadn-t he-d have had very painful balls for a couple of hours. If you both don-t want it to squirt everywhere have you considered putting a condom on him before you relieve him? It keeps things much cleaner!
You are correct, it isn-t healthy to hold back ejaculation.
Sex is sex, it is normal to ejaculate from sex, whether it is a -handjob- or a -*******- or vaginal or anal or whatever. When he-s ready to go off -- he should just go off -- and you should not have a problem with that.
Don-t worry, it will get up again in a while, you won-t miss out on anything.
Regards,
Hermes
It-s fine, and actually a good thing. Being able to hold back (without covering the glans) is one way to prolongue the male orgasm, and is one of the constituents of tantric sex.
Sometimes, practicing by holding the glans can be a step in that direction. So long as he doesn-t do it so hard that it causes pain, it-s okay.
It is not a problem, my problem is that you have issues about when he should ejaculate. Depending on how long since he released his last load that he produced and also on the level of horniness a guy can ejaculate from anywhere between 0 and 10 or so minutes. DON-T WORRY and if he wants to let go let him
actually, if ur blocking it and forcing the sperm back down into the penis it can be kinda dangerous. He can end up with retrograde ejaculation. It can cause a lot of pain.
No it is not dangerous. Set the mood for what?? you are either doing it or not.. A guy can only take so much of this though. Eventually he is going to want to finish it. You are playing with fire, if you have no intentions.
No problem. It will work fine next time. He should have let you keep stroking until he went off again. Then it would have got soft and things back to normal. Hey, it happens to us guys.
no its ok,but let c..m during session,use condom if going to make -mess-
Sounds like you-ve got a real two-pump chump on your hands, literally and figuratively.
If his eyes pop out (with the pressure) just ease them back in carefully, should be ok..
no it won-t hurt him but it could be he-s learning to control it so when you have intercourse he is or will become a good lover
Maybe his orgasm is stronger after he-s held it back for a while.
That is a bit strange though...
Wow. Usually, by that point, I would have just given in. No, I think he will be okay though.
Of course not, it might mean he hasnt ejacuated in a while
No. But why do stuff like that if he doesn-t want to ejaculate.
ummdont think so lots of men do that well having sex they hold back as long as possible
it probably hurt
This story is nasty. He has a weenie.
won-t hurt anything
Ha ha ha, that is funny.
Nope its not bad to hold it back.... dont worry... lol
no,its not dangerous.
It shouldn-t be...that-s what tantric sex is all about ..
boy ids he gay or what geez