Cure for premature ejaculation? -
The problem is premature ejaculation but he tries to stop it which doesn-t work and once he-s done it he can-t go again. He-s tried masturbating before and it doesn-t help. Also tried cutting out forplay which doesn-t make much difference. Need help really bad as it seems to be getting worse. Most times it doesn-t last even a minute :( The odd time he will be ok and can go for a while but most times its not v long. Can doctors help you?Serious answers only please.
there are two ways,,
1 when you notice he is getting close to soon, you stop and squeeze his penis shaft with your thumb and finger in an unsexy way. it just breaks the spell.
2 he stops masturbating except in order to improve his performance, which means he has to stop at least 2 times just before its too late, before ejaculating the last time. he can do this alone or, you can do this with him apparently
you could also do desensitizers, beer, pills and tell him to think of old ladies crossing the road, but theres no neeeed.
Stress, anxiety, weak PC muscle, and inexperience are all causes of premature ejaculation. this is completely normal, because its sad to say that most men suffer from it. Relax, don-t feel pressured to perform, and have fun with it, and the problem will fix itself. You can also do exercises called -Kegels- to further improve your stamina. This helps build the muscles that are responsible from the male orgasm. by training this muscle(PC muscle) you wil strengthen it, therefore strengthening your orgasms as well. the PC muscle is located right between your scrotum and anus. This exercises is done by flexing the PC muscle. the next time you urinate, try stopping mid-stream without your hands, and that is your PC muscle. contract and release this muscle as many times as you can througout the day, and before you know it you-ll have the ability to last as long as you want.
My ex had this problem and after he read this in a book we tried it and it worked, it seems a little odd but try it! It-s not a cure but it does help. When he feels he-s getting close stop and tap on the left side of his scrotum, don-t ask me why but after a moment the sensation goes off and he can continue!
Of course the doctor will be able to advise a more permenant solution but this should do for now. Good luck!
As someone else mentioned, a low dose of an SSRI antidepressant can be helpful for cases of premature ejaculation. The trouble is finding a doctor who would be willing to prescribe this, as there is no licence for it. I would certainly advise that your partner see a doctor to express his/your frustration.
get a man. not what you have.
45min (no stoping) is only average
2-3hours (no stopping) is doable
recharge time is also around 30 min
if its his first 2-3 times then give him a break
otherwise try viagra
if that doesnt work id hate to be you.
Go to an Anne Summers shop and buy a product called delay spray that should do the trick, I had a mate if his girl friend started to get her kit off he would ejaculate , his girlfriend bought the product and he could twenty minutes and they are still together
he needs to try a different partner since the current one is causing stress which will only get worse. maybe it is because his current partner is unattractive or even the wrong gender. Try to experiment
Try changing positions, like doggy style or with you on top. If your on top, be careful not to break his penis.
He wanks too much thats what the problem is
Get your lover to do these exercises.
Maybe your to hot to handle
SSRI such as paxil can help.
Try supplements like Mojo Risen, www.mojorisen.com.
He should not focus so much on what-s ahead of him. He have to control his hormones so he can be steady in pleasing u.
Stop think abt s*x during s*x,
It sounds like a sensitivity problem.
Try a penis pump.(for him not you)