What causes male ejaculations to ooz out as opposed to quot;shooting outquot; like I USED to? -
Intensity of muscle contractions.You can make it more intense by doing a couple of things. First, when you-re alone, take yourself right to the edge a few times, then back off. Try counting in between stopping and starting. See how many times you can put it off without giving into the urge to ejaculate. It will be more intense when you finally allow yourself to.
Secondly, if you are sexually active, not masturbating between sexual sessions will make it more intense for you. Also, practice what I mentioned above when having sex. She-ll enjoy it more, too, if you are able to last longer -- and it-ll be a turn-on for her knowing you are holding back each time.
The 2nd chick who answered is right, listen to her advice, but also add, what is called Kiegle exercises, they were initially developed for girls, but guys can do then to.
You clench your butt cheeks together or do that thing ever body does when they try to hold back pee,ing. There is a muscle that runs between you legs called the peubocoxygial, thats why some people refer to this exercise as P.C-s, any way squeeze this muscle in sets of ten rest and do it over and over, you can do it any where, it-s not like anyone can tell you are even doin them. You should notice a difference in about a week. Good luck.
What you have to do is to not jerk off for a while, maybe a couple of days to a week. Then you want to take it nice and slow and use the stop and go method. Right before you are going to shoot, stop wait then go again. This make it feel great.
You have to ***SLOW*** ***DOWN*** as you approach ejaculation, if you keep going at full speed all the way through the orgasm then it will just ooze. Slow down to a really slow speed, and -tease- it out if you know what I mean, then it will explode out :P
I thought it was different for different people