Delayed Ejaculation? -
OK, bit wary about asking this, but here goes and it is genuine - sad to say.
I-ve never had a problem with premature ejaculation, quite the opposite. It-s now got to the point where sometimes, I just can-t and it-s embarrassing and frustrating.
Yeah, I know, my partner (female) can have a great time, cos of course, I don-t finish quickly, but I find I am avoiding it altogether as I can-t deal with the feeling of -Here we go again- when everything else works but my body just won-t ejaculate.
Please, I would appreciate some advice, rather embarrassed about going to see doctor about it.
My husband has this problem and it has ended up being one of the causes of our marriage ending. He has never been able to have an orgasm thru sex, only thru masturbation. It is frustrating and disheartening for me. He refuses to get help and so now, after being with him for almost 9 years, I can-t even pretend to want sex with him
Go to the doctor... Get help... The only thing to be embarassed about is letting something like this ruin your relationship.
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Im the opposite you lucky bugger
Someone has blessed you !!!
Cant you even do the job yourself...???
It could be a form of sexual dysfunction which can soon be corrected if you see a doc or if to embarrassed get a book on the subject. Personally I think it is you worrying about it to much that is causing the problem the more you worry the harder it becomes (no pun intended). Relax more and concentrate on the job in hand, if all else fails see a sex therapist.
a few things to think about...
1) Can you ejaculate when you masturbate?
a) If so, then odds are you just miss your hand when your with your girl... jk
2) Have you had a well check up lately...
3) RELAX...EJOY THE MOMENT... YOU ARE TO WORRIED ABOUT IT FOR IT TO WORK!!!!!
well i dont know if this may be the case but you might have started a new medication with delyed ejaculation as a side effect. i would go to the doctor just to see exactly what the problem may be. if he tells you its nothing serious than you may want to get on tantric sex or books on improving orgasms and controling ejaculation.
i hate to think what your girlfriend is like
are you taking an antidepressant?
My husband had this problem when he was on Cold medication. If you are not on anything then I suggest you see a doctor. And do not be embarrassed to ask them anything. They deal with all kinds of problems and since the invention of Viagra and Levetra the doctors have sexual questions all the time.
When my girlfriend thinks I-m taking to long to finish when she-s performing oral on me what she does is simply stick her finger up my *** and that simulates my prostate which causes one to ejaculate.
and no there-s nothing gay about it!
medcation can do this
Keepingthetfaith asked if you are using an antidepressant. I know when I started taking then, it caused this problem (if its a problem). I am able to have sex longer and accually can control my release, girls like it !
Really think you should see the doctor, and don-t be embarassed as (s)he will have seen and heard it all before.
Talk to your partner about it too, cos she needs to know how your feeling. If you-ve started avoiding it chances are she-ll be thinking its something to do with her, or worse that you-re getting it elsewhere. At least if she knows she won-t worry about it so much.
hmmm...well my bf thinks of maggie thatcher or george bush to delay his ejaculation, so maybe just think of something really arousing to help you along?
If you can ejaculate with your hand and spit then thats good, it may be her. your stimulation level may not be high enough. She-s just not doing it for you.Find out what turns you on land do it with her and see if that helps. Sometimes jjust screwing is-nt enough.
make sure you are in good health..
then relax and enjoy it...
and she will enjoy it even more!