My husband wont go for help, hes got premature ejaculation, what can i do, am really fed up.? -
Perhaps if one of his friends spoke to him about it, it make ease his embarrassment and chagrin
Maybe a condom would take away some sensitivity and he can go longer. If not, maybe he should focus on you orally first before worrying about him.
I apologies for people who think that this problem is deserves to be poked fun at, have you tried the products designed to desentitise there are several on the market durex do a condom with a lubricant that is designed to delay ejaculation. On my other half it worked a bit too well he couldn-t feel his tackle lost his erection and did not come at all. But maybe it will help you.
I would say what is most important is do not take your frustration out on your husband, I bet he feels humiliated by it, the male ego is often a very delicate thing. He needs to feel he has you absolute love and support, maybe then he will feel he can go to his GP for advice.
Good luck x
Be quick for the first encounter. Give him about half hour to get ready again. Start second encounter and you-ll find the period of his -comming- longer than the first. You-ll enjoy doubly this time. Give this a try.
Why does he need help. Is he sick? Is he contagious or in pain? Is he dying?
None of the above. GET OVER IT!
I would have to come round one evening and - show you both how its done....Seriously that doesn-t sound like a joke... first of all you will need to help him...be supportive and don-t laugh...and try and take some time and be alone together with no interruptions....be available for him to -practice on- take it easy....
I prolong it by taking deep breaths - looking away from my wife..and thinking of something other than sex for a moment.. Good Luck ..
give him a w*nk or bl*wjob 30 minutes before you want intercourse
You can help too. What about OS to make you more aroused, or you could help him by using your hands and backing off when he is about to ejaculate. Don-t- make him aware that you are fed up because it can only go downhill from there. Try to reassure him. Good luck
It-s not premature ejaculation, it-s just a time and effort saver.
And it-s not men that suffer from it, it-s the woman :D
Read up about it theres loads of things to try before going to the docs
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relations…
Perhaps the simplest solution is to insist that when he is finished he gives you an orgasm with his hand or tongue.
Another possibility is a c ring
Be sympathetic - he will get over it - of course he doesn-t want to go to the Doc. Tell him to lie back and think of England - that should cure him
This website has some suggestions. Best one which worked for me was the squeeze technique, where the man feels like he-s reaching the -point of no return- he withdraws his penis and squeezes the base of his gland, let it go semi erect, then work his way back to hard. He should over a couple of weeks be able to control his ejaculation.
You can make him orgasm (premature or otherwise) by mouth , or boobs or bodily, then;
Arouse him again after 5 mins -rest- and you should be able to get a bit of relief yourself!
Dont make him anxious about his -delivery- being too soon as that makes the problem worse and leads to guilt and a breakdown in performance.
good luck with yur sex life as well. Enjoy the -twice- method - works for my wife and i for years!
~Instead of putting so much emphasis on his premature ejaculation, have him give you an orgasm FIRST. He won-t be under so much stress about his performance and maybe he-ll get better?
Being mad at him is only going to make this problem worse, he-ll get a complex.
Just get yours first and it-ll be alright.
Good luck.~
Suck him off first, should make him last longer when he is stoving it into you.
numb his penis with ice ,,, and look that penis in the eye and say- dont you ever release quickly you stupid flop- .
contact me i have the reverse
I had this problem myself, try to get him to do this: if he goes over multiplication times tables in his head he will last longer. It really works! Be gentle when suggesting it, guys don-t like to be told there not performing well.
He should consult his doctor.
But if not try www.codwaytechnique.com
It helped me with my PE and I have never felt better sexually.
Good Luck.